In the world of love, we often wander between "like" and "love", trying to figure out each other's hearts. It is especially important for women to know what is really going on in the hearts of men.
So, how can you tell if a man "likes you" or "loves you"? In fact, the answer is hidden in some details of life.
Below, let's take a look at how to see a man's heart for a woman?
If you want to know whether a man "likes you" or "loves you", just look at these points, and it is clear at a glance
1. See if he respects your opinions and choices
A man who truly loves you will respect your opinions and choices, as well as your independent personality. He will care about your feelings and respect your decisions, rather than imposing his will on you.
When you have a different opinion from him, he will patiently listen to your ideas and work with you, instead of blindly denying you and asking you to do things according to his ideas.
Conversely, a man who simply likes you may ignore your feelings at some point or even dismiss your opinions and choices. When getting along, he will think more about his own interests than your needs.
Second, see if he is willing to give you time and energy
A man who loves you will be willing to give you time and energy to accompany you through every important moment. He will care about your life, pay attention to your joys and sorrows, and help you in any way he can.
When you need him, he will not hesitate to stand by your side and shelter you.
And a man who just likes you will choose to run away when you need him, or only come to you when he is free and in need. Relatively speaking, his dedication will seem relatively superficial and lack sincere companionship.
3. See if he cares about your growth and progress
A man who truly loves you will care about your growth and progress and encourage you to pursue a better version of yourself. He will respect your dreams, support your efforts, and make progress with you.
When you are struggling, he will give you encouragement and support to help you get through it.
And the man who just likes you will show indifference to your growth and progress on weekdays, and will not have too much joy and encouragement even when you achieve something. His attention will only stay on your appearance and figure, not your inner world.
4. See if he is willing to share his life with you
A man who loves you will be willing to share his life with you and let you know his inner world. He will share his joys and sorrows, his past and future with you, and make you feel his sincerity and trust. He will also take you into his social circle and make you a part of his life.
And just like your man, he will be indifferent to your life and will not be willing to share his inner world with you. His life will seem mysterious to you, making it difficult for you to understand what he really thinks.
Fifth, see if he has a clear plan for the future
A man who truly loves you will have a clear plan for the future and include you in his future plans. He will think about your future and work towards your common goals.
When you are faced with a choice, he will work with you to weigh the pros and cons and make the decision that is best for you.
And the man who just likes you may have no plan for your future, or he will only think about his own interests. And his future plans definitely have nothing to do with you, and it will also make you feel uneasy and confused about the future development of your relationship.
Through the above five points, we can preliminarily judge whether a man "likes you" or "loves you". Of course, this does not mean that all men who fit these characteristics truly love you, and everyone's situation may be different. However, these characteristics can be used as an important reference for us to judge the mind of men.
In short, in the world of love, we need to keep a clear head and feel the true thoughts of the other party with our hearts in order to find our own happiness.