Zhang Xuefeng suggested that the Spring Festival should not give children New Year's money, and if you want to send something, you can send something that children can use, for example, he gave a dictionary pen to employees, and you can give it to the children of relatives and friends during the New Year. What do you think about this?
Hello everyone, Zhen Zhen has a New Year's greeting! I wish you a prosperous year of the dragon and a bright future for your children!
In fact, the New Year's money has nothing to do with the "New Year Beast", it comes from a kind of goblin called "Zheng".
According to legend, "Zhen" likes to haunt on Chinese New Year's Eve, specifically touching the brain of sleeping children, and then the child will have a high fever and talk nonsense, and even go crazy and dementia.In order to protect their children, adults will keep their children on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, which is called "guarding".
Parents will also wrap 8 copper coins in red paper and place them next to their children's pillows.
Legend has it that the eight copper coins are in conjunction with the eight immortals, and they will secretly protect the child, and once the evil appears, the copper coins in the red paper will shoot out golden light, scaring away evil spirits.Therefore, there is the custom of "pressing money", which is used to protect children.
In addition, during the Northern Song Dynasty, there was also a legend.
The youngest son of the deputy prime minister, when he was watching the lanterns on the street, was kidnapped by the gangsters, and in the process of escaping, he happened to meet the chariots and horses of the imperial court, and the children shouted for help, and the gangsters fled in a hurry.When Emperor Song Shenzong learned of this, he gave the child some reward money to suppress his shock.
Since then, the "New Year's money" has spread, in order to suppress the shock and keep the peace.
Through these two legends, it is not difficult to see that the New Year's money is a good blessing for children during the Spring Festival. Sealed with red envelopes, it is more auspicious and carries the care and blessings of the elders.
If you want to change the red envelope to a gift during the Chinese New Year, some scenarios are not very applicable.
If it is a red envelope from the elders to the younger generations, it is most suitable to use the New Year's money.
Because it carries the good wishes of the elders to hope that the juniors will grow up healthy and safe, it is replaced with gifts, which is missing some meaning after all.
And if it is a big family, it is best to give the blessings of the elders to each junior, but it is difficult to choose gifts that are suitable for children of every age, and it will be especially difficult to have a bowl of water.
If it is between relatives, when greeting each other for the New Year, the New Year's money given to the child is also a red envelope.
Because this is actually a courtesy exchange between **, carrying more human feelings and sophistication, the value of money is clear at a glance, and it will not cause misunderstanding.
As for the value of the gift, everyone has a different evaluation of him, and the feeling after receiving it is also different, which is not easy to grasp.
For the sake of all the best in the New Year, it is safest to give red envelopes.
I don't know if you can get the New Year's money in your own hands when you were a child, but in Guangdong, the children can use the New Year's money by themselves, after all, there are only five or ten yuan, and they are happy to let the children have fun during the New Year.
If this red envelope has become a kind of expectation for the Spring Festival for children, then don't easily exchange it for a giftSo as not to disappoint the children of the New Year.
The famous contemporary writer Wang Meng talked about it in the article "I Think I am the Scale".What you love, you think others love;
What you fear, you think others are afraid of;
What you hate the most, you think is very harmful to others.
Actually, this is often not the case.
Not even at all.
When we give gifts and red envelopes during the Spring Festival, it is actually very easy to treat others with ourselvesI think I have sealed a lot of red envelopes, maybe people only need five or ten yuan, otherwise too many dare not give it to the child, and I am worried that the child will spend money indiscriminately.
I think that sending school supplies such as dictionary pens is what children need, but in fact, children are particularly eager to get a switch.
No one can get into the hearts of others, and don't treat others with oneself in everythingWishful thinking about giving things that you think is good to others is the most "unblessed".
What "self-righteous" gifts have you received during the Chinese New Year? Feel free to complain in the comment section.
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