What are the four kinds of relics that cannot be burned after the death of an old man? People die like lights go out, and after the death of the deceased, love and hatred have become clouds of smoke.
What is left behind is just the memories of the living, and whenever they miss their loved ones, they will take it out**.
In addition to keeping them as memorials, some people burn the deceased's favorite items during their lifetime. They believe that in this way, they can "communicate with yin and yang", and that the burned objects will be conveyed to the deceased.
However, modern people no longer blindly follow superstition as they did in the past.
Although relics are still burned, most of them are used to clean up the space in their homes and organize them.
But not everything is suitable for incineration. If it is not incinerated properly, it can cause trouble.
Elders often say that there are four kinds of relics that cannot be burned because they bring wealth to future generations. What exactly are these four things? What are the consequences of incineration?
The first question is why the relics were burned.
There are many things that a person goes through when they grow up, and there are many "milestones" that symbolize growth. One of the most painful things is saying goodbye to a loved one who has passed away, and having to endure the pain to take care of their aftermath.
It's not easy to get a funeral done. Chinese are understandably particular about funerals and festive occasions.
The funeral is one of the four great sorrows of life, marking that one's life has officially entered a new family, and one will face various difficulties in life with the new family in the future.
Funerals are valued because it is the end of a person's life. Everyone, rich or poor, rich or poor, will experience death.
Even Qin Shi Huang, our respected ancestor, can only build an incomparably luxurious mausoleum for himself. Immortality is pure rumor.
In order for the deceased to rest in peace, the living usually prepare a elaborate funeral for them. Doing so can also show their filial piety.
After the funeral, a person's life officially enters nothingness. The living need to sort out their emotions and start living again.
At this time, how to deal with the relics left by the deceased becomes a problem.
Some people choose to burn directly, similar to going to the grave and burning paper, hoping that the burned things can be sent to the deceased and rest with them.
Others believe that the things left behind by the elderly take up space, so they burn them to clean up the space in their homes.
One might ask, why not donate these items to others for use and choose to burn them?
Whether it's a donation or a gift, the person receiving it is usually less than willing to accept it.
Nowadays, people's living conditions are getting better and better, and even the living materials in poor areas are quite sufficient. For example, there is a special charity in charge of clothing every year, and there is basically no shortage of them.
The life of the elderly is usually more frugal, and it is common for a piece of clothing to be worn for many years, even until it is torn.
When such clothing is donated, the recipient is often reluctant. It is not easy to dispose of it directly, so it is easy to simply incinerate it.
However, things like clothing can be burned, but there are four things that must never be burned because they bring wealth to future generations. What exactly are these four things, and why is there any trouble with burning them?
The first is diaries and books.
After the death of the elderly, the last thing they can burn is the diaries and books they left behind. Why can't diaries be burned? What's the doorway?
In fact, the diaries of the elderly tend to record important events and experiences in their lives. For some elderly people who are used to keeping a diary, the content of the diary covers a variety of aspects.
From daily chores such as buying rice and white flour** to the impact of national policies on life, almost all of them can be recorded in the diary.
These records are a testimony to China's social changes, changes in the lives of ordinary people, and ideological progress.
These diaries that have become relics are not only a way for future generations to understand the life and ideological world of the elderly, but also an important historical material for studying the changes of folk customs.
In addition, the diary may contain some of the "secrets" of the deceased.
Some parents are not good at expressing their feelings for their children, which is a common phenomenon in East Asia. Therefore, many children, even if they are in their thirties and forties, still think that their parents do not love them.
However, when reading the diaries left by their parents, some lucky children may feel the love of their parents from them. This is a relief for these children.
Therefore, the diary of the deceased is an important historical material for the public, and for the individual, it is the key to understanding the feelings of the parents. It cannot be easily incinerated.
Similar to diaries, books left behind by the deceased cannot be burned.
Books are the ladder of human progress, and they are also important nourishment for the growth and development of the human spiritual world.
For some elderly people with a certain degree of literacy, most of the books left behind are of the characteristics of the times, and they are likely to be out of print.
These books may be a record of the learning and growth of the deceased. Some people like to make annotations in books and record their feelings in the blanks.
When future generations read it, it is like having a dialogue with the deceased across time and space, and they feel the communication with each other. Therefore, the books left behind by the deceased are spiritual treasures and should not be burned at will.
If diaries and books are valuable and should not be burned lightly, then what else is left behind by the deceased that cannot be burned?
That's ** and the bed. Why can't it be incinerated?
Modern people often burn **, and cutting ** is also a common behavior.
For example, when a couple of lovers are in love, they will take frequent photos to record their moments together and make a photo wall. But if you break up, these ** become a burden, and sometimes they choose to burn to get rid of the past.
However, after the death of an elderly person in the family, it is better not to burn them. Why?
The ** left by the elderly is often in black and white**, recording their best times and the scenes of their family and friends.
These precious memories of youth are precious to future generations and an important way to remember the deceased.
The deceased's ** can be used as a memory to help the living remember their loved ones, which is also its important significance.
**10,000 Powder Incentive Program In addition, beds and bedding cannot be burned. In some cultures, bedding is considered an item that brings good fortune and therefore cannot be burned.