"Thirty Only" has been on the air for several years, and it is still the talk of fans after dinner.
Xu Huanshan's incompetence and scum, Lin Youyou broke the new height of "Little Three", these vivid plots and characters make people feel like acting, just like what really happened, so they are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Its core is an in-depth understanding of urban interpersonal relationships and the misunderstandings that individuals may fall into in the process of growing up.
For example, the "little three" Lin Youyou, who has good family conditions, why did he give up his job and family in Beijing and go to Shanghai to pursue a married man, when everyone shouts and beats the "little three", Xu Huanshan himself may not know.
1, Xu Huanshan's own marital problems
Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia are a seemingly perfect couple, but there are hidden problems behind them that are not easy to detect.
Gu Jia is a former executive who gave up his career for the sake of his family and devoted himself to Xu Huanshan's company to help Xu Huanshan realize his ideals.
Her dedication and sacrifice are impressive, but behind this, she also gradually lost herself and neglected her own needs.
Although Xu Huanshan enjoyed Gu Jia's care and support, he gradually became dependent and lacked the ability to think independently.
This kind of marriage that seems to be harmonious but lacks room for personal growth makes people wonder if such a relationship can be maintained for a long time.
When Lin Youyou appeared, it just broke the appearance of the balance of Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia's marriage, and her youthful atmosphere, impeccable beauty and sharp mind undoubtedly left a deep impression on people.
However, as the plot deepened, she chose to intervene in the marriage of Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia, which was jaw-dropping.
Why would a girl with such superior conditions in the eyes of outsiders embark on such a controversial path?
2. Lin Youyou's growth background
Xu Huanshan is several years older than Lin You, and generally speaking, girls who like men who are much older than themselves hide their lack of father's love.
Judging from Lin Youyou's family environment, their family has a house in Beijing, and she has a Beijing hukou, so at least it is an asset of about 20 million, and the growth environment should not be bad.
It is not difficult to imagine whether Lin Youyou had an emotional deficit in his childhood, and whether his parents had time to give him enough companionship and education. Otherwise, why did she still go to Hushan knowing that it was immoral, and even threatened other people's children, even when her wife came to the door, she was still very arrogant, she didn't know that she was wrong, and threatened to save Xu Huanshan.
When a person grows up, he lacks correct education and guidance, and when he grows up, he is easily blinded by his own desires and desire for love, and deviates from a healthy life track. She is on the wrong path, and her actions have hurt not only herself, but also those who are innocent.
3. Thinking about the phenomenon of forest.
When we see Lin Youyou's behavior of becoming a "little three", in addition to being surprised and puzzled, we should think deeply about the reasons behind it.
This is not only a matter of individual choice, but also the result of multiple factors such as society, family and personal growth.
We should learn from this experience, pay attention to the growth environment and inner world of individuals, and provide them with correct guidance and education to avoid similar tragedies from happening again.
The reason why Xu Huanshan fell into Lin Youyou's trap is not only his own weakness and dependence, but also reflects that he has not yet established a complete value system. He longs to be needed and understood, but is unaware of his inner needs. This lack of self-awareness and values made him waver at a critical moment and finally made the wrong choice.
In this competitive society, everyone is trying to grow, but it's easy to fall into the trap. Instead of judging the choices and actions of others, we should try to understand their positions and motivations. By reflecting on our relationships with others, we may be able to gain deeper wisdom and find a better path to growth.
It doesn't matter whether Xu Huanshan will understand Lin Youyou's inner world, what matters is whether we can learn from their stories and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past. We should learn to cherish the people and things around us, build healthy interpersonal relationships, and grow and progress together. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own inner needs and development, and strive to establish a complete value system to become more independent and strong people.
Thirty Only" is a TV series with its deeply rooted stories and vivid character building, allowing us to see the growth and misunderstandings in urban interpersonal relationships. By reflecting on our own stories and those of others, we can find a better path to growth and create a better future together.