He Lin is a famous actress in China, who has participated in film and television works such as "Holding Hands", "Mother of a Slave", "Spicy Mother-in-law", "That Jinhua and Her Son-in-law", "The Climber", and won the International Emmy Award for Best Actress, which is the first time that an Asian actress has won this award that enjoys the reputation of "TV Oscar".
In front of the screen, He Lin is a very explosive actor who can create a character image with huge personality contrasts, and He Lin in life is not a person who is high and low.
In 2014, He Lin married director Wu Bing and gained a happy marriage. And her mother-in-law is the famous actor Lu Zhong, in family life, He Lin and her mother-in-law Lu Zhong also have frictions and contradictions, but He Lin used patience and filial piety to resolve and establish a deep relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
He Lin was born in Shanghai in 1977 in a family of doctors, her parents are doctors, and she has an older brother.
Because of the nature of the work, He Lin's parents were going to work in the mountainous areas of the Daxing'an Mountains in the northeast, which also made the newborn He Lin put his parents in Shanghai with tears.
It wasn't until He Lin was 4 years old that he was taken by his parents to live together in Daxinganling, and his parents loved their daughter very much, so that He Lin also had a happy childhood. When He Lin was a child, she always hoped to enjoy preferential treatment in front of her parents, and told her brother that it would be good if your parents didn't give birth to you.
However, after growing up, He Lin found that his "brother" was irreplaceable, and after his father's death, his brother also became the warmest support in He Lin's heart.
In the mountains of Northeast China, He Lin is very wild, and her freedom has made her hearty, generous, and as lively as the wind.
When He Lin was in the fifth grade, her parents decided to let her go back to Shanghai to study, but from the forest to the cement, this made He Lin very uncomfortable, and her grades fell all of a sudden, becoming the bottom of the class.
Fortunately, she communicated with her mother, and her mother's persuasion and encouragement made He Lin change, and her academic performance slowly kept up, and she became a good student at the top of her class.
When I was in junior high school, a life-changing opportunity quietly came, Shanghai Children's Art enrolled students once every ten years, and the teacher of Children's Art took a fancy to He Lin and suggested that she take the exam.
Before this, He Lin was not a lover of literature and art, but she was born beautiful, she was very sensitive to art, and the more she took the exam, the more interested she became, and the more she took the exam, the more addicted she became.
He Lin's academic performance is very good, if she gives up her studies, her parents feel that it is a pity, not to mention that He Lin at that time was very introverted and did not like to talk, and her family thought that she was not suitable for this profession.
It's just that the enlightened parents chose to follow He Lin's own opinions and let her make her own choice, and she fell in love with literature and art, so she naturally successfully entered the Shanghai Children's Art Theater and became classmates with Lu Yi.
During the children's art period, He Lin participated in many TV series because of her cuteness and beauty, and became a child star. In addition, she also performed everywhere with children's art and accumulated rich stage experience.
Four years later, He Lin only got a secondary school degree. At this time, her life is facing an important turning point, she asked her parents for advice, and her father said to her encouragingly: Linlin, Mom and Dad will not design a future for you, the road has to be walked by yourself, what you like, just work hard, Mom and Dad will always support you.
Hearing her parents' words, He Lin resolutely chose to quit the "iron rice bowl" and go to Beijing Film Academy.
In 1996, He Lin entered the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy with a score of more than 100 points higher than the admission score line, and became classmates with Chen Kun, Guo Xiaodong, Yan Danchen, Zhang Heng and others.
When He Lin went north to study alone, her father felt a little remorseful, but her mother supported her: young people should go to see the outside world.
In 1997, director Yang Yang went to Beijing Film Academy to look for a heroine, He Lin, who has bright eyes, small and delicate lips, and a classical beauty embryo, was successfully selected by director Yang Yang and became the heroine of the TV series "Holding Hands".
In the drama "Holding Hands", there is a love scene in the glacier, in which the hero and heroine want to fall in love in the glacier, it was winter, which froze He Lin, but it was also because of this scene that He Lin became famous overnight and won the TV Golden Eagle Award.
He Lin, who stood on the podium, said that her first sentence was to thank her "benefactor stand-in". It turned out that in the scene in Binghe, it was not He Lin who appeared on the scene, but a stand-in.
During filming, He Lin froze half to death in the water, but fortunately, the assistant director of the crew stepped forward and helped her act in this scene. Because of the cold, the assistant director had a high fever and almost got pneumonia after coming ashore, which made He Lin very moved, and with a grateful heart, she went to the hospital to visit the assistant director many times.
And with He Lin, who is paving the way with "Holding Hands", the star road can be said to be smooth all the way. received the heroine of "Year after Year" again, but during the filming, a bad news was ushered in, and her father unfortunately passed away.
Hearing the bad news, He Lin was overly sad and cried in the theater, which made the crew feel sorry for her, and at the same time worried about whether He Lin, who has a deep father-daughter relationship, can survive and whether this drama will be abandoned halfway.
After dealing with his father's death, He Lin wiped her tears and said to the director: Although I am a fragile girl, whether on stage or in life, I must learn to be strong and not live up to the role I played.
In this great joy and sorrow, He Lin had a period of confusion, often going clubbing with her classmates at night, but after a period of time, she chose to return to normal life and immersed herself in performing arts.
In 2000, He Lin graduated from the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy and officially entered the acting career. starred in film and television dramas such as "Flying Knife Love", "King of Money", "Palm and Back of Hand", "Lotus Prince", "White Trap", "Xingang Beauty Case" and other film and television dramas.
In order to create the role, He Lin was very diligent and serious, which was recognized by the audience and praised by industry insiders and directors. Slowly, He Lin became famous in the circle, but her love life has always been a mystery.
Celebrities in the entertainment industry have endless emotional scandals, but He Lin never talks about his private life. When asked about He Lin's love life, He Lin said frankly: I like tall, chic and upright men.
And there have been a lot of scandals, some with actors, some with outsiders, and even their first love has been dug up to talk about, which is also very distressing He Lin.
Although there are different opinions, He Lin chooses not to talk about her private life.
In 2005, He Lin stood on the international stage with the movie "Mother of a Slave" and won the Emmy Award for Best Actress, which was the first time that a Chinese and an Asian actress won this award.
Since then, He Lin has also made a name for herself in the entertainment industry, and has successively participated in film and television works such as "Spicy Mother-in-law", "Women Have No Regrets", "Golden Wedding Storm", "The Great Cause of the Founding of the People's Republic" and so on.
He Lin, who is full of achievements in her career, is emotionally blank, and He Lin, who has no time to take care of her feelings, also makes her relatives and friends anxious for her.
In 2013, He Lin was 36 years old. A friend specially found her and said to her: Linlin, let me introduce you to a boyfriend.
Unwilling to refute her friend's intentions, she could only nod her head and agree, and under the introduction of her friend, He Lin learned that the blind date was called Wu Bing, a director in the entertainment industry, and an associate professor at Beijing Film Academy.
Teacher at Beijing Film Academy?This surprised He Lin, because she came out of Beijing Film Academy, and this also shortened the distance between her and Wu Bing.
In order to give each other a good impression, the friend also chose the place where the two met at the Beijing Film Academy. Although they were very rusty when they first met, the two of them who visited their alma mater had a lot of topics and had a good chat.
This exchange made the two have a good impression of each other, especially Wu Bing, who liked the sweet girl in front of him, and was about to chase He Lin, but He Lin rushed to the crew because of the play.
Separated from the two places, Wu Bing contacted He Lin with ** and text messages, and after some exchanges, He Lin felt that Wu Bing was a warm-hearted and considerate man.
What really made the relationship between the two confirmed was Wu Bing's meal.
After some understanding, Wu Bing learned that He Lin couldn't cook. So, I learned from my mother Lu Zhong and bought recipes.
Once, after He Lin finished filming, he was invited to his home by Wu Bing, and used his superb cooking skills to make four dishes and one soup. He Lin was very moved when he saw this, a man can cook for you, and he is so exquisite, he must be a good man.
Because of this meal, He Lin and Wu Bing also became lovers.
After having a girlfriend, Wu Bing immediately reported to his mother Lu Zhong: Mom, I have a girlfriend.
Hearing the good news, Lu Zhong said happily: Great, what is her name and what kind of work is she engaged in?
Wu Bing told the truth: Her name is He Lin, and she is an actor like you.
is also in the entertainment industry, although Lu Zhong has not seen He Lin, but he knows her name. It's just that He Lin's scandal in the past made Lu Center a little worried.
As a mother, Lu chose to meet this future daughter-in-law and see how people are.
At the first glance of He Lin, Lu Zhong greeted happily: Wu Bing is in love with you, which makes our family very happy, bless you.
In the entertainment industry, Lu Zhong is a powerful old actor; In reality, it's a prospective mother-in-law again. No matter what point it is, He Lin was a little apprehensive in his heart, and responded politely: Wu Bing and I have similar personalities and tempers, and we met the right point at the right time, and we fell in love to get married.
Looking at the polite He Lin, Lu Zhong asked the worry in his heart: In the early years, ** frantically hyped the loss of your illegitimate child, and you didn't seem to have expressed your attitude.
Lu Zhong talked about this matter, and He Lin no longer avoided it: Auntie, you also know that there are many rights and wrongs in the entertainment industry, and some ** make up some false fake news in order to attract people's attention, the reason why I don't express my position is that I don't want to give them the opportunity to continue to hype, and I have also confessed to Wu Bing about this matter.
When the worries were eliminated, this made Lu Zhong very happy and said: Welcome to become a member of the Wu family as soon as possible, and I will have another caring daughter at that time.
In 2014, under the management of Lu Zhong and his wife, He Lin joined hands with Wu Bing and entered the palace of marriage.
Although Lu Zhong is old, as an actor, she is still active in front of the screen; On the other hand, He Lin is the same, filming is non-stop, which also makes the two generations rarely have time to get together.
Only during the New Year's holidays or when there is nothing to do, He Lin will follow her husband to visit her in-laws politely.
In 2015, He Lin gave birth to a baby for her husband Wu Bing, and 38-year-old He Lin finally became a mother. The arrival of the child made her mother-in-law Lu Zhong very happy.
During He Lin's confinement, He's mother deliberately rushed from Shanghai to Beijing to take care of her daughter, and even Lu Zhong put down her work and pushed down the film appointment to help, and the two "mothers" worked together to take care of He Lin properly and thoughtfully.
Because He Lin is an elderly mother, she has taken a lot of risks, and the mother's mood swings after giving birth are great, which also makes her husband Wu Bing a victim.
He Lin often gets angry at Wu Bing for no reason, and he has a lot of requirements, even if he does something, he will still be complained and scolded by He Lin.
When Wu Bing was scolded by He Lin, Lu Zhong saw it, and he felt very uncomfortable, after all, his son is very good, there is no machismo, and he will help the family do things, and after having children, he will also help take care of the children, he is an excellent good man.
Lu Zhong, who couldn't see his son being wronged, said to his daughter-in-law with something to say: Wu Bing used to be quite capable, whether it was in work or life, he was praised by others, why did he have so many problems after getting married?
nominally criticized his son, but in fact he blamed He Lin for having a big temper and not knowing how to understand her husband. And He Lin, who heard this, also had a very bad face.
Because of Wu Bing, Lu Zhong and He Lin, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, were entangled, and they were unhappy.
There is nothing wrong with a mother loving her son, but she can't blame He Lin, after all, postpartum mothers will be emotionally affected, not intentionally, because of the impact after giving birth.
When the child was full moon, He's mother returned to Shanghai, and her mother-in-law Lu Zhong also chose to return to the crew and continue to work. Before leaving, Lu Zhong also specially invited a confinement sister-in-law for his daughter-in-law.
Because He Lin is a first-time mother and has no experience, many things make her break down and cry. The mood also made Wu Bing suffer pain and suffering.
In addition to taking care of his wife and children, Wu Bing is also a teacher and a director. Because of lack of sleep, Wu Bing was a lot haggard, which made his mother Lu Zhong really distressed when she saw it.
So, Lu Zhong told his daughter-in-law: Linlin, Xiaobing works very hard, you should spend more time on the child, let the confinement lady take care of it during the day, you will sleep more, and at night you work harder, let Xiaobing rest for a while.
In He Lin's ears, this is to blame herself for not understanding her husband, and before getting married, she said that she would treat herself as a daughter, but her son and daughter-in-law were very clear, and she didn't have a word of understanding for me, and He Lin, who was not happy in her heart, said directly: Wu Bing is my husband and the father of the child, and I also feel sorry for him, as for how I divide labor with him, don't worry about it.
Hearing the emotions in his daughter-in-law's words, Lu Zhong stopped talking, and there was a thorn between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Once, when he learned that the child was sick, Lu Zhong hurried to visit his son's house, and happened to see He Lin asking Wu Bing to put shoes on the baby.
It was originally a very small matter, but the tired He Lin blamed her husband: Why don't you care about your daughter at all? I don't think you have our mother and daughter and this family in your heart.
Seeing his mother on the side, Wu Bing did not defend himself, but silently changed the child's shoes.
Seeing that his son was angry, Lu Zhong said directly: Linlin, Captain Wu is so old, his father and I have never said anything about him, I hope you can also give him respect, if he doesn't do that thing well, you can say it, don't go online.
After hearing her mother-in-law's words, He Lin replied: Mom, no matter how radical the talk between our husband and wife is, it will be fine after a while, if you get involved, it will be complicated.
Afraid that the two would have an argument, Wu Bing and Yuesao hurriedly persuaded the two. In order to avoid friction with his daughter-in-law, Lu Zhong could only reduce going to his son's house, but in some festivals, Lu Zhong and his daughter-in-law He Lin could not avoid seeing each other.
The family understands the disharmony between Lu Zhong and He Lin, so every time they are together, the atmosphere will be depressing and embarrassing.
Because of the relationship between He Lin and Lu Zhong's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it was very uncomfortable for Wu Bing to be caught in the middle.
On one side is his mother and on the other side is his wife, they are the two women he loves the most, and he can't blame either party, nor can he take sides. Wu Bing, who was under great pressure, couldn't excrete his troubles, so he could only use alcohol to kill his sorrows.
looked at her husband, who didn't drink alcohol before, but often drank alcohol, which surprised He Lin, so she asked: Why do you like drinking?
Listening to his wife's words, Wu Bing replied gloomily: If you are drunk, you won't think about you and my mother.
These simple words deeply pierced He Lin's heart, and she didn't expect that some small things about herself and her mother-in-law would bring great harm and pain to her husband.
When He Lin, who is used to being a mother, is adding physical and mental adjustments, so that her mood will gradually improve. He Lin, who was originally Bing Xue's smart, was also aware of his own problems.
She sincerely apologized to her husband: I'm sorry, I didn't do a lot of things well, I will get along with my mother-in-law in the future, you can rest assured.
Hearing his wife's words, Wu Bing's tears instantly flowed out of his eyes: If you say so, I will be relieved.
Knowing that her mother-in-law Lu Zhong had just finished filming and was resting at home, He Lin took the initiative to take the child to visit, and also brought a set of cosmetics, she said to Lu Zhong: Mom, I bought it for you according to your skin type.
Seeing this, Lu Zhong was stunned, and she said: It's not a New Year's holiday, why are you giving me a gift?
As soon as these words fell, He Lin's eyes turned red, and she said: Mom, I'm sorry, I was immature before, and I blocked your heart; I remember when I was 7 months pregnant, you accompanied me to the community for a walk, and when I went uphill or ** steps, you stepped forward to help me; Wu Bing is busy with work, and you also accompanied me to the hospital for prenatal checkup ......I remember every bit of your goodness.
He Lin's words of apology made Lu Zhong's dissatisfaction and grievances dissipate in an instant.
In fact, He Lin, whose mentality has returned to normal, is a very filial child, and treats Lu Zhong as his own mother.
Seeing the change in her daughter-in-law, Lu Zhongli was very pleased, she took her daughter-in-law's hand and said: Girl, my mother is also doing something badly, don't worry about me; Our ultimate goal is the same, that is, to be happy for ourselves and for our families.
In this way, there is no longer a gap between He Lin and Lu Center. Seeing the two reconciled, Wu Bing was finally relieved, and a satisfied smile appeared on his face.
In March 2016, Lu Zhong's mother was sick and hospitalized, and her husband was also hospitalized due to worsening diabetes.
In order to help her mother-in-law, He Lin put down all her work and took good care of her in the hospital, which reduced the burden on Lu Zhong.
It's just because of the illness that Lu Zhong's mother unfortunately passed away. After bidding farewell to his mother, less than a month later, Lu Zhong's husband left again. The loss of two close relatives in succession pushed Lu Zhong into the abyss of grief.
In order to let her mother-in-law get out of the shadow of grief, He Lin waited by her mother-in-law's side, brought the child with her, and motioned the child to find her grandmother to play with her and play games together, which eased Lu Zhong's sadness.
Because the elderly mother-in-law is still there, Lu Zhong still has to do her filial piety for her husband, if she doesn't have time, He Lin will take care of her grandmother for her mother-in-law.
He Lin, who takes good care of the elderly, combs her grandmother's hair, washes her feet, and cuts her nails.
Looking at the filial piety of this granddaughter-in-law, the old lady didn't mention how happy she was, and she said to everyone: I can meet a daughter-in-law like Lu Zhong, and a granddaughter-in-law like He Lin, it is really a blessing from the previous life.
When Lu Zhong heard this, he felt a lot of emotion in his heart, although he had conflicts with He Lin before, but Lu Zhong at that time was full of pride, just like her mother-in-law said, it is not also Lu Zhong's blessing to be able to meet He Lin as a daughter-in-law.
For this reason, the relationship between He Lin and her mother-in-law Lu Zhong is getting better and better. They often participate in activities together and go shopping together, and the relationship is like a mother and daughter, and it is like a sister.
Many parents have been worrying about their children all their lives, but if they want to get along well with their children, it is also a science, but it is essential to only understand and tolerate, and warm their families with family affection.