Ma Yan and Wang Xin grew up living in the same compound, and their father worked on the same train.
The age difference between the two of them is a few months, and after Ma Yan's father Ma Kui was wrongfully imprisoned, Ma Yan was bullied with Wang Xin's help, which shows that their relationship was very good when they were young.
It can be said that the two of them grew up together as childhood sweethearts, and they are very familiar, Ma Yan's mother acquiesced to their relationship, and always left Wang Xin to eat at home.
It is said that the building near the water gets the moon first, and Ma Yan and Wang Xin should be together first.
However, Wang Xin actually dated Yao Yuling first, and when something happened and was about to be punished, Yao Yuling dumped Wang Xin, and it was Ma Yan's turn.
Ma Yan never knows why she and Wang Xin's childhood sweetheart are intimate, but they still can't compare to Yao Yuling, and in the end, Wang Xin has become the second best thing.
1, Wang Xin has always regarded Ma Yan as his sister.
Wang Xin has been helping Ma Yan with her homework, borrowing her books, buying her reference materials, and staying at Ma Yan'er's house for dinner, all as an elder brother to help Ma Yan.
Wang Xin never thought that he and Ma Yan had a relationship between men and women, and between them and her, they were iron buddies, brothers and sisters.
The emotional thing is like this, if no one picks out the relationship between two people, there will be no qualitative change, as long as one person picks out, the relationship between two people will be different.
In the end, it was Wang Xin's colleague who found out the relationship between Wang Xin and Ma Yan, otherwise Wang Xin, a stuffy gourd, would never have thought of it.
Ma Yan actually liked him before he went to see him, or he thought that Ma Yan really went to wholesale pickles.
2. Yao Yuling has a higher EQ than Ma Yan.
Ma Yan's personality is very aggressive, and the relationship between her and Wang Xin is also a good buddy, and she speaks straightforwardly.
Wang Xin was in a bad mood when he encountered something, and he also went to coax him, Ma Yan, like her father Ma Kui, used a loud voice and asked me to comfort Wang Xin.
As a result, Wang Xin didn't want to listen to him, so he drove her away and covered her head with a quilt.
And Yao Yuling's strategy is to praise Wang Xin first, and then ask Wang Xin to paint a portrait of her, and then keep blowing rainbow farts, saying that Wang Xin's painting is good, and then when Wang Xin is in a good mood, invite him to watch a movie.
In the end, Yao Yuling made an appointment with Wang Xin to watch a movie, but Ma Yan did not make an appointment.
Good words are warm in three winters, everyone loves to listen to good ones, and everyone is happy to listen to good ones.
Between close people, considering each other's feelings is also a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, which can win the happiness of the other party and provide convenience for themselves.
The other party is in a good mood, and the other party is naturally willing to agree when he makes a request.
After I had a daughter, I often read psychology books, including how to talk to others with high emotional intelligence.
3, Yao Yuling is more active than Ma Yan.
Ma Yan has always liked Wang Xin, but she has never told Wang Xinming, and she has not even expressed it euphemistically.
A woman's sixth sense is always more accurate, so Yao Yuling knew that Ma Yan was her competitor from the beginning, but Wang Xin never knew, and Ma Yan only secretly competed with Yao Yuling.
But after Yao Yuling fell in love with Wang Xin, she began to act directly, washing Wang Xin's clothes, sewing buttons, asking Wang Xin to help borrow cloth tickets, and inviting Wang Xin to watch movies.
and took advantage of the atmosphere of the movie to take the initiative to confess to Wang Xin, saying that he liked him.
Ma Yan's character is embarrassed to say that she likes it directly to Wang Xin.
People who take the initiative always have more opportunities and have more initiative.
Just like in the relationship between Wang Xin and Yao Yuling, Yao Yuling has always been the one who takes the initiative.
She said it started when it started, and she said it ended when it ended.
And Ma Yan, influenced by her mother, has always been a virtuous and traditional female image, she has been silently liking Wang Xin and embarrassed to say it.
Fortunately, Yao Yuling dumped Wang Xin, so that Ma Yan and Wang Xin finally became married.
Fortunately, after Wang Xin was dumped, he really saw what kind of relationship he wanted, and he was able to distinguish who was the right person for him.
Because, real pearls and fake pearls need to be run-in to distinguish.
People draw lines.