Have you noticed that since the second half of last year - in popular TV series and movies, you can hardly find it?Happy marriage and normal parent-child relationshipFinish.
Flowers", "Hot and Hot", "Flying Life 2", "Article 20", ......
All you see is a tragic and suffocating marriage.
In the future, children will see more films and television works that oppose men and women, single-parent families, and encourage women to be independent and strong enough not to need men.
Looking at these growing up next generation, can you not be afraid of marriage?
Film and television dramas are divided into two ways
It's like young people right
Marriage and childbearing are the same
Many unmarried sisters only have two marriage templates in their headsOne is to be happy like a prince and princess, and the other is to die of pain and get a divorce quickly.
Isn't there a third case?
No. Many people are not compatible with the third kind of marriage, which turns water into wine, and turns the beast into a prince with wisdom and kindness.
Many young girls think that a woman should be single or divorced if she wants money, and that enduring a boring marriage means being poor and ignorant.
What? Most of my sisters and I are Kochi women who love beauty, money, publicity, personality, career brains, grew up in the cultural soil of Shanghai, and do not like housework and have no dedication.
We are both married, and we have not delayed our careers.
Over the years, I have persuaded countless sisters to return to the workforce.
Determined not to divorce, be a noble lady + repair intimate relationships, build a good home, and make money and wealth roll in. The more suffering you experience, the greater the blessings. As soon as I started work this year, I received the news of a promotion and salary increase from iron fans.
Yayi is most proud of the fact that I have a large number of post-70s lady readers, and after a large number of post-70s readers pay attention to me, the career road is getting smoother and smoother, and the good news of promotion and salary increase continues.
For the mystery of my teaching is—Hold on to your marriage and let your covering bless your finances.
Naïve girls are easy to be exposed to secular culture, hate men at every turn, fear marriage and childbearing, and turn black and white at every turn, and want to dump dog men.
Mature womanIt is a strong, compatible, career-oriented, and humble person who can fight wits and courage with his bear teammates, not only sensitivity and injury. It is to strive to overcome, leapfrog, create, turn enemies into friends, and turn waste into treasure, rather than defeating, destroying, and antagonizing.
If you don't know what the use of your husband is
Just as he was, he was used for
Prosperous wife and wealth!
Yayi has a good habit of beauty and beauty, managing money, settling accounts, pondering the value of people around him, and figuring out the family style of wealthy families.
Every once in a while, pull Mr. Kim to his side, sit down, and give him a calculation: how much you are worth. It's not that I don't know, but I'm shocked: it turns out that I'm so valuable! I can leave so much inheritance to my children and grandchildren!
When I was young and vigorous, I divorced Mr. Kim.
The team leader persuaded me earnestly: The man you don't look down on is worth tens of millions. She said: A man whose wife looks extremely bad will become a hot commodity in seconds as long as he divorces and enters the marriage market. You can't look at what you want, there are people outside who are rushing to ask for it.
Absolute golden advice.
Later, Yayi counseled her sister's marriage, and she would also rationally settle an account with her who was going to die or live - how much wealth did your husband bring you, and how much would you lose if you divorced?
Even if all your family's money is earned by you, this husband helps you soothe the hearts of the elderly and children, gives you the identity of "a certain wife" and the motivation to repay the mortgage, so that you can swim against the current and have no distractions in middle age, make good money and appreciate.
How much is your marriage worth?
How is this account calculated?
Evaluate the various benefits, treatment, identity, and services that the other party gives you, especially the self-growth after you meet the other party, and use the market price to estimate it.
For example, before marrying Mr. Jin, I was a student from a small town in the 18th tier of Shaanxi, and my assets were two suitcases of clothes.
Thanks to the precious marriage system, Mr. Kim's resources became mine in seconds.
I have the advantage of choosing a job (incalculable), saving the rent in Shanghai for more than ten years (hundreds of thousands), a Shanghai hukou (hundreds of thousands), and the qualification to buy a house and a car (hundreds of thousands). He is handsome and tall, and my descendants inherit good genes, and there is no need to correct eyesight or get height enhancement injections (saving hundreds of thousands). He goes to bed early and gets up early, maintains a good figure, is good at cooking, and is diligent in tidying up, which saves me the live-in aunt fee + security guard + driver (500,000+).
Not to mention, he made decisions on major investments such as moving to Hangzhou and buying a house. Count in the millions. What is even more grateful is that he is healthy, has good teeth, has a good job, and is proud to support his wife's career.
Settle the account, refreshed.
The man who seems to make a lot of money has helped me lay a solid foundation in all aspects: Did I save the galaxy in my last life? I met Mr. Kim at the age of 20.
A happy marriage is a two-way journey and co-creation.
Women should also care more about men, understand the hard work of men to earn money to support their families, less nagging, less complaining, and more understanding and tolerance.
The emotionally healthy side should be more patient with the pessimistic and negative side, and let him see his own value.
Two points to look away, three points to relief
Four points of hard work, five points of open-mindedness
Six points of praise, seven points of gratitude
Nine points of hope, very much grace
Obviously we have a fountain of living water, why can't I get it? Why is this post-marriage love a mirage for me......Is it human nature that we can have love on the outside and then fall into endless self-love and self-pity when we come home?
In the future, an increasingly depraved culture will lead us young people to give up marriage completely and become infertile. The wise see this trend as soon as possible, and watch and bless this generation. You should also keep your own marriage and run and build it well.
When a person is depressed and crying, give me guidance and comfort, bring me light, and tell me the mystery of marriage.
A mother said it well: "My mother's family makes me sensible, my mother-in-law's family makes me independent, my husband lets me run the house, and my children let me be omnipotent.
When I first got married, I often wanted to run away from home and travel with my children, but gradually, I was too lazy to think about it, as if the options were getting smaller and smaller, and all you could choose was to retreat to +.
Who said? He loves me with eternal love.
This love is more gentle, considerate, and in place than all lovers, and it will not hurt. Like Boaz's love – appreciation, respect, and care for ......
Every woman needs such love and a**. That kind of *** wealth from above, he is so rich, you can't use material things, but you can use material things to see the leopard. He was rich to the point where he was still full of love at the time of his +.
So much so that he did not calculate, was stingy, did not choose his words, and did not think of giving up my ......
Human love is too limited.
My spouse still takes care of herself when I need it. While I crave a little warmth, he's still licking his wounds. All marital problems are the medicine that brings us to Him. The ultimate antidote to the humiliation and pain inflicted by our husbands can only be for us to meditate on the soft words and receive the great love of heaven.
A mature woman is strong, compatible, and can fight with her teammates and can help him get better, not just sensitive and injured.
Knowledge makes people arrogant, and only love can make marriage.
We, the women of Kochi + women in the workplace, must strive to overcome ourselves, transcend the big differences between men and women, create a relaxed atmosphere, turn enemies into friends, and turn waste into treasure, instead of knocking down, destroying, and antagonizing. It is not easy to build a home, but it is quickly demolished, may we all do it and cherish it.
In 2024, Yayi loves you.