Some parents with autism always feel that when the child is enlightened, then his autism will be good, in fact, it is not wrong, but this enlightenment is not that our parents do nothing, just wait for him to develop and grow and open his mind, but to give the child some positive things, such as parent-child relationship, sports, etc. Then I'll tell you what I've done over the years.
1] Have a good parent-child relationship with the child, respect and understand the child.
Because autistic children have many differences, compared with ordinary children, they are special, and there are always some hobbies or behaviors that seem strange to others, but the basis of family intervention is based on the child's happiness, so we should consider the problem for the child from the child's point of view.
For example, Cola is a boy, he likes guzheng very much, in fact, as a mother, I want him to learn piano, violin, or taekwondo, at the beginning I also told him, we are boys, learn something else, but he is very persistent, and on the day of the audition, the teacher said that he has a very good sense of tone, and the song he played will be soon, and it is faster than others, so I did not continue to insist that he learn something else. He is very happy every time he plays the guzheng, not as painful as other children who are forced to learn by his parents.
2] Appropriate handicraft, outdoor sports.
In fact, autistic children are caused by brain development problems, the child's physical and mental age is behind his actual age, and these sports can not only help them exercise their bodies, improve immunity, but also exercise the brain, manual activities can exercise children's hands fine, outdoor contact with others, natural contact, children's perception is also of great help.
Coke usually paints by himself, DIY bags for me, makes "ugly" roses for me with plasticine, helps me mop the floor at home, cooks noodles and eats by himself, he will invite friends to come to the house to eat together, help me wash the vegetables together, help wash the dishes after eating, go to a friend's birthday party, dance with the bear and friends who come to deliver the cake, learn to make zongzi with grandma, during the holidays, we will go out camping together, take him to play with the fitness equipment in the community, rowing.
3] Eat a balanced diet and do not eat foods that you are allergic to and intolerant to.
These foods will affect the child's recovery, for ordinary children too, so we should carefully observe the child's usual eating habits, what not to eat, what to like to eat, what to eat will be allergic, these are all things that we need to pay attention to often, but it is not to say that the child does not like to eat what he does not eat, he is used to eating what he loves, and he is in a hurry to eat, but to synthesize these.
My cola is okay, he is not a particularly picky eater, he can eat most things, and he has no allergies, or he may not have eaten anything that will make him allergic, we will also get what he likes to eat and what he doesn't like to eat together, let him try it, change the original shape and taste of the food, and his acceptance is much higher. Autism If you don't understand, you can ask and answer all questions