On the night of the blind date, the girl sent a bill for expenses, which is really a rare thing! After hearing about this, netizens exploded and talked about it.
Xiao Wang, a 35-year-old native of Hangzhou, works as an administrator in a state-owned enterprise, earns 100,000 yuan a year, and has two houses. When he met a girl who was one year younger than him on a blind date, the two chatted very closely, and Xiao Wang felt that he had found true love. But who knows, at about 8 o'clock in the evening, the girl sent him a word document called "Breakdown of Family Daily Expenses". This breakdown can be detailed, from the basic living expenses such as grocery shopping, water, electricity and gas, to changing electronic products, daily maintenance, and even the cost of red and white ceremonies. Over the course of a month, it will cost 9,900 yuan!
The girl also explained that the 9,900 yuan is only the average monthly fixed expenses of the two people's lives, and some non-fixed expenses are not included, such as the illness of two or both parents, some training expenses after the children go to school, and so on.
In response to this incident, netizens have different opinions. Some people think that the girl has a clear plan and expectation for her married life, and she hopes that by listing the details of daily expenses, the man can understand the real pressure of married life and the economic foundation required, and this rational attitude is worthy of recognition. It is also believed that this reflects the traditional view of the female girl about the division of roles between men and women in the family, in which the man should assume the main economic responsibility of the family, while the woman is responsible for the rest of the family, which limits women's development space and autonomy to a certain extent. Some netizens also think that the girl encouraged Xiao Wang to take the annual salary of 200,000 as the goal, showing her pursuit of material life and yearning for a better life, however, this pursuit should not be at the expense of the happiness and dignity of the other party.
Regarding the bill sent by the girl on the night of the blind date, the man said that he was really surprised. However, I can also understand her thoughts, she may want to let the other party understand the practical pressure and economic basis of future married life in this way.
However, the man feels that marriage requires a combination of sensibility and rationality, not only looking at economic conditions, but also considering whether the feelings and personalities of two people are suitable. Moreover, in the family, both men and women should share the responsibility and not put all the financial pressure on the man.
Although he has two houses, his annual salary is only 100,000, and he has to work harder to meet her requirements. However, I also hope that she can understand the man's situation, not just look at the superficial conditions, but look at my inner qualities and abilities.
In general, he was quite satisfied with this blind date, but for her request, the man said that he still needed time to consider and prepare. He also hopes to find someone who truly understands him and supports her, and creates a better future together.
All in all, during the blind date process, both parties should be honest with each other and be clear about each other's expectations and requirements. Regardless of the final result, I hope everyone can find a suitable partner for themselves and create their own happy life together.