The Book of Poetry reads: My Fair Lady, a gentleman.
It means that a beautiful and virtuous woman will attract a man of good character.
In fact, in the middle of the world, good-looking is an advantage, and having its own unique charm is the ability.
A woman who can make a man "unwilling" is not a woman who has a face that captivates the country and the city, but has a high "love quotient".
Women with high love quotient tend to be confident and optimistic, able to enjoy solitude, and have a high ability to empathize, which will make men feel comfortable and at ease whenever they are.
1. Be confident and optimistic.
It is said that the essence of love is attraction.
I think so. Confident and optimistic women, will exude an invisible aura, every word and deed contains firmness, they have their own light, as if there is an irresistible attraction, attracting men to follow.
They will not complain when they encounter difficulties, but face and solve them with an optimistic attitude, and they are good at seeing the good side of things.
When you get along with such a woman, you will feel warm and relaxed.
Sometimes after a day of work, I am exhausted, and when I come home and face a mess of life, the whole person is like a withered tree, lifeless, but seeing her hearty smile and intimate comfort, the haze in my heart instantly dissipated, and my mood gradually became comfortable.
Undoubtedly, a confident and optimistic woman will make people want to be close and more likely to make men addicted.
Even though she needs to face many practical problems in life, she still retains that self-confidence and optimistic belief in her heart, and strives to live every day to the fullest and happier.
Such a woman, whether in life or career, will give men unlimited energy and encourage each other to move forward.
2. Be able to enjoy solitude.
Schopenhauer said: It is only when a person is alone that he can fully become himself. Whoever does not love solitude does not love freedom, because it is only when a person is alone that he is free.
In the relationship between the opposite sex, a woman who can enjoy solitude has her true self.
A woman who knows how to enjoy solitude will not suffer from gains and losses in her relationship.
My girlfriend said that she and her boyfriend have gotten along so far and rarely sent good morning and good night. When her boyfriend works overtime, she won't bother to check the post, and she won't blame him because he doesn't reply to messages in time, and she doesn't contact him for a day, and she doesn't see each other for a few days, feeling that the other party ignores her.
Because she is in a relationship, she knows how to enjoy alone time.
When two people are together, they enjoy sweetness and romance; When they are temporarily separated, they shine on the tracks of their respective lives.
You have your career, I have a job I love; You have your buddies and socials, and I have my own girlfriends and socials, and even if the other person is not around, I don't feel lonely at all.
Women who can enjoy solitude will not be suspicious of each other in their relationships, but trust each other, give men space and freedom, men will know how to cherish more, and their feelings will be warmed up.
3. High empathy ability.
I've watched a hit drama:
The male protagonist in the play has been someone else's child since he was a child, whether he is studying or working, he is very good, he is very strict with himself, and he will never allow himself to fail.
However, as a doctor, he couldn't save his mentor, he did it, blamed himself, which also became his heart disease, and he didn't dare to take a scalpel again.
Until he met the heroine, the heroine knew his knot, and did not advise him, but shared with him the difficulties she encountered in the cello competition, empathized with his experience, and silently accompanied him.
The heroine took him to listen to the ** meeting and told him that there are cracks in everything, and that is where the light comes in, and so do people.
The male protagonist's heart knot was opened by her and fell in love with the female protagonist.
A woman with strong empathy knows how to listen, knows how to accompany silently, can understand a man's suffering, and will empathize with his difficulties and difficulties.
A woman with the ability to empathize can detect the other party's mood fluctuations at the first time, can look at the problem from the other party's point of view, empathize with it, and make him deeply fascinated by you.
Some people say that a woman with a high love quotient is like a blooming rose, with its own fragrance and attracting butterflies.
If a woman wants to win the favor of a man, she must be like a diamond, with her own sparkling charm, attracting the other party to come close naturally.
For the rest of your life, may you be a mesmerizing woman, confident and optimistic, enjoy solitude, know how to empathize, don't have to please, and strive to live every moment.