List of high-quality authors She has a salary of 8,000 at the age of 32, her child divorced at the age of 1, and her ex-husband wanted to remarry after being hospitalized, but she refused.
Sun Qian, 32, lives with her 3-year-old daughter and mother. After the divorce, she got a new job because she had an intermediate certificate in accounting. Now she earns 8,000 yuan a month.
When she came home from work in the evening, she brought back the strawberries that her daughter wanted to eat and the green dates that her mother liked. As soon as she walked in the door, the fragrance came to her nose, and her daughter ran to her happily, wiggling her little ass to get slippers for her.
She changed her clothes, washed her hands, her daughter was always playing by her side, and her mother had already brought the meal to the table, and she felt that this moment was really happy.
My daughter is 3 years old, and her mother still prepares a children's meal for her, which includes pork ribs, corn, greens and fish soup that she loves to drink.
She and her mother ate pork ribs in sauce, hot and sour sausages and stir-fried green vegetables. She and her mother have a bit of a strong taste, and her mother always advises her to change, but she still likes heavy food.
After the meal, she bathed her daughter and played with her for a while. Suddenly, she received Cai Zhen's **. She thought he wanted to see the child or talk about child support, so she took it.
Cai Zhen asked, "Qianqian, are you and Huanhuan doing well?" How are you living now? Does Huanhuan remember me? ”
Sun Qian frowned and said, "Cai Zhen, Huanhuan was just over 1 year old when we divorced, and you haven't seen her once since then, and you haven't given any child support." Do you think she'll still remember you? ”
Cai Zhen said: "Qianqian, I know that I did something wrong, and I will give child support." We'll meet tomorrow and talk about it in detail. ”
Sun Qian felt strange, because Cai Zhen usually does not take the initiative to give child support, and he has not been in touch for nearly two years, why did he suddenly meet to talk about this matter?
After getting off work the next day, Sun Qian came to the agreed place. The square is bustling with people, many parents are playing with their children, and colorful bubbles sometimes fly into people's faces.
Cai Zhen stood up when he saw her and waved her over to sit on the bench. He smiled and said, "Qianqian, I haven't seen you for so long, you should at least ask me how I'm doing." ”
Sun Qian smiled: "Oh, okay, then are you here to send me an invitation?" Sorry, I have no interest in attending such an event and there is no need. Cai Zhen shook his head: "Qianqian, it should have been over between us a long time ago." ”
Sun Qian was silent. For her, Cai Zhen has become a thing of the past, and she no longer cares about everything about him.
Cai Zhen looked at her silence and sighed: "Qianqian, you are busy with work again." Maybe if you hadn't left your job, we wouldn't have gotten divorced. I was under a lot of pressure at work, and you didn't support me in business, so I was upset, I went to drink, I met her, and those things happened. ”
Sun Qian frowned, thinking only about going home for a meal, and had no intention of listening to these things again.
Just say anything straight, I still have things to deal with, and I don't have time to hear from you. She interrupted Cai Zhen's words.
Cai Zhen sighed, "Qianqian, I am also Huanhuan's father, how can you do this?" I actually want to remarry you, so that Huanhuan can have a complete home. ”
Sun Qian frowned and looked at him coldly: "Cai Zhen, I don't know what you're thinking, but I can tell you that from the moment of divorce, I never thought about remarrying you." And the alimony you owe better be given to me as soon as possible, otherwise I don't mind taking legal action, and you know that I have the ability. ”
Cai Zhen tried to explain: "Qianqian, I am sincere, you can think about it." ”
When he got home, Sun Qian told his mother about Cai Zhen.
Mom pondered: "Qianqian, you have to think carefully about this matter. The ancients said that 'if something goes wrong, there must be a demon', if you think about Cai Zhen's attitude at the beginning, will he really want to remarry? Didn't he say that he was going to marry that woman when he got divorced? ”
Sun Qian nodded: "Well, I know." Mom, I think my life is pretty good now, and I really don't have the energy to manage a marriage anymore. ”
Mom sighed: "Don't think so. A life is long, and it is easier to have a companion to walk with than alone. ”
Sun Qian knew in her heart that she needed to think about what would happen next, but don't rush to make a decision now. For Cai Zhen, she has already made a decision: no longer consider.
She realized that Cai Zhen's behavior was somewhat unusual, and something must have gone wrong. She decided to find out about the situation in advance so as not to regret it in the future.
She searched for a long time on her mobile phone and found an old friend of Cai Zhen, Xiaochun, who had met at a dinner party and added WeChat. Although they didn't have much contact after the divorce.
Soon, Xiaochun replied: "Qianqian, you still remember me, I thought you blocked me." ”
Qianqian smiled, Xiaochun's enthusiasm was still the same, always radiating a sunny light, which was hard not to like.
She replied, "Haha, why am I blocking you?" Xiaochun, has Cai Zhen had anything to do lately? ”
Xiaochun replied: "Qianqian, you are already divorced, what do you still care about him?" ”
Qianqian explained: "I feel very strange that he suddenly wants to remarry, so I want to ask you. ”
Xiaochun said angrily: "Qianqian, this man is really too shameless, and he still has the face to come to you to remarry!" ”
She emphasized again: "Qianqian, don't be fooled by him, he didn't give you a penny when he divorced, and now he wants to marry another woman, this kind of person is simply scum." ”
Sun Qian and Cai Zhen met on a blind date, when she was 28 years old and was considered an older single woman in the eyes of her parents. The father is in poor health and longs to see his daughter marry and have children. After the two met, Cai Zhen pursued Sun Qian in various ways, including often buying flowers and chocolates, and inviting her to a big meal. After some courtship, they finally decided to get married.
However, the twist of fate came suddenly. Cai Zhen was diagnosed with colon cancer, which surprised and shocked Sun Qian. She immediately made the decision to end the marriage. Even if Cai Zhen is not in good health now, there is no one to take care of him, and she is unwilling to remarry or take care of him. Sun Qian is adamant that she needs to work hard to support herself and her children.
After the call with Cai Zhen, Sun Qian felt a little lost. After all, they had a good time and looked forward to a better future together. But the reality is cruel, and they have come to the point of divorce. When she returned home and looked at the happy and lively children, she felt a trace of heartache. The marriage was supposed to be beautiful, but fate broke them apart, and now she has to work hard to make ends meet, and Cai Zhen is in pain.
Despite this, Sun Qian still wishes Cai Zhen an early **. This is a kindness in her heart, hoping that he can overcome the disease and have a healthy life again.
When they met for the first time, Cai Zhen invited her to dinner, chose pizza and other delicacies, and bought hot coffee at Starbucks.
Cai Zhen showed his humorous side, which always made her happy.
After the meal, she proposed AA, but Cai Zhen insisted on not taking money and personally sent her home. At the time of separation, he handed her a box containing a pizza he had specially packed for her parents to taste.
Cai Zhen smiled and said, "Qianqian, this is what I prepared for your parents. You can microwave it and let them enjoy it too. ”
Sun Qian felt Cai Zhen's attentiveness, and after that, he frequented her home, making her parents rejoice.
Cai Zhen, a man working on a small project, has already bought a house and a car in full, and Sun Qian's parents want them to get married as soon as possible.
When getting married, Cai Zhen's family gave 15For the bride price of 80,000 yuan, Sun Qian's father gave a dowry of 120,000 yuan, and Sun Qian directly deposited the money into a 5-year fixed deposit.
In the first year of marriage, they had a very good relationship. Cai Zhen likes romance very much, no matter what the festival is, he will give her small gifts and take her to taste food.
Although the gift is not expensive, sometimes just a lipstick, sometimes just a cup, Sun Qian likes it very much.
In the first year of marriage, she became pregnant. At first, the morning sickness was very bad and she lost weight all over, but after three months, her appetite increased greatly, and with the enlargement of her belly, she began to get fatter and fatter.
Due to physical discomfort during pregnancy, Sun Qian decided to leave her job. Although she couldn't ask for leave often, Cai Zhen comforted her and said: "Qianqian, you just need to take care of the fetus, and it is enough to give birth to a healthy baby, and I will take care of raising a family and making money." ”
Dad's health is deteriorating day by day, and both Mom and Sun Qian are worried. At the same time, Sun Qian herself is also facing a lot of trouble, her belly is getting bigger and bigger, and it is often difficult to sleep at night.
One night, Sun Qian suddenly felt cramps in her calf, and she tried to straighten her leg, but she couldn't help it. She had no choice but to wake up Cai Zhen gently and ask him to help with the massage. But Cai Zhen immediately got angry after being disturbed and blamed Sun Qian: You can sleep as long as you want, I still have to get up early to work, don't bother me all the time. 」
When Sun Qian heard this, tears welled up in his eyes. She was seven months pregnant, and her stomach was weighing on her, and her leg cramps were even more painful. What made her even more sad was Cai Zhen's attitude.
Looking at Sun Qian's tears, Cai Zhen said something again: "Look at people, you can still continue to work when you are pregnant, Sister Liu is almost eight months old, much better than you." Why are you so bad? ”
Sun Qian was silent, the pain gradually subsided, but the uneasiness in his heart became more and more intense. She began to doubt the marriage, the man, and the child in her womb.
Finally, in the hospital, Sun Qian gave birth to a daughter. After the mother-in-law came to visit, she looked at the child and frowned: "Qianqian, you are so old, you have to hurry up and have another one, preferably a boy, otherwise the relatives will laugh." ”
She paused, looked at the child again, and sighed: "I thought it would be a boy this time, looking at your belly, it seems that yes, why is it a girl, is it being dropped?" ”
Sun Qian was so anxious that the child cried, but the mother-in-law didn't care, just said coldly: "It's common for children to cry, don't panic." See for yourself if you're peeing or hungry. The mother-in-law didn't even mean to change the baby's diaper, but just picked up the baby casually and put it in her arms.
During the confinement period, her mother-in-law was often away from home, leaving Sun Qian alone to take care of the children. She had no choice but to eat and drink by herself, couldn't take care of a good rest, and had to take time to wash the baby's clothes.
Before his death, Dad insisted on leaving a house and 200,000 deposits to Sun Qian, and notarized it. Cai Zhen was very dissatisfied with this.
After her father's death, Sun Qian was in a difficult situation, but Cai Zhen began to return late and always asked her for money when he was drunk.
I have a project in hand that needs funds, so you can sell that house. When I earn the money, I will add 100,000 to you. Cai Zhen said.
Sun Qian firmly refused: "That house was left to me by my father, and I will never sell it." ”
Then you can give me the deposit, plus the bride price and your father's gift, a total of 500,000. Enough, right? Cai Zhen said mockingly.
Sun Qian replied unwaveringly: "No, I have saved that money for a fixed period and cannot take it out." ”
Hmph, then don't expect me to give you money in the future. You take care of your daily expenses on your own. Cai Zhen said indifferently.
Sun Qian was shocked and desperate, "I don't have a job now, my child is only 3 months old, and you refuse to help me?" She couldn't accept Cai Zhen's attitude, and her eyes were full of disappointment.
Cai Zhen: "These houses and cars are mine, don't think about getting a piece of the pie." Sun Qian, you are such a poisonous woman, you don't give me money to spend when you save it, and you still think about my money all day long, no wonder your father hung up so early. ”
Sun Qian unceremoniously gave him a slap in the face: "Cai Zhen, you also have parents, are you still a person when you say this kind of thing?" ”
After the quarrel, Cai Zhen didn't go home for a whole week.
When he finally returned home, he brought a bouquet of flowers and a simple but delicate gold ring.
Sun Qian is feeding the child and simply preparing dinner. Cai Zhen said after eating: "Qianqian, we are a family, you sell that house, give me the money to invest, I will buy a new house for you." ”
Sun Qian ignored him and only said, "What about this month's living expenses?" Gotta buy diapers tomorrow. ”
Cai Zhen said: "Children can't be too used to it, my mother said, children should be free-range, and it would be good to wash diapers more." ”
Sun Qian was so disappointed in him that she decided to let her mother help her take care of the child and go out to find a job by herself.
When the child was six months old, Sun Qian found out that Cai Zhen had cheated. A person added her WeChat, and the note was Cai Zhen's name. She added it, and the other party sent a lot of **, she and Cai Zhen ate together, Cai Zhen bought her gifts, etc.
Sun Qian: "You know that he is still with him when he is married, do you think it is shameful to do this?" ”
The woman said: "No wonder he will look for me, I heard that after you gave birth to a child, you became fat and became a pig, you don't manage your body, Cai Zhen is rich, can you bear you?" ”
The woman: You don't have a job, you talk at home all day, you don't understand what he says, we don't have a common language. I'm different, I'm only 25 years old, I'm in good shape, I'm doing a good job, and we're talking about getting married.
Sun Qian: This is all after my divorce, otherwise I will sue him for bigamy.
The woman: You are so embarrassed to be a woman, your husband doesn't love you anymore, and you are still pestering yourself, can you have a little backbone.
Qianqian: Ha, you are so upright in the truth, I don't know who taught you. Don't contact me again in the future, you all make me sick.
She took a screenshot of the conversation and sent it directly to Cai Zhen, and then filed for divorce.
Cai Zhen soon called** and said: "Qianqian, you have to think about it, you don't have a job now, you really want to get a divorce, how do you live?" ”
Sun Qian smiled and said: "You haven't been divorced, and you haven't given living expenses, it's the same whether you divorce or not." ”
Cai Zhen: "Qianqian, you can't say that, it's not easy for a divorced woman to find a home, not to mention that you still have a child, fat and old, who else wants you besides me?" ”
Sun Qian: "Ha, then you don't have to worry, you can think about how much compensation you will give me first." ”
Cai Zhen: "Ha, you are still an intermediate accountant, don't you have any common sense?" The house and car are my pre-marital property, haven't you thought about it? ”
Sun Qian: "Ha, how much did you spend on that woman?" You can all want to come back, you don't want to hide or transfer, if you find out, you will have to double the compensation. ”
After hanging up**, she quickly found a lawyer, consulted related matters, and entrusted a lawyer to deal with the problem, while she was busy looking for a job.
She handed over the evidence of Cai Zhen's cheating to the lawyer and then began to work hard to find a job.
Sun Qian's daughter is 10 months old, and Sun Qian herself has found a new job as an accounting supervisor for a company. Although the salary is lower than before, the company benefits are good, and she is happy with it.
Recently, a lawyer contacted her and told her something that shocked her: in the late stages of her pregnancy, her husband, Cai Zhen, actually spent a large sum of money to buy a house for another woman. Sun Qian felt chilled by this, recalling that she was unwell during that time, and she didn't know that her husband was doing such a thing behind her back.
She remembered how often her husband asked her to sell the house and use the money to do the project, and now it seems that the money was probably used to buy the house. Sun Qian felt that Cai Zhen's behavior was simply incomprehensible, he actually bought a house for another woman behind his back when he was pregnant and gave birth, and let himself sell his real estate to invest.
Cai Zhen has not been home for a while, and Sun Qian has decided to sue for divorce. Later, the woman sent her another message, revealing that she was young and beautiful, and even owned real estate, but she was willing to be a "three", which made Sun Qian feel speechless.
Although Sun Qian did not block the woman, he kept her messages and conversation records, and sometimes even deliberately asked some questions about real estate. She feels like a winner, and despite graduating young, she already owns a property and is often cared for with gifts. It would be even more perfect if you could marry a man who could earn money.
Sun Qian actually liked that girl very much, needless to say, she wanted to show her almost all her happiness, perhaps to make her feel jealous, or to show off her happiness. But she didn't know that she had given up on Cai Zhen, she just wanted to fight for what she deserved, for the sake of the child's future to be better.
When the child was more than 1 year old, Sun Qian's marriage came to an end because Cai Zhen cheated in marriage, which brought great harm to her and the soon-to-be-born child. Not only did he treat her coldly and violently, but he also tried to force her to ** real estate. Eventually, she got ownership of the house, including child support.
Through negotiation, the property is directly registered in the name of the daughter Huanhuan, so that the child becomes a young but small landlord who owns the property.
In court, Cai Zhen denied all the accusations, and even insulted her for being despicable and shameless, saying that she framed him. But the lawyer presented screenshot evidence, and he had to shut up.
However, her mother-in-law was outraged by this, accusing her of being a **, saying that she had cheated on her son. Eventually, she was kicked out by the court's bailiffs.
In the verdict, the judge pointed out that Cai Zhen's marital infidelity seriously violated public order and good customs and should be severely punished.
With the assistance of her lawyer, she successfully transferred the property to her daughter Huanhuan. Subsequently, she moved back to her mother's house with her children. Although the divorce caused her great pain, she always felt that her father was always there for them.
She handed over the rent to her mother, and at the same time deposited Huanhuan's rent into the child's account. In this way, my mother has a pension of more than 3,000 yuan per month, and she can also prepare for her mother's possible medical expenses in the future.
She not only kept her salary, but also worked part-time for three small companies to do accounts, earning more than 6,000 yuan per month, which is enough to support three people.
Making money seems to really have a kind of spiritual magic, for the sake of her children and mother, she works desperately and has little time to feel the pain of divorce.
Today, Huanhuan is 3 years old and has started kindergarten. However, Cai Zhen suddenly appeared and expressed her desire to remarry, which really surprised her.
After a traumatic experience, how could she tolerate that crooked tree again? For her, she just wants to keep her distance from him, and even hope to never see each other again.
After listening to his story, she sighed with emotion, only hoping that he could be happy, but at the same time, she also hoped that he could let go of his entanglement with her.
She decided to delete all the *** related to Cai Zhen and devote herself to preparing for the accountant exam. As long as she passes the exam, she receives the minimum wage promised by her leadership, which is the most important thing for her.
Sun Qian felt that her life was too busy, but she was very satisfied. Every night when she comes home, her daughter will hand her slippers and her mother will prepare food for her. On weekends, the family of three would go out on an outing, and this is the life she longs for most at the moment.
Maybe in the future, she will meet someone who is worth holding hands ...... spend her life together
The last thing I want to say is:
There is no one who does not aspire to marital happiness, but if you do experience betrayal, it is best to look at your needs clearly and make a decisive choice so as not to consume yourself.
In the adult world, no one can survive without them, but all efforts should be cherished and respected by each other, so that happiness can be maintained for a long time.
No matter where you are, you must take root in life, bloom yourself, live up to the years, and live up to yourself. Come on!