The ambiguity between men and women in love is a wonderful and exciting state. Although it is less responsible than love, it is more sweet than friendship, which makes people fall into it and can't extricate themselves.
Although ambiguity can make a woman sweet, women want men to love themselves.
So how to make the ambiguous atmosphere continue to ferment, so that men will never forget you and will not give up?
1.Keep it mysterious and make him unpredictable
Heard a story.
A scholar and the fox fairy lingered all night, woke up and found that the fox fairy was gone, nothing left, and I didn't know where the fox fairy lived, and after waiting for a week, the scholar had lovesickness, and he didn't think about tea and rice, and he didn't eat oil and salt.
Just when the scholar was about to die, the fox fairy returned. The scholar was like a baby, and he was immediately sick, and after a while, the fox fairy disappeared again, and the scholar didn't think about tea and dinner, and thought about it for a while.
The sudden disappearance and sudden appearance of the fox fairy made the scholar unpredictable, suffering from gains and losses, and when he lost and gained, the scholar wanted to cherish it more.
But now, as soon as many women get married, their girlfriends don't want to be, friends of the opposite sex are all cut off, and even stay at home except for work, even if they go out to play, they will be conjoined babies with their husbands, so that you and men have no sense of mystery and no that kind of uncertain attraction.
In fact, when you are ambiguous, you and him test each other in the imminent separation, "see him but don't say it thoroughly, see through it without piercing it" so that he is always unpredictable to you and maintain a sense of mystery.
2.Show confidence and independence, let him appreciate it
Men like confident and independent girls.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", after Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng divorced, under the cultivation of Luo Zijun's He Han, he entered the workplace executives step by step and became calm and confident.
Every time Chen Junsheng saw his ex-wife in front of him, he regretted that he had divorced her in the first place.
In an ambiguous relationship between men and women, if you are independent and confident, you can show your charm and taste. It will make men appreciate and respect you more, and they will want to develop further with you.
3.Show vulnerability and dependence at the right time
While independence and self-confidence can show your charm and taste, showing vulnerability and dependence is also the key to making a man "ambiguous" about you.
In an ambiguous relationship between a man and a woman, if you show your vulnerability and dependence from time to time, it can make the man protective.
Not only can it make men feel your true feelings, but it can also stimulate men's instincts and sense of responsibility, so as to cherish you more.
In short, in an ambiguous relationship between men and women, let the man be "obsessed" with you.
You must learn to use the above three methods, maintain a sense of mystery, show self-confidence and independence, and show vulnerability and dependence in a timely manner, which will definitely make a man reluctant to give up on you, and no woman can replace it.
Remember, love is a long-distance race. In an ambiguous relationship, may we have the courage to face an exciting and sweet heartbeat, and use our actions and charm to conquer a man's heart!!