In 2005, 26-year-old He Lin won the International TV Emmy Award for Best Actress with "Mother of a Slave", becoming the most dazzling popular superstar in the entertainment industry.
The fashionable and beautiful He Lin became attached to director Wu Bing because of a meal. In 2014, He Lin married Wu Bing, and her mother-in-law is also a well-known veteran actor Lu Zhong.
One is a celebrity mother-in-law, the other is a celebrity daughter-in-law, what kind of unknown story will be caused by the confrontation between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and how is this pair of "mother-daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law" cultivated?
He Lin was born in Shanghai in 1977 into a family of doctors, and she also has an older brother. He Lin, who was born beautiful since childhood, is particularly sensitive to artistic reactions, and when she was still studying at the Shanghai Children's Art Academy, she became a child star because of her participation in many TV series.
After graduating from high school, He Lin faced an important turning point in her life. She asked for her parents' opinions, and her father encouraged: Linlin, your parents will not design a future for you, you have to rely on your own way, you can work hard if you like it, and your parents will always support you.
Her father's encouragement also made He Lin make a decision, she gave up the opportunity to stay in Shanghai for development, resolutely applied for the Beijing Film Academy, and embarked on the road of acting.
In the four years of college, He Lin's "partial subject" was very prominent. When she was absent-minded in the cultural class, she was full of thoughts about where to go, and she carried a nail clipper with her, and once her flowing hair was slit, she would use the nail clipper to cut her hair in class, which caused a boo from the classmates next to her.
However, when taking acting classes, He Lin was like a different person, focused and very lively. At Nortel, He Lin is in the same class as Chen Kun, Huang Xiaoming and others, and there is also a strong artistic atmosphere in the class.
When he was a sophomore, opportunities fell from the sky and pushed the lucky He Lin onto the Avenue of Fame. In the autumn of 1997, director Yang Yang went to Beijing Film Academy to look for the heroine of "Holding Hands", and He Lin, who has a classical beauty temperament, entered Yang Yang's sight.
At that time, He Lin, although she was only 18 years old, condensed the gentleness and freshness unique to Jiangnan women. So, the director used this sweet and lovely Shanghai girl.
When filming a relationship scene in "Holding Hands", it was the middle of winter in Beijing, and it was supposed to be skating on the lake, but in the script, the hero and heroine were arranged to play in the water in Yuyuan Lake to talk about love, and at the same time maintain a sunny expression.
For this reason, the crew bought a set of diving suits, and when He Lin jumped into the water, the biting river water froze her whole body purple, and her lips trembled. It is precisely because of He Lin's dedication that she became famous in this drama of "embracing other people's love in the glacier".
With the broadcast of the TV series "Holding Hands", rave reviews, as the heroine, He Lin also entered the public eye, and won the TV Golden Eagle Award, becoming a rising star in the entertainment industry.
"Holding Hands" made He Lin's star journey smooth. Then, she filmed "Year after Year", during the filming, her father passed away for some reason, which made He Lin very sad, and after dealing with her father's funeral, He Lin devoted herself to her acting career.
After graduating from university in 2000, the leaders of the Beijing Film Academy wanted He Lin to stay at the school for graduate studies and then pursue a career as a director behind the scenes. He Lin refused, she felt that as long as she stood in front of the camera, no matter what role she played, she could instantly find the feeling, and being an actor was what she was good at.
So, she threw off her doctor's hat, signed a contract with the company, and officially took the step of a professional acting career. The next year, He Lin called her mother who was far away in Shanghai: Mom, I finally have my own home.
After graduating, He Lin soon bought a house in Beijing with her own efforts and built a "small nest" of her own. When decorating the house, He Lin designed it by herself and worked as a "supervisor" on site to decorate the house as she dreamed.
He Lin worked hard alone in Beijing, which made her mother very uneasy, and said that she would hire a nanny for He Lin to take care of her daughter's diet and daily life, but this was rejected by He Lin, and said to her mother: Mom, I have grown up, and I can cook and make soup by myself.
It turned out that He Lin, who had been taken care of by her mother in the past, felt that she had grown up after entering the society, and tried to cook and make soup, and her friends around her followed suit.
Since the first day she stepped into the entertainment industry, He Lin knew that acting career is a very competitive and stressful industry.
He Lin feels that mental health is very important to artists, so she has always decompressed herself, she is low-key, she never compares herself with others, is not impetuous, not vain, and not burdened by fame and fortune. The second is to confide, once she encounters something unhappy, she will immediately confide in her mother or friends.
Because of her good attitude, He Lin's career has also progressed by leaps and bounds, and she has starred in film and television dramas such as "Flying Knife Love", "King of Money", and "White Trap".
In the face of every play, He Lin tried her best to play it, and she was also very picky about the choice of scripts. Some ** who are not strong in literature and shoddy are unwilling to accept it, even if the salary is considerable.
In 2004, He Lin took over the filming of "Exquisite Girl", in order to play the role of "Qin Meiyu" well, He Lin turned down several film appointments, carefully figured out the psychology of the character, and even adjusted his movements in the mirror when he ate, and the director was very moved by his serious and dedicated spirit.
In the entertainment industry, He Lin's dedication is famous, and it is precisely because of this that He Lin will be appreciated by the industry and the audience. And she is low-key, but her love life is really a little "out of the stream" in the entertainment industry.
Compared with many celebrities, feelings are like "acting on the spot", and all kinds of scandals come and go, but He Lin has nothing to do with scandals, and she never talks about her private life, and she is even tight-lipped about her emotions.
For love, He Lin frankly likes tall, chic and upright boys. There is news that she has experienced an unforgettable first love, although the reporter wants to dig out He Lin's past, but He Lin said: Feelings are very precious things, and it is not only disrespectful to yourself to make a fuss, but also easy to hurt others.
Not only is the emotional protection very good, but even his own family, He Lin is reluctant to talk about it. There are a lot of ** family stories who want to interview He Lin, but He Lin asked rhetorically: My mother and brother and sister-in-law are ordinary people, they are used to a peaceful life, do you think I should push my relatives to the forefront and be harassed?
He Lin is a person who buries "please" in her heart, and those who are familiar with her know that He Lin is also a good girl, every time she finishes a play, the first thing she does is to return to Shanghai and accompany her mother to go shopping and chat about family life.
In the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, He Lin can be described as a clear stream, fresh and refined, serious acting, and a happy life, which has become another unique scenery.
2005, for He Lin, was the most glorious year since her debut. starred in many TV series such as "Dream Back to Qinghe" and "Beautiful Lies", which also made many celebrities red.
In November, He Lin reached the pinnacle of art again, and the eyes of the world were on this 26-year-old Oriental girl, who won the Emmy Award for Best Actress for "Mother of a Slave", becoming the first Asian actress to win the award for the first time.
In fact, after receiving the play "Mother for a Slave", because the character is too different from He Lin's real personality, many people are not optimistic about her, so she also feels that this role is a major test for herself, and she has been hesitant to take it.
Even if many people are not optimistic, the director still thinks He Lin is suitable, and under his strong opinion, He Lin won the role and tried his best to persuade He Lin to participate.
When "The Mother of a Slave" was broadcast, everyone was impressed, and He Lin used superb acting skills to interpret the role to the fullest.
After winning the honor, He Lin has also been promoted to an international superstar diva, even if her fame and status have doubled, He Lin still said modestly: I have been working very hard to shape the character image, and I have worked hard to develop my career.
He Lin, who is full of career achievements, is also very sweet and happy emotionally. Under the introduction of a friend, He Lin met director Wu Bing. Wu Bing is not only a director and screenwriter, but also an associate professor of production in the Department of Management of Beijing Film Academy.
The first time the two met was in a restaurant, and the kung fu of a meal allowed the two to have a basic understanding of each other, and in the pleasant chat, the two also secretly fell in love.
The two who have a good impression of each other, after this meal, also completely bonded, and under frequent contact, the two confirmed their relationship and became a couple.
For his girlfriend He Lin, Wu Bing also informed his family of the love situation. Wu Bing's parents are both famous actors in the entertainment industry, his father Wu Guiling is a performing artist, and his mother Lu Zhong is an old actor with both virtue and art.
As an old actor in the circle, Lu Zhong has some concerns about He Lin, after all, she has been in the entertainment industry for so many years, and she knows how "unreliable" the feelings of star artists are, so she has to check for her son's happiness.
Under the recommendation of Wu Bing, Lu Zhong met He Lin, and after some conversation, He Lin was generous and polite, and won Lu Zhong's approval.
In 2014, He Lin and Wu Bing entered the palace of marriage hand in hand. After marriage, Mr. and Mrs. Lu Zhong and Mr. and Mrs. He Lin lived separately and had their own independent space for each other.
Because they are busy filming, whether it is Lu Zhong and his wife or He Lin, they are constantly making appointments, so the two generations have very little time to get along, and there are no contradictions, but they can't talk about how good they are.
In March 2015, He Lin successfully gave birth to a daughter, 38-year-old He Lin became a mother. The arrival of the child made the whole family very happy, especially Lu Zhong, who was upgraded to a grandmother, and looked at the baby in swaddling clothes and smiled from ear to ear.
During the confinement period, He Lin's mother rushed from Shanghai to Beijing to take care of her, and Lu Zhong, as her mother-in-law, also pushed off the work in her hands and took care of He Lin.
It's just that He Lin is an elderly mother, so her mood fluctuates a lot, especially negative emotions, every time she comes, she will use her husband Wu Bing as an outlet to release her negative emotions.
It is precisely because of his mood swings that no matter what Wu Bing does at home, he will almost always be complained and blamed by He Lin. However, as a mother, how could Lu Zhong see that his son was wronged, after going to his son and daughter-in-law's house, Lu Zhong would be in front of his daughter-in-law He Lin, and he would insinuate that He Lin did not know how to understand her husband and had a bad temper.
The smart and clever He Lin, after hearing her mother-in-law Lu Zhong's words, also understood in her heart that her mother-in-law was talking about herself, which also made her feel very uncomfortable, and even many times, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a lot of quarrels.
In order to avoid disputes, Lu Zhong also reduced the number of times he went to his son and daughter-in-law's house. However, on some major festivals, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have to meet again, and out of politeness, they just greet politely and do not communicate too much.
Because of the disharmony between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this also made the atmosphere of the family a little embarrassing and depressing. Wu Bing, who is his son and husband, is even more caught in the middle, which makes him very annoyed.
In order to dispel his sorrows, Wu Bing, who had never drunk alcohol, also drank wine. Once, seeing her husband borrowing wine to kill her sorrows, He Lin felt very guilty and blamed herself, and at this moment, she really realized that some of her and her mother-in-law's mistakes would make her husband hurt and suffer.
As the baby grows up little by little, coupled with the adjustment of his physical and mental state, He Lin's negative emotions gradually dissipate. He Lin is a smart and clever person, and she has also begun to seriously examine her marriage and her previous relationship with her mother-in-law.
In order to make the family harmonious, He Lin took the initiative to apologize and talk frankly with her husband Wu Bing. Not only that, He Lin also took the initiative to buy gifts for her mother-in-law and apologize to her.
Holding his daughter-in-law's gift, and listening to the apology, this made Lu Zhong stunned, especially He Lin's word of sorry, which resolved all the unhappiness and dissatisfaction in Lu Zhongzhong.
In fact, He Lin is a filial person. After figuring it out, He Lin is even more filial to her mother-in-law Lu Zhong, and will accompany her in-laws every New Year, and will only go back to Shanghai to visit her parents after the Spring Festival.
He Lin's change also made Lu Zhongli feel warm, and the relationship between the two became very close, when they were fine, they would meet together to go shopping, and the two held hands like a pair of sisters, happy.
Now He Lin and Wu Bing have been married for 9 years, and their daughter is also very cute, the family of three is happy, and their lives are prosperous.
He Lin and Lu Zhong's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have careers, warm family affection, and happy lives, which is a win-win situation! Their home is like an affectionate song, flowing through the years.