He Hongwen lost his father at a young age, which made him form a kind and emotional character, and he gave people a warm feeling like an air conditioner.
His mother was frail and often sick, while he grew up with his grandmother, a living environment that shaped his tenderness and sensibility. He always treats women with great care and care. It is for this reason that he is well aware of the hardships of the life of the woman in his boudoir.
Sheng Minglan noticed the grievances he said for his grandmother. In the original work, Sheng Minglan experienced time and space travel, and for such a woman who traveled over, He Hongwen's concept of life was highly appreciated.
Gu Tingye and Qi Heng are both people who pay great attention to traditions and rules in their hearts. Therefore, Gu Tingye would never let a woman like Manniang become his main wife, and Qi Heng would not be able to compete with his mother-in-law, the county lord of Pingning.
Although He Hongwen and Sheng Minglan are different, Sheng Minglan's attitude towards He Hongwen is also completely different, and she even took the initiative to fight for He Hongwen. When he was in contact with Ming Ting**, he often had to give them some gifts. This kind of treatment is something that Gu Tingye and Qi Heng have never experienced. Sheng Minglan's mentality is related to his heart for He Hongwen. From the depths of Sheng Minglan's heart, we can clearly feel her preference for He Hongwen.
But deep in He Hongwen's heart, Sheng Minglan is not his real love, and in the eyes of Mrs. He, Sheng Minglan is not He Hongwen's ideal partner.
Yu He Hongwen and Sheng Minglan are highly consistent in values, and they are both suitable partners for marriage. Sheng Minglan knew that although He Hongwen paid to her, there was a world that belonged to Cao Jinxiu in her heart. Although he was willing to work hard for Sheng Minglan, he couldn't devote himself as wholeheartedly as Qi Heng. Sheng Minglan clearly knew that although He Hongwen had deep feelings for her, it was difficult to completely let go of Cao Jinxiu in his heart. Sheng Minglan really cares not about whether He Hongwen takes a concubine, but that he always thinks about Cao Jinxiu in his heart.
For a man like He Hongwen, there is no real love in his life, he just has compassion for women, but he can also be described as an amorous person.
For the old lady of the He family, Sheng Minglan became a noble concubine daughter just because she was raised by the old lady of the Sheng family. She is not entirely suitable to be Mrs. He's granddaughter-in-law. Therefore, although she had the ability to stop Cao Jinxiu, she did not take action just because she felt that Sheng Minglan was not worth it.
Later, Mrs. He became the main room of He Hongwenxuan, which is the real best spouse.
Cao Jinxiu was the first woman to have a dispute with He Hongwen, and she was troubled by this woman all her life.
Cao Jinxiu was originally a woman from a bureaucratic family, and if it hadn't been for the unfortunate events that followed, she might not have even had a good impression of He Hongwen. History has shown that the Cao family had intended to find a higher home for Cao Jinxiu, and was not interested in He Hongwen's orphaned mother.
It was precisely because the Cao family was in a predicament that Cao Jinxiu had complete despair, was willing to despise herself, and became someone else's concubine. After Cao Jinxiu's death, He Hongwen's heart became more and more persistently entangled in memories, as if he could not escape the fetters of the past. However, these past experiences did not make He Hongwen determined to completely get rid of Cao Jinxiu's entanglement, which shows that He Hongwen is a person who is too affectionate.
By observing He Hongwen's attitude towards Cao Jinxiu, we can clearly feel that He Hongwen's feelings towards Cao Jinxiu are quite complicated. He Hongwen was conflicted in his heart, he tried to hide the hideousness in his heart and persuaded himself to be reasonable, but no matter what, his concern for Cao Jinxiu always lingered. On the one hand, he was extremely disgusted with the woman, but on the other hand, he would feel uneasy if he really let her live on the streets.
It is He Hongwen's hesitant personality that the Cao family exploits, which involves many complex elements. For example, He Hongwen's mother, who is also Cao Jinxiu's aunt, has always hoped that He Hongwen can take care of Cao Jinxiu, and He Hongwen himself is also a very filial person.
In other words, He Hongwen's mother is just a reason for him to take care of Cao Jinxiu, and deep down he also wants to take care of Cao Jinxiu, not because of love, but because Cao Jinxiu is so pitiful.
In the end, Cao Jinxiu became He Hongwen's concubine as she wished, and started a power struggle with He Hongwen's main wife. She cleverly devised a plan to make Qiu'er, the maid next to her, pretend to be pregnant with He Hongwen's child, pretending that she was the child of the Cao family. But when this plan was revealed, her plan completely failed, and was completely controlled by He Hongwen's wife.
He Hongwen finally had a ruthless heart for Cao Jinxiu, but because Cao Jinxiu was a demon again and again, he had to behave very pitifully towards a man like He Hongwen. Cao Jinxiu thought that if she became a concubine, she would be able to run rampant, but she didn't know that angering He Hongwen would be the beginning of self-inflicted consequences. After becoming a concubine, Cao Jinxiu has lost all her financial strength, but she still keeps challenging his bottom line.
After He Hongwen's mother died, his dislike for Cao Jinxiu reached the extreme, he said: "She is the master mother, you are a concubine, she wants to teach you, you have to bear it well..."I'm tired, go back first", this was already his last execution of Cao Jinxiu.
He Hongwen and Sheng Minglan have become a huge regret in the work "Know", because they are really very compatible.
In the original work, Sheng Minglan did not have much connection with Qi Heng, she did not show courage because of Qi Xiaogong, but chose to hide clumsiness as her means of survival, but kept a distance of thousands of miles from Qi Yuan.
However, for He Hongwen, she is very concerned. From Sheng Minglan's point of view, marrying He Hongwen as the daughter of a concubine was actually a noble act, which also led to the fact that the old lady of the He family did not plan to expel Cao Jinxiu for her in advance.
Sheng Ming Langui is not only a transparent woman, but also the adopted daughter of Mrs. Sheng's side. He Hongwen also relied on family support like the Sheng family at that time, which contributed to the mutual satisfaction between the two old ladies.
He Hongwen and Sheng Minglan are very satisfied with this marriage. He Hongwen has a gentle and steady personality, while Sheng Minglan is an open-minded and cheerful woman, both of whom are good couples, which has been considered a very beautiful marriage in ancient times.
When it comes to the love relationship between two people, this is not absolute.
Sheng Minglan wants to marry He Hongwen, she needs to consider a variety of factors, whether it is Qi Heng's efforts for her, or the situation in the Yongchang Earl's Mansion, marrying He Hongwen is an inevitable trouble. Sheng Minglan knew that becoming the head mother of the He family was not an easy task, and she had to face family pressures, housekeeping challenges, and responsibility for the family's reputation. But the situation of the He family is different, she married in and became the head mother of the family, and she even secretly rejoiced that she didn't have to face her mother-in-law, although this idea was not very good.
The reason why He Hongwen wanted to marry Sheng Minglan was mainly because they were very compatible, and in ancient times, discussing love seemed too luxurious. The love in He Hongwen's heart has gone through the ups and downs of the years, but he has never been able to have Sheng Minglan. However, Sheng Minglan became an unpeaceful part of He Hongwen's life, and even when his children sat around his knees, he still paid close attention to Sheng Minglan's current situation. In the dead of night, He Hongwen always silently thought of Sheng Minglan, and a feeling of helplessness surged in his heart. But this kind of deep longing and longing is often because it can't be obtained.
Sheng Minglan's existence is like a deep regret, and the cinnabar mole has forever carved traces in He Hongwen's heart.
The third woman He Hongwen met in his life journey was not only his best partner, but also the final destination in his life.
In fact, whether it is Qi Heng, Gu Tingye, Liang Han, or the He family where He Hongwen is located, they all urgently need a capable daughter-in-law to get out of the current predicament, which also explains why famous families choose to marry their daughters.
At that time, He Hongwen was in the Cao family, surrounded by kraft candy on the outside, while on the inside was a mother-in-law who could not distinguish between right and wrong and a noble concubine. His daughter-in-law, Zou, was a petty bourgeois woman, and he didn't have much affection for her. If you marry a woman of high status who always puts on a haughty posture, such as Zhang Da Lady of the Xiao Zou family in the early stages of the game, then you may have a hard time coping with such an occasion.
It was for this reason that Mrs. He developed a special affection for He Hongwen, because he recognized the daughter of a military general who was not from an illustrious background. Despite her modest family background, her character is pure and straightforward. And what Cao Jinxiu is most afraid of is undoubtedly this powerful Zhengfu Kongwu. With the help of Mrs. He, He Hongwen and his wife are young, but they are also living a stable life. Thanks to the assistance of the old lady of the He family, He Hongwen and his wife lived a peaceful life.
After He Hongwen got married, the old lady of the He family insisted that at least one of Cao Jinxiu and He Hongwen's mother should return to their hometown with her, no matter which one walked with her, He Hongwen's future main room would face a huge dilemma.
Only when he returned to his hometown for the Spring Festival and He Hongwen's mother and Aunt Cao appeared at the same time, this would make He Hongwen's wife feel extremely uncomfortable. Extreme self-abuse is a common characteristic of Cao Jinxiu and Xiao Zou. Cao Jinxiu's situation is very similar to Xiao Zou's, such a woman does not need the intervention of the main room at all, she is fully capable of ending her life.
After the death of He Hongwen's mother, Cao Jinxiu's strength was not as good as before, and Mrs. He was not a ruthless person. As long as she can be honest and trustworthy, she can also live a stable life, but she chose to ask for trouble and cannot continue to live.
Although Mrs. He knew that He Hongwen did not love her, her life was still easy and happy without Cao Jinxiu and her mother-in-law. Although it lacks the liveliness of Cao Jinxiu and her mother-in-law, in Mrs. He's heart, the peace and harmony of the family are more important than anything else. However, being able to show mutual respect and a home-away attitude is already quite an achievement. The days are dull and happy, and there is constant laughter at home. The two men have a son and a daughter, and they have reached a very perfect state in their lives and feel very content.
He Hongwen does not have deep affection for Mrs. He, and Mrs. He also has her own regrets. The man who had promised to marry her after the war ended up dying on the battlefield and became a cinnabar mole in her heart.
However, she is the object of affection of Mrs. He, with a cheerful and transparent personality similar to Sheng Minglan, she is not bound by the past, has a good relationship with her husband, educates her children, and lives a harmonious life, there is no need to be an enemy of herself.
In his life journey, He Hongwen was too amorous and hesitant, which led to his life not being so complete.
If you can't make a decision immediately, then you have to face the bad consequences caused by Cao Jinxiu. Cao Jinxiu's conspiracy gradually surfaced, and I could only silently bear the test of fate. Fortunately, he ended up marrying a good man and lived a harmonious life throughout his life.
Although he has no love in his life, his fate cannot be changed, he can only face it calmly, and his kind character is his greatest strength.