Some people say that abstaining from sex is to increase wealth.
So why is there such a statement.
Let's think about it backwards first, what will happen if you don't quit sex? Is it just a loss of money?
First of all, people who do not abstain from sex, like to indulge in lust, and indulge in lust will definitely have poor physical fitness, decreased mental power, and will not have any keen awareness when encountering problems, let alone any insights.
Secondly, this is the kind of person who, because he is addicted to lust, is easily led by the nose by beauty, and the ** who has met some women a little, the wealth that has been gathered on his body is handed over like this.
In the end, it is because of the deep addiction to lust, for a long time, the body will be covered with a thick layer of karma, and you will slowly lock yourself in it, and there is no hope of turning over.
This is not superstition, but because the longer you indulge in lust, the more moral sense you will trigger by your own protective mechanism, and the more moral shame will accumulate in your body, and this moral pressure will further condemn you in your heart, and as you give in to lust every time, you will lose a part of your humanity as a human being.
One day, you will find yourself farther and farther away from a normal person, falling into a deep sense of powerlessness, and because you have lost the ability to think, you will soon sink into this powerlessness, and you will never be able to pick up your personality again.
The end result is that your wealth is sucked away, and you have no motivation to move forward.
Then let's understand it the other way around, quitting sex can ensure that your body has a certain amount of motivation and can avoid your own financial losses, so it should be said that quitting sex is to keep money, how can you increase your wealth?
Don't worry, I'll give you an example, and you might get the idea.
A few months ago, I moved and found a master who was pulling a car, and I chatted with this master about whether I had a ride or not in the car.
In the process of chatting, I learned that this master is married, and there is an eight-year-old son studying in his hometown, the child is brought by his wife at home, he usually goes back once a month or two, or even once in two or three months, of course, if the child has a long vacation, the wife will also take the child to him, the family probably lives like this.
Then I started to ask questions, saying that if you husband and wife haven't seen each other for so long, won't it affect the relationship between husband and wife?
The master smiled and said no, after getting married, it will be like that for a long time, and he and his wife will ** every day.
I went on to say, you are not afraid that you will not come back for such a long time, and your wife has found someone else at home.
At this time, the driver laughed and said that he had a good attitude and would not worry about this, because even if he worried, he couldn't change the facts, and he couldn't control it.
I don't have a good opinion of him, but I believe his open-mindedness is true.
When an ordinary person can't change the facts, all he can do is accept it calmly, and he has long passed that noisy era.
When talking about this, I observed him, the top of his sparse head, and his sauce-colored face showed a sense of exhaustion.
Although he didn't directly admit that he was looking outside, he looked like he was looking for it, and the consumption of money and energy would definitely not be less, because this kind of exhaustion is not only due to staying up late and working hard, but also a weak white can be seen on his sauce-colored **.
Naturally, I'm too embarrassed to debunk it.
Later, he sighed to me, saying that his current life is becoming more and more boring, and it is not at all as interesting as when he was a child.
I asked, what's so boring?
He thought about it for a while, and said that he didn't feel any hope, although he was not rich in material things before, but there was still a hope, but now he basically can't see any hope, and he can live one day at a time.
Of course, this is inseparable from the current environment, but his bad habits have also seriously affected his life, of which indulgence accounts for a particularly large proportion.
Before, I wrote an article about why the more empty people are, the more they want?
In fact, there is one point that I didn't say, that is, those who are very empty, in fact, are also people who can't see their own hope, because they can't see hope, but they want to solve it, so in the end they can only be alleviated through the shortcut of indulgence.
This is an endless loop.
Because you can't see hope, and then you indulge in lust, and you hurt your kidney qi, and your kidney qi is insufficient, then this person's motivation will be insufficient, and they will not be able to give birth to lofty ambitions, and they will not see hope, and they will continue to stay in this vicious circle.
As for abstinence, in fact, it is abstinence, or reasonable relief, which can effectively consolidate one's own kidney qi, and once the kidney qi is enough, the person's sexual energy will come up, and he will not be afraid of threats, and have the courage to face difficulties and overcome difficulties, so as to find his own hope.
Once this hope is found, and the self-motivation is sufficient, then the fortune will come slowly, so abstaining from sex is actually to increase wealth, and there is a certain reason.