At the age of 45+ and still can't figure out what you really want?
I feel unhappy in my life, but I don't want to change the status quo, and I tell everywhere how wronged I am in life.
Once a nice friend said to me: Just you know what?
There was a time when I didn't want to associate with you, and every time you complained, it made me feel down.
I felt a chuckle in my heart, how did I become like this?
If you think about it, you want to live a happy and prosperous life, but you don't think about trying to change it.
pinned all his hopes on Mr. Du.
Every time I fantasize that Mr. Du will succeed this time, but in the disappointment again and again, he has become a modern version of "Xianglin's sister-in-law".
Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this? No, it's a cry from the depths of my heart.
There is a sentence in the TV series "The First Half of My Life" that says:
The road has to be walked step by step, the bitterness has to be stuttered by oneself, and the cramps and peeling can be reborn, and there are no shortcuts."
In this world, no one can be relied on unless they are useful.
In 2024, I don't want to pin my hopes on anyone, I'm going to crush myself and reshape myself, and start planning with self-discipline.
1.Go to bed early and wake up early: Go to bed before 12 o'clock at the latest, wake up at 6 a.m., and take a 30-minute nap at noon.
2.Drink plenty of water and exercise: Make it a habit to drink water frequently and exercise for 20 minutes a day.
3.Refuse to procrastinate, do what you want to do immediately, complete it first and then perfectly.
4.Learn to input, two books a month, refuse to read the previous and forget it, learn to read intensively, take notes and excerpts while reading, practice photography, learn more, shoot more, practice more.
5.Grow and output, insist on writing one article a day, don't care about what to write first, and develop the habit of writing first.
6.Insist on bookkeeping, review the account books weekly, and summarize them monthly.
7.Don't let anything else control my emotions, and practice "topic separation" a lot
8.Grow upward, get in touch with high-quality circles, find your own reference target, imitate more and learn more.
In 2024, you must be a person who is ruthless to yourself, a person who can be strong alone, who can fight alone in trouble, hold an umbrella in the rain, cross the bridge by himself, and live a life on his own.