Chatting with my colleagues today, I complained that today's children are really disobedient and too difficult to manage. The homework is not good at writing, he is addicted to his mobile phone, and he still talks back when he says a few words. Don't talk about learning "mother and son filial piety", talk about learning "chickens fly and dogs jump"!
At the end of the conversation, my colleague asked me if I knew the "three major filial pieties" in the new era? I said I hadn't heard of it. She saidThe first filial piety - good eyesight; The second filial piety - study well; The third filial piety - good teeth。After hearing this, I raised my hands in agreement, it is really every filial piety that pierces the heart of parents!
The first filial piety: study well
My colleague's family conditions are relatively good, and he has only one son, and his son's academic performance is average. Therefore, she said that the cost of children's tutoring classes is a lot of expenses every year, plus some interest classes, it costs 30,000 or 40,000 yuan a year! This money may not be much for a family like them, but it is unaffordable for me because I only have that much salary in a year! Although my daughter has not spent so much money on tutoring classes since she was a child, it is also a burden for me.
Although the state does not allow off-campus tutoring classes now, in order not to let their children lose at the starting line, parents will still secretly enroll their children in various tutoring classes and interest classes, even if the parents have a meager income, they will save money to set aside their children's tutoring fees!
Second filial piety: good eyesight
A colleague said that his child had poor eyesight since birth, so he began to wear glasses from birth. Coupled with online classes and playing with mobile phones, the children's binocular vision is now more than 600. As the prescription deepens, the glasses should also be adjusted every year! Over the years, it has cost more than 60,000 yuan to get glasses and correct vision! In fact, my daughter is also myopic since the beginning of junior high school, and she has spent a lot of money replacing glasses over the years!
The third filial piety - good teeth
My two children have bad teeth, and there are few teeth in their mouths that are not needed. Two people spent more than 20,000 yuan, which cost two-thirds of my annual salary!
The dental industry is not transparent and unified, and there is a big difference between ordinary clinics and high-end dental hospitals! My colleague said that her child's teeth are also full of few good teeth, and she went to a better dental hospital, and it cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to complete them all, which is really not a small number!
We talked to the end and reached a consensus: children are not obedient can be accepted, playing mobile phones is also acceptable, as long as there is no need to apply for tutoring classes, vision does not need glasses, teeth do not need to be trimmed, we are very content, but unfortunately the "three filial piety" of our two children are all occupied!
This "three filial pieties" really bothers many parents, because most children account for one of them, and some even account for all the "three filial pieties", which makes parents "under great pressure"!
As a parent's friend, do you have the same problem? Do you agree with the view of the "three great filial pieties" in the new era?