On the afternoon of July 10, 2015, the weather was clear. Xie Tianqin's mood is as happy and bright as this weather. After presiding over the graduation ceremony of her class, she went home with a relaxed pace. She thought that her son, who is a junior at the School of Economics of Peking University, had just arrived home a few days after summer vacation, and was waiting for her to make dinner. When he got home, he bent down and changed his shoes, but his son coldly slammed him on the head with a dumbbell, causing him to fall to the ground and die immediately. Why is that?
oneIs Yan love?
One of the most common sayings is that "strictness is love, and looseness is harm". In fact, this is not necessarily the truth, being too strict with children is not only not love, but often harms children. Xie Tianqin's education and management of his son is too strict, from elementary school to high school, Wu Xie Yu has been under his strict management and control, even when he goes to college, he has to call her once a day, report what she has learned that day, what she has done, what she has eaten, and she has gone to play in **, and so on. The child has been in a depressed mood for a long time, how can he not form a paranoid and excessive temperament?! Mothers who are strict with their children generally have the characteristics of being strong and self-disciplined. A person who is strict with himself is often jealous and hateful, and he is also very strict with others. Xie Tianqin is a person with strong self-discipline. Her father was a history teacher at the university, and she also majored in history in college, and has been a history teacher at the No. 2 High School Affiliated to Fuzhou Institute of Education. As the eldest daughter, she is strict with herself everywhere, both in her studies and in life, and she has set an example for her four younger brothers and one younger sister. Not only did I never fall in love from high school to college, but I didn't even wear a skirt or high heels. Although she and her husband Wu Zhijian are the same age, the same county, and graduated from high school and admitted to university at the same time, they do not know each other. She has a strong personality and is reluctant to ask for help, sometimes relatives and friends give her **, if the words are not speculative, she will hang up directly, and she will not explain afterwards, her social face is not wide, and she does not have a few close friends. She has the final say in all matters at home. After Wu Zhijian suffered from liver cancer, one of his best friends came to visit, and when people wanted to help his old friend up from the bed, she didn't allow it, so she had to let Wu Zhijian sit up by himself. After her husband died of illness in 2010, this friend gave her 18,000 yuan from colleagues and friends, and she didn't want it. She doesn't need the pity and help of others, and she can solve all the problems related to herself by herself. Her approach was very similar to that of Hai Rui, a Qing official in the Ming Dynasty. When Hai Jui was 4 years old, his father died, and mother and son depended on each other. He was extremely strong, not allowing Hai Rui to play with the children around him, all day long, in addition to reading, that is, writing, until the age of 35, before he was admitted to the Jinshi. As a result, Hai Jui's character of being withdrawn and paranoid, upright, and jealous and hateful was formed. Wu Xie Yu is also under the strict control of Xie Tianqin, and uses his main energy on studying, and his personality is introverted and withdrawn. Although he did well in his studies, he did not feel happy in his heart. He said, "I don't know anything but the exam!" ”
2. Is a good student with a high test score?
Xie Tianyu's father, Wu Zhijian, is the only college student in the village, and Wu Xie Yu has always had a good academic performance under the influence of his parents. The high school entrance examination score was the first in the school, and he was admitted to Fuzhou No. 1 Middle School, the provincial capital. When attending the English training class during the holidays, his father proudly said to the training teacher: "My son is the second place in Fuzhou No. 1 Middle School!" In the constant praise of relatives, friends, teachers, and classmates, he also regarded a good score in the exam as the only thing in his life as a reward for his parents. In particular, on the eve of the 2012 National College Entrance Examination, he was admitted early by Peking University's independent admissions, which raised his vanity and the expectations of his family and friends to the limit. Although he is in the big.
In the first and second years, he won the "Three Good Students" and the "Liao Kaiyuan Scholarship" respectively, but this is only a superficial phenomenon, and his extremely selfish nature and self-righteous personality have gradually begun to be revealed. His best female classmate in high school went to college in the United States, and he also wanted to go to graduate school in the United States. So I took the TOEFL test in my junior year, and I did well in the test, and I also won a scholarship. But studying abroad requires a lot of money, and according to his mother's usual behavior, he will not borrow money from relatives and friends for him. If you don't have money and can't borrow money, won't your desire to study abroad come to naught? Who is the stumbling block in their own way? Mother Xie Tianqin! Some of his classmates in high school and college said that he was very purposeful and planned. After he spent more than two months preparing the tools for the crime, mutilating his mother, and then staying in a nearby hotel, for 21 days, he went home every day to deal with the parcels of the corpse, embalming and other issues, and also installed cameras. What kind of cold-blooded and cruel person is this, and what kind of bitter hatred can he do for the victim?!
3. What is the reason?
After the case of Wu Xie Yu's murder of his mother, there were many articles analyzing the causes. Some say that he was mentally ill and that the mother-killing case was committed at the time of his onset because his two aunts had mental problems. However, it was determined that he did not have any genetics and related manifestations in this area. He himself said that he was merciful and murderous, and that he thought that his mother was living a miserable life, and only sent his mother on the road in order to free her. He elaborated on this argument in more than 50,000 words. In fact, he said this pure nonsense, a lie! If you are doing it for your mother's relief, why do you smash your mother's head and face several times with a dumbbell to smash her head? Not to mention, after the incident, in the name of his mother, he borrowed 1.44 million yuan from relatives and friends such as his uncle Xie Tianying, aunt, uncle and father's friends, and transferred all the borrowed money to his mother's bank card in order to prevent the lender from suspecting. Although his mother did not tell him the password before his death, he expected that the password must be his birthday. Sure enough, I gave it a try. He also imitated his mother's handwriting to write resignation letters to school leaders; and held a resignation banquet in his name. What does all this mean? It all shows that there is only one reason why he is not as good as this beast - in order to receive money from his uncle who is a businessman to go to the United States to study for graduate school, he does not hesitate to kill his mother who is unwilling to ask for help.
Tomorrow is Chinese New Year's Eve, and at the beginning of the new year, Vientiane is renewed. On this occasion of removing the old and laying on the new, I wrote this article to let many parents who hope that their sons will become Chan and their daughters will become phoenixes will learn a lesson from Xie Tianqin's strict self-discipline and control-style tutoring, not to take test results so seriously, and the improvement of mental health and comprehensive quality is more important. From Xie Tianyu to kill his mother. and then to deceive relatives and friends of money, to ** to be a duck, to live in a mess, and finally in the 30 years of life when he was executed by the Fuzhou court on January 31, 2024, the alarm bell rang for a long time, reflect on it!