"Kong Ming sighed and said: 'It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to achieve things, and you can't be strong!' ’”
This sentence in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" makes people feel emotional, and it also makes us discover a different Zhuge Liang.
In our minds, we always feel that Zhuge Liang is omnipotent and legendary. But back to **, life itself, is another image.
Life is a life, grass and trees are autumn. What can you fight for? And what has been lost? Perhaps, many things were originally arranged by "heaven", and I was fortunate to have it, but I couldn't have my life.
The best way to live in life should be to fight for the inevitable, go with the flow, and be indifferent to gains and losses.
The plan is in the people, and they should fight.
Zhuge Liang lost his mother at the age of three and his father at the age of eight.
Fate kissed him with pain, but he reciprocated with a song.
In order to survive, he lived in his uncle Zhuge Xuan's house. At that time, my uncle was a taishou in Yuzhang, and his life was quite passable.
As the smoke of gunpowder rose, my uncle had to take refuge in Liu Biao in Jingzhou.
In the troubled times, Zhuge Liang thought of "knowledge changes fate"., so the mode of hard reading in the cold window was opened. He also visited Sima Hui and Pang Degong many times.
After fighting for knowledge, he began to think deeply - a long time must be divided, and a long time must be united. According to the law of the development of things, he planned the pattern of "Three Kingdoms".
When you become an adult, the happiest thing in life is to have a decent family. Fortunately, Zhuge Liang didn't spend much money and didn't spend much energy, so he married Huang Yueying, the daughter of the local celebrity Huang Chengyan's family. As the book says:"Kong Mingxu, that is, to carry it. ”
When he integrated into his father-in-law's family relationship, he naturally became Liu Biao's nephew and son-in-law. Life quickly went up several steps.
has a family, talents, and plans, and must have a "position". Zhuge Liang pinched his fingers and learned that Liu Bei was coming to visit him. Then he sold two passes, and he had to let Liu Bei come three times before he met and talked. As the saying goes, what is too easy to get, will not be cherished. It is still difficult to get as good as it is to appear noble.
In the Battle of Chibi, Zhuge Liang and Zhou Yu conspired, which made Cao Cao's idea of quickly dominating the world ruined, and also gave Liu Bei a respite, and quickly established the Shu Kingdom. Zhuge Liang did not give in and became the prime minister.
In life, people must always strive for something, or they will always do nothing.
From Zhuge Liang, we found that people compete for three things, and they will become great weapons.
To plan the situation, we must strive for wisdom.
In life, how to live a lifetime, you can't sit still. Have a long-term plan. And the formulation and implementation of this plan must rely on wisdom.
No matter how difficult it is, you should not stop reading, and don't think that reading is useless. The books we read today may not discover their usefulness for years later. A good life, lifelong reading, never slack.
Seeking family fortune.
When you meet a person with a white head, choose a city to grow old. This kind of love is what we have to fight about. Even if there is a beautiful person in front of you, if you don't fight for it, it will be in vain.
And no one will take the initiative to ** you. Therefore, I suggest that when you meet someone you like, you can confess it loudly, even if you are rejected, it doesn't matter.
After having a family, couples work together to strive for a happy future. As long as the hearts are together, the rest of the things will be easy to do.
To make a career is to make money.
Whether it's a part-time job or starting a business, it's all about money. With money, most of life's difficulties can be solved. It's okay to have a family, educate your children, and support your parents.
We must understand that "dividing the world into three parts" is not only a piece of land, but also the wealth of the earth. Clear-eyed people see through, but don't say it thoroughly.
To live, we must strive for success. You can't do big things, you have to look good for small things. Even if it is an aunt who sweeps the floor, you have to strive to get a little bonus, don't think that you are too humble, and you are always bowed.
It's up to the sky, and it's time to let it go.
Zhuge Liang in Shu can be said to have gained fame and fortune, but he has always "done his best and died".
Try your best to stabilize the rear of Shu, be friends with Wu, and then send troops to attack Cao Wei. At a critical time, Wu didn't want to cooperate with Shu anymore, so he sent people to attack Guan Yu in Jingzhou.
Next, Liu Bei was impulsive and provoked Wu Guo, and the loss was not small.
In the melancholy, Liu Bei passed away, Guan Yu, Zhang Fei, and Zhang Fei's son Zhang Bao and other right-hand men all passed away. Zhuge Liang endured his grief and created the performance of "Six Out of Qishan".
Every time you go out of Qishan, you will encounter different troubles. Either he met a teammate like a pig, or a cunning opponent like a wolf, and Sima Yi - a dead pig was not afraid of boiling water, no matter how he provoked him, he would not send troops.
When Zhuge Liang passed away, the talented Luo Yin lamented for himWhen heaven and earth come together, the heroes are not free.
It turns out that no matter how we toss, there are always some unreachable other shores, and life is destined to be imperfect.
The poet Gu Cheng said: "Everything is clear, but we still miss it in a hurry, because you believe in fate, because I doubt life." ”As we change our destiny, don't forget about life itself. After all, ordinary people fight for the life of a family, and powerful people fight for the life of a group of people.
If you want to live well,When you reach a certain age, don't fight, learn to let go, and avoid the routine of "prosperity must decline".
Don't fight for fame and fortune, don't have desires because of this, and forget the happiness of three meals a day.
Don't think you're always a young man, learn to serve the old. Especially after the age of 50, taking good care is the most important thing.
Don't fight to win or lose, admit mistakes if you're wrong, and be humble when you're right. Whether at home or in other circles, everyone's perception is different, you can only manage yourself, and you can't let others go with you.
In the first half of his life, he looked for a way out, and in the second half of his life, he built a way out.
Mozi. There is a saying in the Heavenly Chronicles: "Those who follow the will of heaven will love each other and benefit each other, and they will be rewarded; Those who oppose the will of heaven will not be evil, but will be punished for being thieves. ”If you want to be happy all your life, you have to obey the will of God, see through life, and then follow the trend. Don't go against the rules, break through the bottom line, and think you have superpowers.
People, hard work does not necessarily have a reward, but the harvest must be the result of hard work.
Nothing, what is lost, is not necessarily a bad thing; What you get is not necessarily a good thing.
As long as you smooth out your mood, you will find that spring is everywhere in the world.
fight, with a clear conscience; Let it go, nothing to do.