Mike, an inconspicuous character in "Snail House", has added waves to the fate of Haiping and the Seaweed sisters. To this day, rereading the original book of "Snail House", his figure still appears in my heart.
Haiping's career development, as Haiping foresaw, was inspired by Mike. He once reminded Haiping why she didn't try to open a language school, which opened a new chapter in Haiping's life. If it weren't for him, Seaweed's awakening to Song Siming might have been much slower. Mike's introduction allowed Haiping to get in touch with her first batch of foreign students, and it was this group of students that gradually put her career on the right track.
Haiping's teaching style is lively and interesting, and he is very impressed. And her advocacy also played a key role in enabling Haiping to successfully attract the first batch of students. Eventually, Haiping opened an international language school, which is undoubtedly the best reward for her efforts. As for seaweed, the decision to turn back after having a relationship with Song Siming is embarrassing. When Song Siming came to visit, she firmly rejected him, and the disgust was undoubtedly revealed in her eyes. For the 60,000 yuan given by Song Siming, she did not hesitate to regard it as selling money, and decided to completely cut off the relationship with Song Siming.
However, the turning point of all this is inseparable from Mike. Without him, the relationship between Seaweed and Song Siming may not have developed to the point of being out of control. Looking back now, I am amazed at his sober intellect and unique charisma, and he is undoubtedly the most valuable man in this story. Mike was a friend of Song Siming when he was studying in the United States, and they kept in touch since returning to China. However, the tricks of fate put Mike in a difficult situation, his wife and children left him, and he even became addicted to alcohol, which took several years of struggle to quit.
In the world of "Snail House", Mike's presence is like a bright dawn, illuminating the life path of Haiping and Seaweed. His intellect, his camaraderie, and his tenacity all add deep meaning to this work. Over the course of more than a decade, I have become more and more aware of his unique personality. Now I appreciate and respect him even more. In a man's life journey, there is a bleak moment, as if it were the darkest moment in his life. However, he did not sink because of this, but chose to cheer up and adjust his mentality in time. At this critical moment, Song Siming gave him selfless help and pointed out the way forward for him.
Mike's courage and tenacity stem from Song Siming's inspiration. He went to China to look for opportunities, which was also inseparable from Song Siming's encouragement and support. Although the author does not directly describe Mike's appearance and character, we can see that Mike is a trustworthy person from Song Siming's act of entrusting Seaweed to him.
While in China, Mike studied Chinese while silently waiting for opportunities to arise. He knows that the darkest moment of life is precisely the moment when the light is about to come. He held on to this belief and silently waited for the light to come.
Mike said to Haiping: "Life is like a curve that fluctuates up and down, sometimes high and sometimes low. When we are at a low point, we should be happy because it is only temporary and will soon reach a peak. But at the peak, it's actually the most dangerous, because you can't see the trough that is coming. This sentence fully demonstrates his deep thinking and unique understanding of life.
Setbacks are a grind for Mike, but also a valuable spiritual asset. He turned over all the dark moments of the past and didn't let them bind his hands and feet. This is an important ability that allows him to take difficult situations in stride and no longer fall into a loop. In the end, with the help of Song Siming, he found new business opportunities and achieved a lot of success.
Mike is a grateful person, and he took Seaweed to the United States to start a new life, which is his reward and gratitude to Song Siming. At the same time, he also received a message from Song Siming, hoping to continue to help Haizao and her family. This arrangement also reflects Mike and Song Siming's indissoluble bond with China.
While Haiping helps Mike, she also takes on a teaching assignment for a Japanese family. However, the harsh educational philosophy of the Japanese wife and the discrimination against China made Haiping feel indignant and unacceptable. At this point, Mike mediated and finally resolved the problem satisfactorily. This reflects his wisdom and maturity in handling things.
A child's heart is the one that knows how to love best. Whoever loves them, who teaches them attentively, they know better than us. This is Mike's high evaluation of Mr. Guo. He believes that Mr. Guo is patient and caring, and is a rare and good teacher. These details depict Mack's deep understanding and importance of education, as well as his wisdom and maturity.
Overall, it's a story of tenacity, courage, wisdom, and love. Mike was able to convict and respond positively in the face of adversity, and eventually moved towards new success and happiness. His story tells us that only by bravely facing all the dark moments of the past can we not be bound by our hands and feet and usher in the dawn of life again. In the last conversation, when she mentioned your argument, she thought it was not appropriate and that she had offended you because of the child's factor.
After all, she is just a teacher and cannot replace the role of parents in education. Mike knows that for Japanese wives, children are the most important thing they care about. Therefore, he first mentioned that children like Haiping and can't do without Haiping, so as to ease the atmosphere. He then expressed that Haiping had realized her mistake and provided a step for the Japanese wife. Finally, he emphasized the importance of parental education, which is exactly in line with the Japanese wife's mind - she does not want her children to be affected by Sinicization. After some persuasion, the Japanese wife was convinced and finally rehired Haiping.
When it comes to education in China and Japan, Haiping's anger and impulsiveness are palpable. However, Mike gets to the heart of the matter: life is not just about learning, there is a lot more to be explored. True success is not just about good or bad academic performance, but also about learning methods and sustained efforts. A beautiful relationship is depicted in the book, which tells the story of Mike and Haiping. Long before Su Chun's accident, Mike had already developed a crush on Haiping. However, their first class did not go well. Although Mike wavered in his decision, in the subsequent teaching, he gradually discovered Haiping's shining point - tenacity and perseverance.
In order to overcome the language barrier between the two, Haiping worked tirelessly to learn English. Her rapid progress has given Mike great confidence, and she will also rack her brains to solve some difficult and conventional language habits encountered in Chinese learning. Haiping's tenacity and beauty changed Mike's preconceived view of Chinese. In the process of finding business opportunities in the United States for him, Mike even considered marrying a Chinese woman and settling in China permanently.
During Su Chun's detention, Mike campaigned for Haiping and informed Song Siming of the matter in time, which relieved Haiping's urgent need. This time is an intimate time for Haiping and Mike. After the tutoring, Mike invites Haiping to have a drink with her. It was during these nights that Mike had suppressed his affection for Haiping. Along the way, Haiping took all the responsibilities.
However, when they reunite, Mike discovers that Haiping has stepped out of the shadows of her past and regained her confidence and vitality. The emotional bond between them gradually deepened, and they spent many unforgettable moments together. This experience not only allowed them to understand each other better, but also strengthened their determination to move forward together. As time goes on, their relationship grows closer and stronger, and together they face the challenges and opportunities of life in the future.
In conclusion, the story shows the interweaving of friendship, affection, and love, showing how the protagonists grow together and face life's challenges through tenacity, perseverance, and mutual support. The emotional entanglements and challenges described in the book also leave readers with deep thoughts and insights. On an ordinary day, I realized my fault. I'm a greedy woman who always takes greedily and my husband wouldn't have gone to jail if it weren't for me. At this moment, I look at Mike, and his experience is heart-wrenching.
Mike has also experienced the trials and tribulations of life, and in the most difficult moments, his wife left him. At this moment, this emotional atmosphere seems so similar, only the fate of people is different.
Haiping's repentance and affection reminded me of painful moments in the past. The two of us were in the same predicament, and we shared our worries with each other. First of all, she regretted that she should have chosen to return to her hometown after graduation, and all this misfortune would not have happened. Her decision leads her to meet Mike, a man who surprises her in China.
In the dim light, Mike gently hugged her until she fell asleep. The next morning, I found myself sleeping at Mike's house, in an awkward position. But he skillfully defused the embarrassment, jokingly saying that he would charge ten hours of class to defuse the tension.
Since then, whenever the case has changed, Haiping will ask Mike for help, and gradually learn to use alcohol to strengthen her courage. Even though she didn't drink well and got drunk every time, it became a tacit understanding between us. Every time he saw her drunk on the couch, Mike would say thoughtfully, "Tomorrow morning, we're going to have breakfast again." That's not great! You're testing my endurance. His words made me feel that he was a man who respected self-control and had a sense of responsibility.
As the investigation of the case deepened, Haiping was ready for a long-term struggle. She is ready to sell her most cherished house to rescue Su Chun. This made me deeply sigh that Haiping is a rare good woman. Although she usually quarrels with Su Chun, when the disaster really comes, she can share the hardships with him. Haiping is a good woman in the traditional sense, and in a society where money is paramount and people are weak, her pure beauty is extremely precious.
I was deeply moved by her behavior: "This speaks to a problem. I told her, "In this complex world, people like you are so rare and precious. "I believe that we will get through this together and use our tenacity and kindness to fight the coldness of the world. That's why I'm willing to spend all the time I spend with her.
In my heart, feelings are the most precious existence. I understand that many women tend to choose to leave when a man is in trouble, and a woman who can get through it with him is the real rarity. You are such a rare good woman, and I deeply admire this tenacity and sincerity. Haiping laughed softly: "If you tell Su Chun this affection, he will definitely give up everything without hesitation." When Mike heard this, driven by emotion, he responded frankly: "If you can really give up easily, then I will gladly accept it." ”
Haiping heard the deep meaning of his words, but did not respond directly, just smiled awkwardly, avoiding Michael's affectionate gaze. This time, instead of spending the night at Mike's residence, she insisted on going home. I could feel her determination and persistence. Therefore, Mike did not force it, but silently sent her home. A look, a silence, conveys our emotions more than any words. A smart man should know how to withdraw at the right time to avoid falling deeper and deeper into emotional entanglements.
After experiencing the twists and turns and setbacks of life, the once impulsive man is now mature and steady, and has become a wise and wise person with life wisdom. The other three men in the book have their own characteristics: Su Chun's laziness and indecision make him seem powerless in the face of crisis; Song Siming is smart and judgmental, but he is bound by emotional entanglements; Xiaobei is young and energetic, but impulsive and irritable, unable to let go of the troubles of the past.
However, although Mike's role is small, I have placed an ideal on him: a man should have a sense of responsibility, and have his own understanding and understanding of life. He does not necessarily need to have abundant material wealth or a position of prominence, but he must have a big heart, the ability to reconcile the past, and a wise understanding of life. Such a man is indeed rare in the sea of people.
This story made me think about relationships between people and how to find balance in life. Everyone struggles, grows, and finds their own happiness in their own role. And Mike's story made me see the responsibility and wisdom of a man, and his presence undoubtedly adds a touch of warmth to this complex world.