I have a way to help you solve any problems in front of you, you can like it first and then listen to the following story.
It is said that there was an old man who lost the most valuable horse in the family, and the neighbors came to comfort him, but the old man was not very sad, but said to everyone: "Hey, this is not necessarily a bad thing." In fact, after a month, the horse not only returned on its own, but also brought back a tall and strong horse. Everyone came to congratulate, and the old man said flatly: "This is not necessarily a good thing." Sure enough, because his son loved to ride horses, he fell off the horse while riding that good horse and broke his leg. Friends and relatives came to comfort the old man, and the old man said, "This is not necessarily a bad thing." Everyone was blinded at once: the child couldn't fall off the ground, isn't this a bad thing? After another six months, the strong laborers of the village contracted the plague while they went out to work, and as a result, they infected each other, causing many people to lose their lives. And his son couldn't get off the ground and couldn't get in touch with the outside world, so he saved his life.
You see, the wisdom of the old man is telling us: you have to believe that everything that happens is here to help you, and that everything is arranged for the best. When we encounter problems, we should not only look at the surface, and do not look at temporary gains and losses. In fact, you will find that when you don't have that kind of wisdom to see and understand, the ups and downs and tribulations in front of you actually help you make a wise decision.