Recently, I was very depressed and wanted to find a friend to talk to, but suddenly found that I couldn't find anyone. Dare to send a message to a friend who hasn't been in touch for a long time, "Hello, I haven't been in touch for a long time, how are you doing?" Unexpectedly, after a long time, I received an official reply "Hello! "At that moment, the flame of desire to talk was completely extinguished. 2024 Chinese New Year outlook
This triggered me to look back on my past life. We used to be best friends in college, I would buy her breakfast in the morning, or she would bring me food, and we would always think about each other when we had good food. Yes, this friendliness is limited to our time at university. Outside the school gate, everything changes without you knowing.
It seems that the contact was lost overnight, and at first I greeted them during the New Year's holidays, and when they got married, there were very few greetings, and at most they liked it in the circle of friends. After all, it's not in the same city, and I've never met since graduation, so it's logical that everything is unfamiliar.
Article Debut Challenge Everyone is busy with family, children, and work, not to mention not being in the same city, even classmates in a city, and it is also a luxury to meet once a year. There used to be fantasies about going to the same city after graduation, living in a place not too far away, being able to get together during breaks, and having children play together, but it seemed impossible to do all of this. Because I know it very well.
When I was in Beijing, I had two good high school classmates, one in Miyun and one in Xicheng, and I really met once a year. When you don't have children, you are busy with your career, and when you have children, you don't have to arrange what you want on weekends, but you have to see if your children have time, because every child has several extracurricular classes. So I don't have much time to myself, and it's hard to be alone for a while.
This is the real life of middle-aged people, who do not have their own circle of friends, and know a group of parents because of their children, and the children are separated, and the circle of friends is also scattered.
Thinking back to my former good friends, there are really few people who can contact and talk to the sky, I don't know how I feel, are your friends still there?
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