Friends who used to get along with each other day and night without saying anything began to become strangers unconsciously.
At that moment, you suddenly recognized the reality. Check the following to see if you've ever had a similar experience.
One: You enthusiastically share something with a friend, but they don't respond. You don't know much about the content posted by the other party.
With the difference in everyone's work and social circles, the topics that were once common concerns have long since changed.
Two: You finally got together, and the last time you had a meeting was 1 year ago.
The higher the frequency of communication, the closer the psychological distance, and vice versa, which is the iron law of interpersonal communication.
Three: During the conversation, I learned that my friend changed jobs, moved houses, and changed girlfriends......When I asked, it was a long time ago.
Back then, in order to save a computer host, I had to go out together to choose a half-day. Now, so many big things, you are an afterthought.
It's no longer timely to know each other's recent situation.
Four: (1) They are all playing a certain game, but they have hardly formed a team together, and they have their own game partners; (2) I saw that a friend posted a circle of friends, and he went to the concert of your favorite star;
It is no longer the first choice of the other party, and it no longer needs the company of the other party.
Five: In the process of chatting, you find that between the lines, your friend is less sincere and more routine. They are skillfully using so-called interpersonal skills, such as "even if you are doing well, you have to cry poor in front of your friends", "you have to be warm, polite, and don't know what to ask questions".
Friends use the "routine" on themselves.
Six: When I was a child, because I lived close and walked diligently, I could often see each other's parents and elders. Later, they each got married and moved away, and they didn't bring their partners or family with them when they got together, and before they knew it, their girlfriends had changed, or the children were several years old, and they hadn't met once.
I no longer recognize each other's family.
What other moments and scenes make you realize that your friend has drifted apart?