I just attended a wedding and was ...... with emotion
The bride is the daughter of a good friend of mine, a female doctor, who teaches in colleges and universities in first-tier cities, and is excellent in all aspects.
The bride's father is a local university professor, and her mother is a well-known local entrepreneur. Not to mention anything else, as far as I know, there are more than a dozen properties in various places alone.
When the bride and groom first fell in love, I heard the bride's mother mention it and say that her son-in-law was a standard poor boy.
It stands to reason that the disparity between the strength of the two families is too great, and parents will consider whether the two families are the right family?
But the bride's parents didn't care much about this, because the bride's parents were also married under the same circumstances.
The bride's mother was born into a family of intellectuals, and her parents were both college teachers, but her academic performance was not satisfactory and she did not get into college.
The bride's father is a poor boy from the countryside, a student of the bride's grandfather, and by chance he met the bride's mother, so he started his pursuit.
The parents of the bride's mother were also enlightened people, and they felt that the bride's father had a good character and was very good to his daughter, so they agreed to be together.
Before the two got married, the two families planned to buy a wedding house for the couple in the city where they worked, and the man's family made up 500,000 yuan, and the rest was from the woman's family, but the names of the two people were written in the house book.
The bride's mother said to me: It's not that there is a shortage of hundreds of thousands of dollars in the man's family, mainly to show respect for the man's family, more money and less money are the same thing, and it is not too difficult to take out millions of dollars to be honest, but the man's family can come up with 500,000 yuan, which is already the best effort, which is worthy of respect.
The whole wedding scene was romantic and warm, and there was a ** taken at the groom's house that made me feel very touching.
In the background is the entrance of the groom's old house, which has just fallen heavily and the two walk along the village path, flanked by snow-covered wheat fields.
The two recalled the scene when they first met, imagined some small plans for their future life, and walked forward with their fingers clasped, their eyes full of love ......
The wedding was organized by the two families, and the groom's father gave a speech and then invited the bride's father to give a speech.
Although the bride's father is a cultural person, he didn't show off his own culture, so he said: I see my son-in-law like I saw myself back then, and I am very satisfied with myself! Then he made three requests: give birth to a child early! Have a second child early! Give birth to three children early!
The entire banquet hall burst into laughter ......
I have a blind date in WeChat where a local person is employed in the magic capital***, which are all parents whose children work in the magic capital.
These parents will compile the information about their children into a unified format and post it in the group.
Basically, they are all master's or even doctorate graduates from prestigious schools, or in large enterprises, or in government agencies, their parents are basically local public officials, there is no shortage of garages, and some have even bought houses in the magic capital.
Let's put it this way, you are generally embarrassed to send your children's information to the group ......
Anyway, as far as I know, there are only two successful blind dates in the group. But one day I mixed in a small program to promote blind dates, saying that it was specially created for high-end people, and the membership fee started at 1580 yuan, and when the group administrator found out, there were already more than 30 parents who had paid the money.
Actually, I'm not trying to attack the traditional notion of being the right person, and there's nothing wrong with asking for the right person. I just want to say that in this day and age, there are still people who get married because they love each other, and it feels good!