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Hey friends, have you heard about this recent blind date story? It's even more exciting than a TV series! After a girl went on a blind date, she actually sent a monthly bill to the boy, guess how much? Nine thousand nine hundred dollars! Isn't that a joke! Netizens fryed the pot after seeing it, and there were all kinds of opinions, which was simply noisy.
It is said that the conditions of the two people on this blind date are not bad. The boy Xiao Wang, with an annual salary of 100,000 yuan, has a stable job, and has a few houses for rent at home. At 1.8 meters tall, he looks like a winner in life. As for the girl, she is also sweet in appearance and has a stable job. Everyone thinks it's a match made in heaven. However, it was because of this bill that this blind date became a mess.
That night, the girl sent Xiao Wang a detailed bill for daily expenses. When Xiao Wang saw it, his eyes widened, and he almost didn't crush the phone. What is written on the bill? It is the monthly expenses of the two of them in the future, which is 9,900 yuan! Xiao Wang's heart was so bitter, he felt that the pressure was as heavy as a mountain.
The girl explained that these expenses are all necessary, including meals, utilities, transportation, property fees, fruit snacks, clothes and shoes, and more. She even included a budget for red and white ceremonies, which cost 2,000 yuan a month! The girl felt that Xiao Wang's annual salary of 100,000 yuan was too little, and she should work hard to increase her annual salary to 200,000 yuan.
When Xiao Wang heard this, his lungs were about to explode. He felt that his life was already quite good, and there was no need to live so tightly. He felt that the girl's requirements for life were too high, so the two had a disagreement, and finally the blind date ended in failure.
As soon as this matter spread on the Internet, it immediately caused heated discussions. Netizens expressed their opinions one after another, and the comment area exploded. Some people think that the budget for red and white ceremonies in the bill is too exaggerated, which is simply showing off wealth. In their opinion, getting married is not a happy event, and there is no need to spend so much money every month.
But there are also those who think the bill is quite reasonable. They said that life is stressful now, and the price of goods is expensive, and spending 9,900 yuan a month is nothing. There are also people who think that they only earn 3,000 a month, and this bill is simply astronomical for them.
There are also people with a total family income of 90,000 yuan, saying that they can save 20,000 yuan a year with two children. These people feel that as long as they plan their expenses reasonably, they can still live a very nourishing life. However, they also admit that raising children is indeed a money-burning job.
However, some netizens questioned that the girl did not include her income at all, and planned to let the man bear it all. In their view, marriage is a shared responsibility and obligation of both parties, and the woman should also bear part of the family expenses. They feel that this girl is too materialistic, and only values the economic conditions of the other party, and ignores the importance of feelings.
This incident is really laughable. Originally, the blind date was to find a suitable partner and spend a lifetime together, but now it has become such a farce. I think that marriage is not a child's play, not only the economic conditions of the other party, but also whether each other's emotional foundation and values match. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.
At the same time, we must also respect the choices and opinions of others, and we must not attack others because of our own preferences. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and we can't force others to accept our own opinions. Only by facing the challenges and differences in life with an inclusive and understanding mindset can we find our place and value in this pluralistic and complex society.
To be honest, this blind date incident is really helpless to watch. It was supposed to be a process of two young people getting to know each other and finding happiness, but they got into trouble because of a bill. I think that young people nowadays are really stressed, but we can't ignore the importance of feelings because of this. Marriage requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties, and it is not only about the economic conditions of the other party.
At the same time, we also need to understand that everyone's lifestyle and values are different. We can't dismiss someone else's choice just because we like it. In the process of blind date, we should pay more attention to whether each other's emotional foundation and values match, rather than paying too much attention to material conditions. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.
In addition, this incident also showed me the power of social **. In the Internet era, people express their views and opinions through social networking, and it is easy to form pressure. After the girl's behavior was ** this time, it not only caused heated discussions among netizens, but also may have a certain impact on her life and work. Therefore, while we enjoy the convenience brought by social **, we should also pay attention to our words and deeds to avoid unnecessary trouble for ourselves and others.
Overall, although this blind date incident seems to be just an ordinary social incident, it has triggered people's deep thinking about the modern concept of marriage and family. We should understand that marriage is not a transaction, but two people who love each other walk into each other's lives together and face the challenges of the future together. In the process of blind date, we should not only pay attention to the material conditions of the other party, but also pay attention to whether each other's emotional foundation and values match. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us. At the same time, we must also learn to respect the choices and opinions of others, and face the challenges and differences in life with tolerance and understanding. Only in this way can we find our own place and value in this pluralistic and complex society. I hope that this incident can arouse everyone's reflection and vigilance, let us cherish the people and things around us more, and do not let money and material things become the standard of happiness.