In the work "Know", the lord of Pingning is undoubtedly the most unpopular character.
She was born into a prominent family and was spoiled countless times, and even the old ladies of the Sheng family could not compare with her.
This woman's whole life has been wishful. She was greatly pampered when she became the only daughter in the family. After marrying the Duke of Qi, her husband did not have an affair with any concubines, and her only son, Qi Heng, became the representative of the princes and nobles of the capital.
The lord of Binh Ninh is strong by nature, and due to the lack of support from her biological brother, she is always arguing between relatives and relatives. Since she was a child, she has been strict with Qi Heng in education and discipline. A prince like her has already started a life of watching flowers and fighting cocks and raising birds a long time ago. However, Qi Heng always sat quietly in his study, whether in the capital or Dengzhou, he went back and forth to school every day, no matter winter or summer, he maintained a consistent learning attitude.
In the first half of her life, Lord Binh experienced a life that was the envy of many ancient women.
The old lady of the Sheng family is the daughter of the Marquis of Yongyi. When she married into the Sheng family, her husband killed his wife because he favored the concubine, resulting in her only son being killed by the concubine. After her husband's death, she supported the entire Sheng family alone, but the members of the Sheng family were not related by blood; Sheng Minglan was indignant in her heart, but under the pressure of the Sheng family, she had no choice but to accept two concubines, she knew that power and family disputes were the only way to protect her position with the help of these chess pieces. Sheng Minglan, a woman who longed to spend her life with Gu Tingye, also accepted two concubines for him under great pressure.
And looking at the county lord of Pingning, she seemed so conceited.
At the thank-you banquet held by the Sheng family, although the county lord of Pingning said a few words politely, his face showed a pride that was difficult to hide, as if Qi Heng was studying at the Sheng family to save face for them, while the Wang family silently lowered his head and did not speak.
Such a woman, she understands the truth of the matter and knows etiquette, but she is full of pride in her heart, she looks down on the Sheng family deeply, so in her mind, Sheng Minglan is only suitable to be a concubine.
There is always a reason for things, and the reason why she is strong is because of her insecurity.
Her feelings ranged from respecting the only daughter of the Hou Mansion to the daughter-in-law of the Duke of Qi, and she did not have love for Lord Qi.
In the mansion of the Duke of Qi, she showed a powerful aura. She knew that it was hopeless to get along with her sister-in-law. The Duke of Qi had two sons, and she was married to the second son, which meant that the future Duke of Qi would not necessarily be inherited by her husband. The sister-in-law has the same attitude as her, and is resolutely unwilling to accept others, so the two are destined to be incompatible.
The long house of the Duke of Qi was a sick son. Since Nagafang's daughter-in-law and Lord Pingning had a similar personality, she was reluctant to let her husband take a concubine. Therefore, Changfang had only one son, which provided Qi Heng with the opportunity to inherit the Duke of Qi.
After entering the Mansion of Qi State, she imitated Qi Heng's behavior, which put Qi Heng's father in a difficult situation. Since Qi Heng was born, the Pingning County Lord could not regenerate, and even forbade the Qi Lord to enter the second battlefield.
In the context of ancient men having three wives and four concubines, Lord Qi also felt his predicament.
In ancient societies, males who were princesses alone were not allowed to have an affair. The lord of Binh Ninh treats herself like a princess, she desires to live according to her wishes, and therefore, her husband must also act according to her wishes.
Despite this, she never really considered Lord Qi's feelings, because in the deepest part of her heart, she was a person without love.
On the stage of love, the lord of Binh Ninh showed a strong influence. It is often said that men don't like women who are too strong, but Lord Qi's attitude towards her is meticulous, always obedient to her, and treats her as the pearl of his palm, everything in the Duke of Qi is planned by the county lord of Pingning.
Such a Pingning county lord is really happy.
However, for a woman with a strong character, what she pursues is not only the care and happiness of men, but more of a right and practical situation that can be firmly grasped.
She has Qi Heng's expectations for Jackie Chan, but she has no real love.
In the eyes of many people, expecting a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is not a special preference of parents, but a noble excuse for their own selfish desires.
Qi Heng is called the child of Mingli by us, although he was born into a princely family, he did not show an arrogant attitude, on the contrary, he worked harder than the children of other families. His father, Qi Shirong, was a soldier, and his mother was from Pingning. Since he was a child, he has lived according to the expectations of the lord of Binh Ninh, so he has had his mother Taiping for more than ten years.
In fact, Qi Heng grew up in the environment created by the Lord of Pingning, his growth seems to be fixed, if there is no accident, he will live according to his mother's arrangement, such growth can see the end at a glance.
Despite the resolute protection of the county lord of Pingning, Sheng Minglan was still ignored.
In the original description, the day after Qi Heng was studying in the Sheng Mansion, the county lord of Pingning personally visited her, her purpose was to prevent the daughter of the Sheng family from studying with Qi Heng, and made it clear that she had expressed her feelings, hoping that Qi Heng would regard Sheng Minglan as his sister.
Sheng Minglan's sudden appearance made Qi Heng have the idea of living according to his own wishes for the first time.
I often think that the criterion for judging whether a person truly loves you is not how much that person pays for you, but how much he gives up. When you find that she no longer cares about her own gains and losses, no longer cares about the world's eyes, and only wants to walk with you, even if she sacrifices her own interests and desires, then her love has surpassed everything and is only to be with you. If someone is willing to give up what she cherishes most in her heart for you, it is undoubtedly deep affection for you.
However, this kind of affection, the lord of Binh Ninh did not have. Qi Heng is a very good man in her eyes. In her heart, what she cherishes most is her self-esteem, and the honor of the Duke of Qi is what she cherishes the most. Her only son, Qi Heng, had to marry a woman from a famous family in order to get the greatest support in the Qi Mansion.
As a result, she developed a keen interest in the rulers of Jiacheng County.
As the only daughter of the sixth prince, if everything goes according to plan, then after her younger brother Xiaozong inherits the big sect, she can not suffer from the various taboos of the princess, but she can still enjoy all the substantial benefits brought by the princess; She is well aware of the special nature of her identity, but she has already laid out a blueprint in her heart that does not adhere to the rules of the court. Despite this, her husband still had the power to hold official positions and wielded enormous power, so the official imperial history could not openly accuse him in terms of etiquette.
She is not interested in Concubine Rong's sister being born in a family of masons. But this is not because of her poor background, but because Concubine Rong has nothing in the harem, and as time passes, her good life is coming to an end, and this marriage does not bring any benefits to the Qiguo Mansion.
In the original work, the ruler of Jiacheng County and his family were not oppressed, but because the lord of Pingning was eager to curry favor with the six princesses, which led to this marriage. The departure of the county lord of Jiacheng plunged the Qi family into endless grief and sorrow. However, the good times didn't last long. When the throne was established, the ruler of Jiacheng County was persecuted to death by the four princes, Qi Heng lost her husband, and the Qi family fell into this tragedy, losing his glory and favor.
After the death of the ruler of Jiacheng County, Qi Heng went to Shengfu again to propose marriage, and it was then that he truly realized his importance in the eyes of the lord of Pingning.
Qi Heng deeply missed Sheng Minglan, the only thing he asked the Pingning County Lord in his life was only this one thing. The doubts in Qi Heng's heart gradually dissipated, and he embarked on a new journey in life with deep affection for Minglan . The death of the monarch of Jiacheng County, for Qi Heng, it seems that a heavy burden has been lifted, and he finally has the opportunity to marry the person he loves deeply.
As he hoped, the lord of Pingning personally came to the door to propose. But when he saw the deep affection of the Yongchang Marquis Mansion for Minglan, he decided to marry Rulan, the daughter of the Sheng family. For this change of the county lord of Pingning, Qi Heng saw it very clearly.
My mother had always been a quick-thinking person, and at that time she might have considered a special marriage relationship with the Marquis of Yongchang; And your daughter-in-law is a descendant, and her status is even more shocking! ”
After the incident between Mo Lan and Liang Han in the Sheng family, the county lord of Pingning County decided to marry his son Xu to the Shen family.
Qi Heng's marriage went through many twists and turns, and was ultimately based on the sincerity of his mother, the county lord of Pingning, and the choice made by the county lord of Pingning was made after weighing various interests. Qi Heng's relationship with her, like a woman and two men, has what she wants, and this thing is not something that can be chosen at will. In her heart, interests are always the most crucial part.
The reason why the lord of Pingning appears strong is because she lacks a sense of security.
An overly strong woman, Fukuzawa shallow, although she looks happy on the surface, but behind it is a deep pain. She used to work very hard and had good results, but by chance, she chose to give up and started a new life. As the saying goes, people who live in high places are more likely to feel cold because they are more afraid of falling into the trough. They fear that they will become like the people they once despised, so they are willing to give up a lot just to preserve that ridiculous dignity.
In the play, the fate of the lord of Pingning is not satisfactory. She thought that such a disguise could protect her background and status, but she didn't expect to end up in her cage. For her, pretending to be crazy and stupid, and then being abandoned on the streets, is undoubtedly the most heart-wrenching fate. Her most cherished dignity, the pride in her heart, has been destroyed.
Thinking about it carefully, the county lord of Pingning is undoubtedly a hero in the fat powder pile. Although she was born into a prominent family, she was never fooled by the wealth in front of her and became arrogant. She is acutely aware of the risks ahead: the emperor may grow old, her biological father may grow old, and she herself has no real brother. Her husband is only the second son in the family, and her strong sister-in-law, whether it is the Mansion of the State of Qi or the Mansion of the Marquis of Xiangyang, may be the pillar of her life.
Whether it was someone who once served as the lord of Jiacheng County, or someone who later became the Shen clan, their behavior was reasonable, but in reality they didn't really have love.
Although the strong behavior of the lord of Binh Ninh cannot be said to be wrong, it is really not worth understanding.
Although each of us has the right to make our own decisions, we cannot cause harm to others under the premise of this free choice.
The Lord of Binh Ninh chose to spend her life in glory, which in itself is right, but it is illogical to impose one's emotions on others, and it cannot be understood by others.
If you genuinely love someone, you shouldn't have to ask them to pay for the security you crave.