The child's mother gave the child to the old man when the child was very young, just went to the old man's home to visit the child when he was not busy, and the child was also raised tall by the old man, and rarely got sick. But in recent years, there have been more and more problems with the child, and they have become more and more serious, and the child's grandmother began to hide it, and then the matter became bigger and bigger, and she couldn't hide it at all, so she picked something to tell the child's mother. Both of them wish to look forward to the child's development in a better way, but they didn't expect the child to become more and more intense, and the relationship between the child's mother and grandmother has become tense and ......
When the mother found out yesterday that the child secretly hid the mobile phone to play games, she forced the child to hand over the mobile phone last night, asked the child why he played the game, and when he started playing, listened to the child's words, tossed and turned all night, and it was difficult to sleep! The child has become what it is today, it really didn't happen overnight, ask the child when did he start playing with his mobile phone? He said that he played a few years ago, either in the name of doing homework to ask his grandmother to play with the mobile phone, or in the name of going to the same school to do homework, watching TV with classmates, playing with mobile phones, anyway, grandma lived together, only the last few years of playing mobile phones are the happiest days!
Grandparents are busy working every day, no one cares about him at all, even if they see him playing with his mobile phone, just ask him if he has finished his homework, as long as he says that he can always play after his homework is done, and he can play every day! No wonder during the holidays in the past few years, her parents want to pick her up and live home for a while, and the reason why she is reluctant to come is that her parents are too strict with him, and it is not fun at her parents' house, there is no place to play, and she can go out to play with her friends at her grandmother's house.
I thought he liked the unrestrained life in the countryside, who would have thought that it was to play with mobile phones, play day and night, play during the day, play at night, have a terrible decline in eyesight, and poor academic performance, when the grandparents did not find these changes in the child, the mother found that the child had changes, but did not expect the child's problem to be so serious.
There are many problems in the child, lying, impolite, uneducated, foul-mouthed, stealing grandparents' hard-earned money and squandering it wantonly, more than once, the amount is still a lot, such a big child, even went into his grandmother's bedroom to steal a few thousands of dollars in cash, and used his grandmother's mobile phone to play games, charging game coins and charging thousands of yuan, adding up to almost 10,000 yuan, this courage is really not something that a child can do, and grandma is used to him, if it was to steal other people's money, he would have called the police to squat inside.
His grandmother's beginning was to hide it, asking the child to write a letter of guarantee, promising not to steal in the future, the child promised to write, the review book was also written, the habit of stealing money still did not change, the child's grandmother saw the child stealing her money one after another, and couldn't control it at all, so she hurriedly called the child's parents and asked the parents to go to his house to discipline them. The parents went to educate the child and beat him a few times, and the child promised to admit that he would definitely change, thinking that he would be restrained, but he didn't realize the seriousness of the problem at all.
No matter how parents teach him that stealing money is illegal, 2000 yuan can file a case, grandma here tolerates you, if someone else calls the police, you will go in, if you go in, you will have a stain for the rest of your life, no matter what you do in the future, it will have a great impact, the child can't listen to it at all, thinking that his parents are scaring him and alarmist. The child's grandmother blames all the blame on the child's mother, not in herself, nor in the child, and blames the mother who complains about the child, saying that she also educated the child, but the child does not listen and steals so much money from her, and the child's mother should admit the responsibility.
The mother said to the child's grandmother: "Your education method is wrong, why do you want me, a mother, to admit the mistakes made by the child?" Because children are brought to you from an early age, you also have a responsibility to educate them like this. You know that your child can't change the bad problem of stealing money and playing mobile games to recharge the game, you have to change it yourself, you can't give the key to your own bedroom to the child, and you can't play with the child for a long time with the mobile phone, he has to do his homework, you have to let him do it in front of you, let him enter his bedroom and lock the door, do you know what he is doing in it? Your mobile phone password is also known to him, you are really too high, look at the child's control, most of the children can't control themselves?
The child's mother is now regretting her intestines, regretting that she did not take the child with her when the child was young, at that time it was due to the pressure of life, still in debt, not making money, thinking about bringing it to the elderly, at most doting a little, no matter how it is, it will not be bad to **, how do you know that the child will be the result now, the child is like a small sapling, now it has grown crooked, when the mother's heart is bottomless, can the crooked little sapling still be corrected?