I am not a father, and it is difficult to provide my parenting experience as a mother, but I feel that Yan Peng is there"Underrated Father's Love".Some of the tips mentioned in are available. 
As a family education instructor at Beijing Normal University, Yan Peng personally took care of two children, was the father of two children, and founded Time Knows company.
In today's China, parenting books written by fathers are rare. For various reasons, China's parenting is basically undertaken by women.
Yan Peng used the tone of a past person and borrowed a lot of scientific research results to tell everyone that as long as they know how to give opportunities, their fathers can take care of their children.
In other words, if a man lacks the opportunity to take care of his children, he should take the initiative to get the opportunity from his wife to exercise his parenting ability, so that he can open the parenting network of his brain and have the sensitivity of his child like a mother.
This is a bit like starting a company or doing projects and projects, which requires you to get close to your children in person, and even play with your children and play with them, so that men can slowly find the feeling of getting along with your children.
And many fathers are at a loss in front of their children, in fact, they have too few opportunities to contact their children on weekdays, that is, they have not yet found the rhythm of how to play with their children. 
Of course, playing with children does not mean that the father is there with his own fixed thinking, outdated thoughts, etc., to blindly command the child, or to interfere with the child's activities, butTo understand the skills, it is necessary to observe the child with the eyes of the child
For this reason, after using a chapter to popularize the various benefits of fathers with babies, and believing that the role of fathers has irreplaceable significance in the growth of children, Yan Peng spent a lot of space to talk about the practical skills of fathers with babies, such as standing on the same front with children, using games to talk to children, and treating themselves as children.
Not only that, Yan Peng also focused on how fathers can achieve high-quality parent-child companionship, how to get out of the comfort zone of traditional concepts, and encouraged fathers to always maintain the state of the first day and let go of their sense of authority and control as a father.
What's more, in the book, Yan Peng mentioned it many timesObservation and documentationIt is believed that observation and recording can help enhance the father's ability to read and judge the child's feelings.
I still agree with this point of view, and I think that if a novice father knows how to insist on recording his observations of his child, he will get to know his child more and more over time.
What's more, unlike other parenting books, Yan Peng mentioned in "Underestimated Father's Love" that he has been a father for many years of exclusive parenting cheats, such as not spanking, finding the right position to quickly become a super daddy, etc.
Moreover, Yan Peng focused on it in the bookDifferent companionship methods and parenting techniques are used for children of different agesThis is quite practical for many Chinese dads.
Because many parenting problems are not that parents use the wrong method, but that they do not change their companionship and parenting skills in time as their children grow older.
Finally, Yan Peng specifically mentioned that he should listen to his children and apologize to them in time after realizing that he was wrong. He believes that fathers should not have parental shelves, but should play with their children.
In addition, he believes that the best companionship and education of fathers for their children is to uphold the attitude of lifelong learning, learn and grow together with their children, always have a humble heart, have the conscious awareness of growing up with their children, and become the leader of children's spiritual growth while growing up and self-developing.
As a parenting consultant, I like a passage said by Yu Minhong, chairman of New Oriental, when he praised "Underestimated Father's Love", saying,
The truth of parenting is not to educate children, but to educate yourself to become a better adult. All our perfections or imperfections will eventually be presented in the child, so we need to be open and keep learning.Therefore, being a father not only needs to learn parenting skills, but also needs to educate yourself on how to become a better adult, such as reconciling with your original family, healing your past pains, opening your heart, keeping it open, and learning how to love.
If a father can let himself do these things little by little, then even if he doesn't know how to accompany his children for a while, he can slowly become the best playmate and the best life leader for his children. Parenting is to lead children to achieve the growth of life, and it is to let children know how to love.
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