"I protect you with my life and don't let the sharp world hurt you.
As sung in Xiao Jingteng's song "Desperate for Himself", now he has finally found the person who is worth protecting with his life.
On June 27, 2023, Xiao Jingteng posted a long official announcement on his personal Weibo to announce the successful marriage proposal, and at the same time posted an intimate photo with his girlfriend Lin Youhui.
is different from many separate and combined relationships in the entertainment industry, the reason why Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui are hotly discussed is the 14-year age gap between the two.
After knowing each other for 16 years, Lin Youhui supported Xiao Jingteng all the way, from the age of 20 to 36, Xiao Jingteng's career is thriving, and he has grown from a young man to an entertainment star, which is inseparable from Lin Youhui's silent support and planning.
Xiao Jingteng is a shining star in the Chinese music scene, with good looks, good conditions, and zero scandals, so he suddenly announced the marriage proposal, which surprised all netizens.
Why is Xiao Jingteng with an agent who is 14 years older than him? What kind of unknown charm does Lin Youhui have?
Cai Kangyong once asked Xiao Jingteng in a performance: Are you willing to make your growth experience into a movie?
Xiao Jingteng's 36-year life course is a story of blood and tears with twists and turns, and the most admirable thing is that he used down-to-earth actions to turn a bad hand against the wind.
When he was a child, Xiao Jingteng was a bad boy in the eyes of others, and the poor and rough growth environment once led him astray.
When he was a child, Xiao Jingteng's family was poor and had no stable income**, and the family relied on his grandmother to set up a stall to make a living.
Xiao Jingteng once said in an interview in a certain issue: "My family is very poor, so poor that the doors and windows are damaged by the wind, and there is no money to repair them. ”
Slowly, my father developed a bad habit of alcoholism, and often beat and scolded his family, and Xiao Jingteng was the most often beaten person, seven days a week, and five days would be beaten, but his mother would only cry for him.
When he was young, he was very disgusted with his father's domestic violence, but he was powerless to resist, and over time, he chose to use his rebellion to rebel against his father.
When Xiao Jingteng was seven or eight years old, he learned to smoke, fight, deliberately provoke his classmates, burn his classmates' hair with a lighter, and skipping school became commonplace.
The adolescent Xiao Jingteng had more rebellious performances, and even stole his grandmother's money, although he knew that it was not easy for the old man to make money, he still stole the money and fooled around with those street boys who were thirsty for wine.
Until the death of his grandmother, Xiao Jingteng's relationship with his father has not been eased, and he is still the bad boy who fools around all day.
"I don't have a special hobby, just to make my father angry, every time I see my father who is thunderous, I feel a sense of revenge in my heart. ”
In a later interview, when talking about that period of youth, he was more emotional, he said: "At the beginning, I fought because I didn't like my father and deliberately went against my father, and then I fought more of a kind of self-preservation, because if you are not ruthless, then you will be the one who will be beaten." ”
When his father is emotionally stable, he will also preach to him, but for Xiao Jingteng, this kind of education is tantamount to adding fuel to the fire, those words that belittle and reprimand him are for his good in his father's eyes, and Xiao Jingteng listens to it, and he will only be more presumptuous to cause trouble.
As the saying goes: if you walk too much at night, you will encounter ghosts, and if you fight too much, you will inevitably miss. When he was in the second grade of junior high school, he was too ruthless in a fight with his classmates, resulting in a cerebral hemorrhage, and Xiao Jingteng was also sent to the juvenile court for a one-year counseling education.
It was in this year that he met the noble man of life and brought this stumbling boy out of the abyss into the sun.
"You have so much strength to fight, you might as well use that strength to play the drums. This is what the tutor told him at that time, and Xiao Jingteng remembered it in his heart.
Xiao Jingteng has liked to play drums since he was a child, and he once learned from a teacher, but because of some conflicts with the teacher, his learning was gone.
In order to let him start from his hobbies and hobbies, so as to change his bad habits, the counselor personally found the drumming teacher Ali, and after communicating with him, Xiao Jingteng finally came into contact with ** learning again. Ali is Xiao Jingteng's enlightenment teacher on the road, not only teaching him, but also allowing him to find himself in **.
At that time, Xiao Jingteng often practiced playing drums and piano with Mr. Ali, serious and focused, and often practiced to the point of selflessness.
After a year of extracurricular discipline, Xiao Jingteng became a jazz drum teacher in the ** classroom, specializing in teaching children in the community to play drums, because of this move, Xiao Jingteng was affirmed by the then mayor of Taipei, and won the "kind-hearted person" award, which is Xiao Jingteng's most precious award, more precious than the Golden Melody Award, because it allowed him to find the meaning of life and believe that he is also a useful person to society.
With in-depth contact, Xiao Jingteng felt the "magic" of **, and he was surprised to find that whenever he played the drum or practiced the piano, his heart was unusually calm, and his body and mind could naturally relax.
It was ** that made him learn to control his emotions and let the rebellious teenager return to his normal life; It was also ** that took root in his withered heart and gave him new hope.
At the age of 17, Xiao Jingteng became a famous local jazz drum teacher. In September of the same year, Xiao Jingteng was admitted to the People's Technical College to study. Since then, the street gangster who loves to fight has become a good work-study boy.
He gave all his time and energy to **, going back and forth between school, jazz drum studio, and bar, and he used the money he earned to support himself and give his mother some subsidies.
While his mother was surprised by his transformation, she finally felt comforted in her heart, she was really worried that Xiao Jingteng would live his life in such a mess.
In 2007, Xiao Jingteng successfully kicked in the show "Super Avenue of Fame", this rebellious bastard boy, after several years of transformation, became an instant hit.
"Super Avenue of Fame" is a talent show similar to "Super Girl", as a rising star, Xiao Jingteng has become a hot singer, many record companies in Taiwan want to sign with him, after some comparison, and finally in 2007 Xiao Jingteng signed with Lin Youhui's Magpie Agency.
Lin Youhui is a veritable "second generation star", and his father Lin Guangning is a famous actor, agent, and ** person, and is the starring role of film and television dramas such as "A Fairy Wife in the Family" and "Double Cannon". =
Lin Youhui was subtly influenced by her father since she was a child, and after graduation, she successfully entered Taiwan Dongsen TV Station as a planning director.
However, this job that everyone envies, she only did it for a month and a half before quitting, and she felt that she needed to be experienced.
After resigning, she started as a program assistant and stepped into the path of an agent.
Zhang Huimei, Karen Mok, F4 and many other stars at home and abroad concerts have been arranged by her and have been successful.
As the eagle's wings became fuller, it had the desire to soar into the sky, and in 2006, Lin Youhui set up her own brokerage company.
After Xiao Jingteng signed with Magpie Agency, Lin Youhui personally served as his agent.
In 2008, Xiao Jingteng's commercial performances exploded, and when others envied his good luck, Lin Youhui asked Xiao Jingteng to turn down most of his commercial performances and go to the Golden Horse Awards ceremony to perform.
Xiao Jingteng was puzzled, he felt that he would miss the opportunity to make money if he pushed away the commercial performance, but Lin Youhui said disapprenorantly: "The commercial performance just allows you to make money for a while, and going to the Golden Horse Awards to perform, although you can't make money for a while, will give you the opportunity to make more money, so that more people can know about you and make more money in the future." ”
Lin Youhui's words deeply shook Xiao Jingteng's heart, in his cognition, the boss of the brokerage company is the goal of maximizing profits, and he will never be soft when he can squeeze artists. I didn't expect Lin Youhui to think about his future.
A special emotion took root in Xiao Jingteng's heart, he not only regarded Lin Youhui as his boss, but also regarded her as a relative.
When he was a child, Xiao Jingteng was a famous little bully, but after becoming famous, his personality was introverted and not good at interpersonal communication, Lin Youhui wanted to cultivate him, and often took him to parties to give him more encouragement and more intimate care.
Lin Youhui often told him how to answer when he was interviewed, the most important thing is to be sincere and not pretend; When Xiao Jingteng was recording, Lin Youhui was by his side, encouraging him with his eyes, and letting him relax and record.
For Xiao Jingteng, Lin Youhui spent twelve points of energy to urge him to grow, and his hard work paid off.
With Lin Youhui's selfless help, Xiao Jingteng was fortunate to participate in the 2011 CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sang "New Power Song Combination Skewers" with Li Jian and Fang Datong.
In the same year, Xiao Jingteng held a solo concert in Hong Kong.
In 2012, Xiao Jingteng held another concert tour in Hong Kong, and 12,000 tickets were sold out in 5 minutes.
Xiao Jingteng's fame is getting bigger and bigger, and his name is resounding on both sides of the strait.
's career is in full swing, but his emotions are rarely heard of, which makes fans who follow him pay more attention to his love life, and they will reverie whenever there is a stir.
Some netizens once revealed that Lin Youhui cared too much about Xiao Jingteng, which surpassed the agent's normal care for the artist, and even when Xiao Jingteng went to extract his teeth, Lin Youhui accompanied him throughout the whole process and comforted him carefully.
However, when the news of the two falling in love was spread on the Internet, Lin Youhui came out to deny it as soon as possible, and said that she was just a normal concern for employees as a boss, nothing more. It's just that the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.
While Lin Youhui denied it in time, Xiao Jingteng began to seriously examine his relationship with Lin Youhui.
He really felt that Lin Youhui did not treat him as a puppet for money, but the closest person, planning for him, giving him respect and trust, love and care.
As long as a person opens the emotional valve, the surging love will pour out, and Xiao Jingteng's gratitude and touching to Lin Youhui gradually turned into red-hot love.
In 2018, Xiao Jingteng, who clearly understood his feelings, boldly confessed to Lin Youhui, but was rejected by Lin Youhui, mainly because of the 14-year-old age gap between the two, he was afraid that his family would oppose it, which is the case.
Xiao Jingteng's parents objected to their son marrying Lin Youhui because of the age gap between the two.
The mother bitterly persuaded her: "If you don't understand it now, you will know in the future that the age gap of 14 years will bring multiple obstacles to your future life." But Xiao Jingteng didn't listen to persuasion, and only insisted on his heart.
In the Spring Festival of 2019, in order to persuade his parents to accept Lin Youhui, he revealed his heart to his parents: "I love Lin Youhui, she is not only my boss, but also my nobleman, and she is the person who gave me warmth on the road of my career. In the face of Xiao Jingteng's firmness, his parents finally nodded in agreement.
In March 2022, Xiao Jingteng admitted that he and Lin Youhui were lovers. The news spread, some people blessed, some people watched, and many people thought that Xiao Jingteng was just impulsive, after all, the age of the two was a gap that could not be crossed.
Xiao Jingteng didn't care about the comments of netizens, let it be stormy, he loved calmly.
In the 16 years of companionship, the two have had too many sweat and tears together, and love has long been integrated into each other's lives.
So, on Lin Youhui's 50th birthday, Xiao Jingteng seriously prepared a romantic marriage proposal ceremony, and confessed affectionately: We have secretly loved each other for the past 16 years, and now I want the whole world to know, mama, you have never been alone, now, I want to share your hard work, I hope this day will make you wait too long!
When the news of Xiao Jingteng's marriage proposal rushed to the hot search, some netizens couldn't help but ask: "Does he have a mother-lover complex?" Or is it out of being moved by Lin Youhui's love for him? ”
In fact, true love has nothing to do with age and height, only with love and the temperature with which the two get along.
Don't bother with their 14-year-old age distance, as long as two hearts cross the ravine and move closer to each other, who can be sure that they will not be happy in the future?