In life, we often encounter some embarrassing situations, especially when we need to refuse someone's request. Sometimes, we choose to politely refuse because we are embarrassed or don't want to hurt the other person's feelings, but this tactfulness may be misunderstood by the other person or even taken advantage of. In this case, we need to think calmly about why the other person is embarrassed to embarrass us, and we are embarrassed to refuse.
Perhaps, the reason why the other party is embarrassed to embarrass us is because they are selfish and only look out for their own interests without considering the feelings of others. Such people may be accustomed to putting themselves first, ignoring the needs and positions of others, so they will not hesitate to embarrass others, and we are embarrassed to refuse only to give them inches.
In addition, the other person may be embarrassed because they lack respect and empathy. Such a person may not be able to understand the situation and feelings of others, turn a blind eye to the difficulties and needs of others, and therefore will arbitrarily embarrass others without knowing it. If we are embarrassed to refuse, we may be mistaken for acquiescence or approval, which will make the other person feel that we can continue to embarrass us.
There is also the possibility that the other person is embarrassed because they are good at taking advantage of the kindness and weakness of others. This type of person may be good at applying pressure and manipulating others, taking advantage of the embarrassed rejection of others to achieve their own ends. We need to understand that the other party's distress is not out of genuine need, but out of selfishness or selfish interests, so we have the right to refuse.
In the face of such a situation, we need to learn to express our position and needs firmly, and not to compromise because we are embarrassed. If the other party is embarrassed to embarrass us, we need to calmly analyze, find out the other party's motives and goals, and then decisively refuse to protect our own rights and dignity. Only by sticking to our principles can we avoid being taken advantage of by others and maintain our independence and autonomy. February** Dynamic Incentive Program