New Year's Powder Bootcamp
In recent years, more and more people have gradually lost their enthusiasm for traditional festivals, especially for the major festival of the Chinese New Year, due to the burden of all aspects of life.
In the siege of marriage, the world of two people has long been transcended
Rather, it involves the fusion and collision of the two families.
The Spring Festival is like a mirror that reflects the marital status.
Every time you experience the baptism of the Spring Festival, it is the most practical and challenging test for marriage.
Some people say:"The Spring Festival is like a magnifying glass for marriage, where every detail is ruthlessly magnified. ”
And the topic of "whose house to go back to for the New Year" is a direct test of marriage attitude.
In the traditional concept, the Spring Festival is usually to return to the man's house, that is, the woman goes to the man's house for Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.
But with the development of society,As more and more only children enter marriage, the issue begins to complicate matters.
For those couples whose two families are not far apart, they may also be able to enjoy the reunion of the two families during the Spring Festival.
But for those daughters who marry far away, coming home for the Spring Festival has become like an unattainable dream.
But the real question is not who you should go back to for the New Year
It's about whether the husband and wife are willing to think from each other's point of view
Whether they are willing to make concessions for the sake of the other person's feelings.
A healthy, harmonious marriage should not be quarreled over such trivial matters
It should not affect the relationship between husband and wife.
Both parties should discuss together to find a solution that meets the expectations of both families
A solution that makes everyone feel comfortable at the same time.
Many times, we don't really need a clear answer, but we need to see each other's attitude and heart. One is willing to think about the other
A partner who is willing to make concessions is the most valuable asset in a marriage.
Therefore, when the Spring Festival is approaching, don't let "who you go to for the New Year" become a stumbling block to your marriage.
Use understanding and understanding to resolve this contradiction, so that the Spring Festival can truly become a reunion and happy festival.
Respect, this invisible flame, warms every corner of marriage.
When faced with the choice of returning to the Spring Festival, some people stick to the traditional covenant of their in-laws, while others are eager to return to their parents' homes to find that sense of belonging.
But a truly happy marriage does not lie in sticking to the wishes of one partyIt's about being able to genuinely respect each other's choices.
Warm each other's hearts with fiery loveBuild a fortress of marriage with respect.
Respect is not only a verbal promise, but also a manifestation of action
Treat each other's family members sincerely and understand each other's culture and customs, so that the marriage can be as warm as spring.
The happiness of marriage is not about superficial vanityIt comes from the deep respect for each other, understanding, consideration and dedication.
In daily life, whether it is a big or small thing, they are willing to think from the other person's point of viewThis kind of marriage is the most warm.
"It's easy to fall in love but hard to get along", and a happy marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties
Mutual respect, understanding, and discussion can create a harmonious family atmosphere.
The Spring Festival is approaching, and we should respect each other's feelings and treat each other's families with care.
Let respect become the eternal melody in marriage, and make every New Year full of warmth and harmony.
If both husband and wife respect and understand with a sincere heart, then this Spring Festival will be a festival full of temperature.
Alex Rovella once said:
"Love is about adding wood to the fire, and only in this way can the fire continue. ”
This is true. Chinese New Year, the grand festival of the year, is like a touchstone of love, which not only brings joy and warmth, but also hides the triviality and fatigue of life.
At this special moment,The firewood, rice, oil and salt on weekdays are intertwined with the red tape of the festival
For example, the choice of New Year's gifts, the gathering of relatives and friends, etc., all test the emotions between husband and wife.
And the person who truly loves you will not hesitate to stand by your side and face all this with you.
They won't ignore your feelings for the sake of saving faceIt's about supporting you and helping you with practical actions.
Chinese New Year, this time of family reunionIt is the most revealing of a person's true character and their attitude towards love.
Sweet words may be easy to say, but true love needs to be put into action.
May you feel the most sincere love of the people around you at this special moment
Hand in hand with you to spend every warm and beautiful festival.
In the days to come, may this deep affection continue to burn and illuminate your life journey.
From the initial heartbeat, to the later heart, from the freshness to the stability and beauty of every day
Marriage is a long-distance race that requires the joint efforts and persistence of both parties.
The Chinese New Year, as the most important time of the year, may be a special test for marriage.
But as long as both parties have a sincere attitude, respect each other, and love with their hearts
Even if there are differences on the issue of the New Year, they can be handled properly and contribute to the marriage together.
In the new year, may every couple have a happy marriage and family reunion.
May we all be with our belovedSpend the rest of your life together
Live up to every sincere love and cherish every deep emotion.
Pay attention, may you live up to every love and true feelings.
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