Zhou Guoping once said that there are two situations in life that can best test the quality of people's spirit, one is success, and the other is suffering.
What is commendable for a person is that even at the lowest point of life, he can also live the poetry of life, just like in the world of thin affection, he still lives his own deep affection.
As the old saying goes: the earth is low and the sea is low, and the man is the king.
In life, let yourself maintain a compatible, low-key attitude, down-to-earth, quiet, in the polishing of the years.
In this way, you can get a kind of cultivation, have some wisdom, and then be able to have a posture that you should have in a low place, and the wisdom to live in a high place.
Eventually, the more mature and independent you are, the more low-key and calm you become.
Low-key is the best growth posture
A person with a mature mind is often the most low-key.
A low-priced person can also live his own nobility, because a truly powerful person does not lie in how high the place he occupies, but when he falls, even if the position is low, he can get up on his own.
Similarly, a low-key person often does not judge anyone in reality, nor does he let his energy go to waste.
More often, they just want to be able to restrain themselves, be able to control themselves, not to evaluate, not to entangle, but to be more calm and independent to do their best.
In this way, no matter what challenges you encounter in reality, you will not be discouraged, let alone give up on yourself.
Similarly, even if you stand at the peak of your life, you will not boast of yourself, let alone be proud.
From beginning to end, it is able to maintain enough maturity, low-key, restrained, and restrained.
In this way, at the lowest point of life, you can also live the color and poetry of life on your own.
Similarly, even at the highest point of life, you can continue to live your low-key and affectionate life.
Zhu Zi's Language" says:Be careful not to talk about people's shortcomings, and don't talk about your own strengths.
In this life, no matter whether we live well or badly, we should be responsible for ourselves, instead of judging others at every turn, and we should not belittle others to elevate ourselves.
In fact, only when a person becomes low-key and humble enough can he be proud of himself, without arrogance and without looking at anyone.
At the same time, when you are frustrated, you can not be angry, but know how to respect everything and let yourself live a noble life.
Low-key is the best posture for a person to grow up.
There is a kind of cultivation called low-key
For a confident person, facing difficulties, setbacks, failures, does not fail to see them as one thing, but does not over-interpret them.
In the same way, even if you are at a low point in your life, you will not let yourself become complaining and negative energy, because for yourself, life is just an experience.
In this experience, a person can only avoid excessive energy consumption and avoid endless internal friction if he is low-key and sober enough.
In this way, behind the scenes, sincerely and calmly enjoy the moment and create the present.
A truly strong person must be able to maintain optimism and rationality on the road of struggle with a low-key cultivation.
Then, in the face of all the difficulties that may be encountered, I will not complain or avoid them from beginning to end, but will be able to keep myself in the predicament and maintain a growth mindset and a low-key attitude.
In this way, you can challenge yourself without complaining, so that you can really be steadfast, brave, and firm in the face of things, so that you can win opportunities and get real changes in your life.
When a person has endured some hardships, endured some pains, and seen some of the darkest, but also some of the warmest moments.
The human heart will be transparent, and the human nature will be understood.
In this way, in the next life, I will be more willing to show a corresponding tolerant and humble posture, live a good life, and do not cross others.
The earth is low into the sea, and the man is low into kings
There is a saying in "Ordinary World": There is no moon, and the heart is also bright.
The color of happiness must be buried deep in the ground, it must be the quietest, the most humble.
Indeed, human nature is difficult to control, and people's hearts are also changeable, whether it is alone with oneself or with others, in fact, everyone will encounter one kind or another contradiction, dispute, friction, and pain.
The most valuable thing about people is that they know how to observe, think, summarize, and reflect, and then they can change themselves, upgrade themselves, and create themselves in the continuous cultivation of themselves.
When you truly see the heavens and the earth, all beings, and your own words, your heart will definitely become more humble and awe-inspiring.
Then, in the face of the rest of his life, he will definitely become more low-key, humble, and introverted.
Because at this time, I must have become more mature, more stable, and more aware of what kind of person I should be in the coming years.