When we were children, our favorite story was that Cinderella married the prince, the princess kissed and woke up the frog, the princess and the prince ended up being two people living happily together, but the ending that was too dreamy often didn't last long, the reason was that their stories later were nothing more than some like you and me in life, the embarrassment of chicken feathers and the scene of chickens flying and dogs jumping, the princess would frown because of the prince's stinky socks, and the prince would be bored by the princess's nagging, in the end, No matter how beautiful the fairy tale is, it can only be a fragile frustration when put into life.
I remember seeing such a ** on Weibo, a man used his mobile phone to record a scene of a woman squatting on the ground to wash his socks, and the following text is: The school flower of the year, in the end, did not become the person who obediently washed my socks. I don't know if a woman will be sad when she sees it, but at that time my heart was cold for most of the time, thinking about the goddess in my heart that the boy had gone through a lot of hard work to chase, and entered the palace of marriage with a yearning for beautiful things in my heart, but a month and two months, half a year has passed, and you find that no matter how beautiful the school flower is, no matter how difficult it is to chase the goddess, no matter how cold the royal sister is, in fact, it is just a flesh and blood body of two square meters of body, and in turn, it has lost the initial enthusiasm and the urgency to be together after a long time.
First love is a dream and marriage is a naked reality, no matter how perfect the marriage is, there is a possibility of failure, but no matter how fragile the first love is a success, when you are in love, you hold the hands and stroll through the crowded street, what you feel is the small excitement of being squeezed together, after marriage, the road has become a congestion that you do not hesitate to avoid the road, you are in a hurry to go home to feed the child, and you have long forgotten that you and I are in the crowd; When you are in love, you will blush when you see each other close, and your heart will beat faster, and after marriage, you have to endure that beautiful face and quarrel with you after hormonal imbalance, and your face is red and your neck is thick; When you are in love, he is the male god in your heart, the rich and handsome in your mind, you have to accept the truth after marriage, he is also a greasy man who can burp and fart and pick his feet; When he is in love, he always dresses up and appears handsomely in every festival of your hand, after getting married, you have to keep hinting in advance, from shallow to deep, but in the end I just received a sentence: Ah, I'm sorry I forgot, next time make up the comfort.
My advice: don't take the risk and turn your first love into a marriage. The best first love should be sealed in the memory of 18 years old, not in the life after the age of 35, that beautiful green years can be repeatedly taken out by you to taste or observe, but it must not be in your eyes that the greasy uncle who is getting sparse on the top of the head, not to mention the middle-aged sister whose lower abdomen is gradually bloated, the most beautiful love should be like the painting that amazes you, thousands of dollars of tickets can be seen, once brought home, it becomes a tool to hang on the wall to receive ashes, no different from other bought, Occasionally, you will resent it: it is so delicate and difficult to take care of, I really don't know why you bought it in the first place.
Don't shatter the dream of first love, don't let the initial beautiful look become the face of the abomination in later life, the youthful face will hate each other because of the various matters of the seven aunts and eight aunts later, how beautiful the night was back then, how realistic the later life was, don't let you lie in his arms and count the romance of the stars, become the decimal point in the car loan mortgage that you calculated on the calculator later, and the dream is a very cruel thing.
First love is fragile, can't stand the tempering of life, and those years of overcoming thorns, you want an armor, not a work of art with a beautiful appearance, it is better to let that beautiful regret stay in your heart, let that perfect ta live forever in your youth, warm you in the darkest moments of your later life, in the silver hair born on the sideburns, in the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, the beauty of the first love will gently your years, will tell you that you have been so young, so truly loved, I have really felt the heartbeat, I have had sweet love, but it is not the rupture of the artwork.
Let the purest rose bloom in the bottom of your heart forever, and it will not wither if you don't adjust it, and then find someone who loves you in your life, and fight monsters with you, and occasionally take out the rose in your heart when you are tired, and then move on. So, what about you, did you marry your first love later? What about your lives!
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