Someone said: "Thirty-one flowers for men, thirty tofu scum for women." ”
When you think about it, there is some truth. When a man reaches middle age, he has a successful career, and his mind is more mature and charming; The woman has become a yellow-faced woman, and she is going around the family all day long, although she is very tired, she can't see where the results are.
Time is like quicksand, slowly leaking through the fingers, and there is no grain left.
Middle-aged women, you must live soberly, learn to enrich yourself, and only then can you have no worries for the rest of your life, and don't waste your time on bad people and bad things.
First, be diligent and thrifty to support your family.
The ancients said: "A virtuous wife and a husband have few misfortunes, but a son is filial to his father." ”Most families are female housekeepers, and men go out to earn money. However, this "housekeeper" is not easy to be, and how to strategize requires brains.
My cousin has a monthly family income of more than 10,000 yuan, but at the end of the year, she is in debt. The husband is very angry and always gets divorced.
If you think about it, my cousin is too generous, and she is easily deceived by others, and often buys useless things. For example, treadmills, massage chairs, etc., one is tens of thousands, and I didn't use it twice when I bought it.
Zhang Ailing wrote in "Half Life": "A man after middle age often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on. ”A woman should feel sorry for her husband, stretch out her weak shoulders and let her husband lean on. Be a diligent and thrifty wife, this family can be truly rich, and the relationship between husband and wife will also be better.
Quit comparison, give up "buying, buying", and live a simple life with your family, spending less money and more warm time.
Second, read books to nourish your beauty.
The English writer Carlisle once said, "The whole soul of the past lies in the book." ”A woman's true nobility is not to wear gold and silver, but to have a noble soul and infinite wisdom.
Only by reading more can you educate your children well, and only then can you be kind and pleasant at any time.
The words will not be written on the face, but they will be reflected in every word and deed, so that a person's cultivation is extraordinary.
Middle-aged woman, you have been away from books for many years and are used to picking up your phone, watching boring short **, or dealing with some garbage**.
In the future, change it, with a book in your hand, life is not confused. The moment you read quietly, the world becomes beautiful, and all your troubles have found the "source" in the book, which can be relieved, and your face will show relaxation and comfort.
Third, do good deeds and nourish your heart.
For a period of time, Wu Juping in Binjiang District, Hangzhou, was known as the "most beautiful mother" and was popular with everyone.
At that time, in the Platinum Coast community where she lived, a two-year-old girl fell from the tenth floor. She kicked off her heels, rushed over, and caught the child.
This dangerous action caused Wu Juping to have multiple fractures in her arm.
Mother's love is an instinct, which is vividly reflected in her.
Afterwards, she said to the camera"I'm a hero. The real hero is someone who has helped others for a long time, and I only helped others once, just in time. ”
Kindness is a person's instinct and a woman's best cultivation. If you encounter something good and don't do it, it will be unsettling.
The best way for a person to live is to "have a clear conscience" - a woman with a good heart has a good life and many blessings.
Fourth, exercise to maintain health.
Actor Li Ruotong loves sports very much, and often posts his fitness status on social platforms.
Once, she posted her and Zhang Fengyi's fitness together on the Internet, which attracted everyone's attention, and many fans sighed: "People in their fifties can still maintain a good figure, and they are still full of girlishness and envy." ”
Time makes people old, but we can use exercise to fight against time.
Women, really don't nest up at home every day. Turn yourself into a bucket-sized person.
Natural beauty is an adjective, and true beauty depends on constant exercise. Whoever is more disciplined, who is better.
Usually, you can go out for a few steps without spending much, at most you can buy an extra pair of running shoes.
Health is the biggest real estate. Whoever can have it has a bright future.
Fifth, sleep to recuperate.
The day before yesterday, my colleague Huahua looked in the mirror for a long time, and then came to a conclusion that she had been working overtime recently, and the dark circles under her eyes had come out, and there were some more spots on her face.
There is a proverb in the West: "Instead of a hundred doctors, it is better to stop suppering and staying up late." ”Staying up late can lead to decreased fertility, sudden death, obesity, memory loss, etc.
As a woman, sleeping well is "beauty". Every morning, I can go out in good spirits, which is the credit of sleeping.
No matter how busy you are, you must grasp the rhythm of time, rest when you are tired, sleep when you are sleepy, and eat when you are hungry. A good routine will prolong one's puberty and bring about a healthy body.
Sixth, make money for the elderly.
I like this sentence very much: "There is no job that is not wronged, and making money can be **everything." ”When people reach middle age, not only men have to make money hard, but women also don't have to be idle. Relatively speaking, women have less ability to make money, but they can still support themselves with their hands.
If the family conditions are not particularly good, the woman should not be a full-time wife.
Work will make people more valuable and will also improve the status of being a person. It is not the best way to completely leave your fate to the other party.
Relying on work, preparing a pension and a deposit, in the future, there will be no worries. In addition, whether it is a change in feelings or a change in the family, a rich woman can still be full of confidence.
Conclusion.
Sanmao said: "People, except for self-crossing, others can't help." ”Women want to enrich themselves, not wait for others to do something, but take active action on their own, make a detailed plan, and stick to it.
Wealth is never about spending money indiscriminately, but a kind of pursuit, which is to promote oneself to become more aura and be a better self.
So, rich women, good days are always coming.