Jiang Xiaozhang married bigThe third married man, Jiang Jingguo made a request and cried
Jiang Xiaozhang is the pearl of the Jiang family and the only daughter of the third generation. The Jiang couple and Song Meiling love this granddaughter very much, and the love of the whole family is gathered in her. She is of mixed Chinese and Russian descent, and her appearance combines the advantages of her parents, which is very beautiful.
Although Jiang Xiaozhang has a prominent background and outstanding beauty, she is overwhelmed by the people who pursue her. However, she chose a man who was 14 years older than herself and had been married three times.
Chiang Ching-kuo couldn't stop his daughter's decision, so he had no choice but to agree to this family affair, but he made a request, hoping that his daughter would comply. Jiang Xiaozhang, Taiwan's first daughter, resolutely chose love.
In 1925, Chiang Kai-shek sent his eldest son, Chiang Ching-kuo, at the age of 15, to the Soviet Union for education. However, over time, Sino-Soviet relations deteriorated, which implicated Chiang Ching-kuo, who was studying in Moscow.
In order to gain bargaining chips, the United States sent him to Siberia as a hard laborer, restricting his freedom. Chiang Ching-kuo, who was in a foreign land, felt depressed and depressed, and even had thoughts of suicide.
Just when he is in a difficult situation, he meets Fenna, a kind and beautiful 17-year-old Russian girl. The relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and they officially married in 1935.
After marriage, they supported each other, Fenna changed her name to Jiang Fangliang, and the two lived happily ever after.
In 1939, the Jiang family ushered in a little princess, who was the second child of Jiang Jingguo and his wife Dai Jitao, named Jiang Xiaozhang. The following year, Chiang Ching-kuo was freed, and the family of four returned to their homeland.
Among the third generation of Chiang Kai-shek's descendants, Jiang Xiaozhang is the only girl, and things are scarce and expensive, so she is deeply favored by everyone in the Chiang family. Whenever Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Meiling saw this lovely granddaughter, they would smile from ear to ear.
And when Jiang Jingguo saw his naughty son, he couldn't help but reprimand him.
In the eyes of the father, the daughter is the most precious treasure, and he always communicates with her softly and never criticizes harshly. And Jiang Jingguo thinks that since he has a daughter, his career is like a fish in water, and her arrival is like his lucky star, which has brought him good luck.
Therefore, he loves Jiang Xiaozhang very much. In this superior family environment, Jiang Xiaozhang grew into a beautiful big girl under the meticulous care of the whole family.
She has the perfect union of her parents, and the deep facial features of Europeans and the dignified atmosphere of Orientals are in harmony with her, and she has become the focus of attention wherever she is.
However, as Chiang Kai-shek's only granddaughter and Chiang Ching-kuo's only daughter, her status was too prominent for many men to shy away, even though they were full of love for her.
Jiang Xiaozhang is seventeen or eighteen years old, and although she longs for love, she rarely has contact with the opposite sex, and even has few sexual friends, which makes her feel lonely and strong.
However, this loneliness has also shaped her independent character, and she devotes all her energy to her studies, hoping to enrich her inner world with a wealth of knowledge.
In the process of studying abroad, she met sincere love.
In 1957, after graduating from high school at the age of 19, Jiang Xiaozhang decided to go to the United States for further study. Chiang Ching-kuo fully supported his daughter's decision, but he was deeply worried about her going to study in a foreign country alone.
So, he thought of Yu Yanghe, the son of former Defense Minister Yu Dawei, who had been in the United States for many years and could ask him to help take care of Jiang Xiaozhang. Yu Dawei had a close relationship with the Chiang family, and he happily agreed to Chiang Ching-kuo's request and immediately communicated with his son Yu Yanghe.
Yu Yanghe is the eldest son of Yu Dawei, born in Germany, his mother graduated from the Air Force Military Academy and became an Air Force pilot. During the Anti-Japanese War, he flew an aircraft and participated in many battles.
Later, in an air battle, his plane was hit by the Japanese army, and although he successfully parachuted, he suffered multiple injuries on his body and was not suitable for combat, so he retired to civil aviation to work as a pilot.
Yu Yanghe took good care of Jiang Xiaozhang in the United States, so that the Jiang family's entrustment could be realized. When Jiang Xiaozhang first arrived in the United States, he felt pressured and unable to adapt due to the unfamiliar environment and heavy studies.
At this time, Yu Yanghe took time out to take her to the scenery of the United States, so that she could familiarize herself with the environment and understand the local culture. Jiang Xiaozhang is in the prime of his youth and has never had intimate contact with the opposite sex outside the Jiang family, and he is emotionally blank.
Yu Yanghe's concern and thoughtfulness for Jiang Xiaozhang made Jiang Xiaozhang feel very warm, and she gradually developed special feelings for this elegant, handsome, mature and stable man in her heart.
When Jiang Xiaozhang first arrived in the United States, Yu Yanghe was at the trough of divorcing his second wife, but Jiang Xiaozhang's appearance was like a beam of sunshine, illuminating his heart, dispelling his gloom, and making his life full of hope again.
Although Yu Yanghe is 14 years older than Jiang Xiaozhang, the two found a lot of common topics, there is no generation gap, and they naturally fall in love. However, Chiang Ching-kuo was opposed to this relationship, and even cried because of it.
The relationship between Jiang Xiaozhang and Yu Yanghe caused quite a stir in Taiwan, but their origins are a little worrying. Chiang Ching-kuo was very dissatisfied when he learned that his daughter was dating a man older than her, and that she had been married twice.
In order to protect his palm, he immediately contacted his eldest son Jiang Xiaowen in the United States and asked him to persuade his sister to break up with Yu Yanghe. However, Jiang Xiaozhang, who was immersed in love, was unwilling to follow his brother's advice, and in desperation, Jiang Xiaowen could only report truthfully to his father.
Hearing this, Chiang Ching-kuo was very angry, so he approached Yu Dawei and hoped that he would be able to discipline his son.
In order to bring his daughter Jiang Xiaozhang back to Taiwan, Chiang Ching-kuo lied that he was sick and hospitalized, so that Jiang Xiaozhang had to come back to visit. Although Yu Dawei was an adult, Chiang Ching-kuo was still unable to discipline him, so he could only get his daughter back to his side in this way.
Eventually, Jiang Hsiao-zhang returned to Taiwan with her brother.
Jiang Jingguo saw that his daughter Jiang Xiaozhang insisted on her own views in order to marry Yu Yang, so he patiently persuaded her not to make irreparable decisions because of impulse. He told her that Yu Yanghe had been divorced twice and had a child, and that he might encounter many difficulties after marriage.
Jiang Xiaozhang was carried away by love, couldn't listen to his father's words, and only insisted that he really loved each other. Jiang Jingguo looked at his daughter who had been doted on since childhood, and he could only cry in desperation.
Jiang Xiaozhang also cried when she saw her father like this, but she still insisted on marrying Yu Yanghe, believing that she had the right to pursue free love.
Jiang Xiaozhang and her boyfriend Yu Yanghe's relationship was deeply moving, but they were opposed by the whole family. In desperation, Jiang Xiaozhang's mother Jiang Fangliang could only turn to her mother-in-law Song Meiling for help.
Song Meiling had experienced a similar predicament, so she felt deep sympathy for her granddaughter Jiang Xiaozhang. She advised Chiang Ching-kuo not to block Xiaozhang's happiness, because if she continued to be persecuted, it might have a bad impact on the children and the two families.
Song Meiling's words made Jiang Jingguo think deeply, and finally decided to respect Xiaozhang's choice and let her and Yu Yanghe be together and spend a happy time together.
After Song Meiling talked to Chiang Kai-shek about this matter, the Chiang family supported Jiang Xiaozhang's decision, hoping that she could marry Yu Yanghe smoothly. After this, Yu Yanghe learned of the difficulties faced by Jiang Xiaozhang and felt guilty, so he mustered up the courage to find Jiang Jingguo and meet him frankly.
Yu Yanghe said that his feelings for Jiang Xiaozhang are real, and he will cherish this relationship and will not let her suffer any harm. Under the persuasion of his parents and others, Chiang Ching-kuo finally agreed to his daughter's marriage, but he put forward one condition, that is, no matter when or where, he could not become an American citizen.
Jiang Xiaozhang and Yu Yanghe resolutely agreed.
Jiang Xiaozhang and Yu Yanghe married in San Francisco in 1960, and after that, the two settled in the United States, and the following year, their son Yu Zusheng was born. Yu Yanghe kept his promise to Jiang Jingguo, and loved Jiang Xiaozhang very much after marriage, and the husband and wife had a deep relationship, especially after having children, the family of three was happy, which made Jiang Jingguo relieved his heart and recognized the marriage.
In their later years, Jiang Xiaozhang and his wife lived in a low-key manner in the United States, returning to Taiwan to visit relatives two or three times a year, and rarely appeared in public. After the deaths of Chiang Ching-kuo and Chiang Kai-shek, Chiang Hsiao-zhang's return to Taiwan decreased.
In 2010, Yu Yanghe died of illness in the United States, and Jiang Xiaozhang began to live alone. Her son offered to take her to his house several times, but Jiang Xiaozhang refused, and she was reluctant to leave this old house full of fond memories of her and her husband Yu Yanghe.
Conclusion: All parents have a hard heart, and they want their children to find their own path to happiness. Despite their good intentions, they may ignore the independent thinking that their children will have when they grow up.
Therefore, as parents, we should also respect the wishes of our children, because times are changing and so are thoughts. Jiang Xiaozhang's ability to bravely pursue the love she identifies with is admirable.
It also turned out that her vision was correct, and she and her husband lived happily ever after. Therefore, for the things we firmly believe, we should have the courage to pursue and persevere.