Everyone has a good side and a bad side.
The wives have always felt that the other half is very good and will not cheat.
It's because they don't show the bad side, you see the good side, and in a "good person environment", this person can show the goodness of human nature.
In a "bad guy environment", this person can show the evil of human nature.
When a man has the idea of cheating because of his greed, the evil in human nature will be highlighted.
Later, he was discovered by his wife, with a conflict of interest, and the cheating man wanted to make himself the party who profited.
The evil of the cheating man will be more obvious, and the wives will feel that the cheating man has changed when they see the evil side that the cheating man has not shown.
In fact, the cheating man has not changed, but he has exposed his true colors.
Previously, an original partner said to Scarlett that her husband seemed to be a different person after cheating.
The man was very good to his original wife before cheating, and he was also very gentle, the two never quarreled, and the wife had a deep affection for the cheating man, and felt that this man must love her, so he was always very relieved about the cheating man, and never suspected that this man would cheat.
But the reality gave the original partner a heavy blow, the man cheated, the junior was a college classmate of the cheating man, not long after the divorce, the cheating man and the junior have been in contact, the junior divorced and sued, and the cheating man also helped find contacts.
At that time, the original wife knew, because of her trust in the cheating man, she didn't ask or care, she didn't think that less than a month after the divorce, the cheating man and the mistress would develop an extramarital affair.
Because Xiao San likes to provoke his original wife, the extramarital affair was soon discovered.
When Xiao San told this wife, she had an affair with the cheating man before the divorce.
When the two of them were in college, they had a good relationship, but whether the mistress had a boyfriend or not, the cheating man had been silently guarding the mistress, and the mistress had experienced marriage and divorce.
also saw the men around her clearly, and felt that cheating men were the best for her.
So the junior wants to snatch the cheating man back, and also says that the original wife is his substitute, and the cheating man doesn't love his wife at all.
In this wave of operations, Xiaosan's wife said that she was more speechless than angry.
She felt that the cheating man had always been so good to her, how could she have no feelings at all?
As a result, the cheating man told this wife with practical actions that what Xiao San said was actually true.
The cheating man protected the mistress in various ways, although he did not mention divorce, but he refused to break up with the mistress.
's attitude towards his wife is not as good as before, and he admits that he likes the junior when he was in college.
These are like a bolt from the blue for his wife, and her marriage is still some kind of stand-in literature.
This original partner told Scarlett that she wanted a divorce to stop the loss, but she didn't want the cheating man and the mistress to have a good time.
Why did a cheating man cheat on her for so many years and make her so miserable?
If a cheating man doesn't take the initiative to pursue it, it's not so good to her, and she can't be in a relationship, she is in pain because she loves this man, so she doesn't want to let go of the cheating man.
As for Xiao San, why does she want anything, what can she get by stepping on the original match?
Scarlett's advice to this original partner at that time was not to drag the mud and water if you decided to divorce.
A cheating man is a person who belongs to you and has no conflict of interest with him, he will be good to you, do a good job on the surface, and look as if he is good to everyone.
In fact, when he encounters what he thinks he wants, he will fight for it regardless of others, and he is selfish and ruthless.
The wife didn't know enough about this man, she only saw his good surface, but didn't see the evil heart.
Since the appearance of extramarital affairs has been seen by the wives, it is correct for the wives to stop the loss of divorce.
At the same time, it is understandable to use this essence of cheating men to fight back and retaliate against cheating men and mistresses.
The wives divorced directly and showed that they didn't have much affection for the cheating man.
The cheating man will start to doubt himself, what is his previous effort?
As long as the cheating man has some entanglement with his wife, the mistress will be very uncomfortable.
After all, Xiao San swore that he was the one who cheating men loved the most.
The wife is nothing, and as a result, the cheating man directly slaps the mistress in the face, and the two of them will also have conflicts.
Cheating men are actually very cheap, you show that you love him very much, and it is difficult to give up if you are cheated, he will pursue his love and trample on his wife's love as a waste.
But if his wife doesn't care about him and abandons him neatly, he wants his wife's love for him instead.
Why do men cheat?
Most of them are because of the evil nature of human nature.
For example, men are more greedy, and they still want an extramarital affair with both excitement and freshness when they are happy in marriage.
After being discovered, he refused to break up because he felt that the affair brought him enjoyment and that he could threaten his wife.
This is all a problem that cheating men have in themselves, and it is also the evil of human nature hidden by cheating men.
Wives have to see the cheating man clearly, and only when you see him clearly can you know what you should choose.
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I'm Yin Sijia, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.