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When I was young, my dream was to be a painter and a scientist, but after middle age, I found that I could only go to a training institution to be a painting teacher, and I could only teach my children to read popular science picture books at home.
Middle age is a turning point in life, especially for women. They may have passed the restlessness of youth and entered a more mature and stable stage, but their inner emotional needs still exist, and even appear especially strong in certain periods.
During these times, they may seek solace outside of marriage if married life does not meet their emotional needs. The following are the four peak periods when middle-aged women are prone to falling into extramarital affairs, I hope you can pay more attention.
I hope that middle-aged women can take care of their hearts and understand that extramarital affairs are not your medicine, it may poison a person like Heding Hong. I hope that the other half of a middle-aged woman will also pay more attention to the wives around her, give them a little more satisfaction, give them a little more love, and let them enjoy the happiness of marriage, so as not to be stumped by the ** outside.
01: The seven-year itch of marriage, I want to go outside to breathe
People often say the "seven-year itch", and this is not unfounded. In the seventh year of marriage, with the accumulation of trivial things in life and the dullness of life day after day, middle-aged women may start to get bored with marriage. They crave novelty and want to make a difference in their lives. In this case, it is easy for the outside world to take advantage of the situation.
As Zhang Ailing said: "What can really ** you, is never time, but understand, love to the extreme, is fulfillment, but also helpless, no matter who leaves you, don't forget, before he came, you were originally living alone, you can't let go and reluctant, you are unwilling, even if the wrong person meets, it will still be separated, the right person, separated or reunited." "During this period, couples should pay more attention to the emotional needs of women, and strive to inject new vitality into the marriage to get through this difficult time together.
02: After the child goes to college, he has nothing to do
After a child goes to college, middle-aged women may suddenly lose the focus of their lives. In the past, they put a lot of effort into their children's growth and education, but now that their children are away from home to study, their lives suddenly become idle. This kind of leisure can easily lead them into confusion about the future and dissatisfaction with their marriage.
As Yishu said: "Life is short for decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others." "During this period, middle-aged women need to rediscover their value, develop new hobbies, and enrich their lives. At the same time, partners should also give them more support and encouragement to help them through this transition.
03: When a family member encounters a major accident, he has nothing to rely on
Middle-aged women whose family members have suffered major changes, such as the death of their parents and the difficulties of their siblings, will have a huge impact on their emotional world. During this period, they may feel helpless and lost, and develop doubts and dissatisfaction with their married life. The care and comfort of the outside world can easily become the object of their emotional sustenance.
As Yang Jiang expresses in "The Two of Us", family plays a vital role in our lives. During this period, the partner should give enough support and love to the middle-aged woman to face the difficulties in life with them. At the same time, we should also encourage them to face reality with strength and rediscover the direction and purpose of life.
04: After a long period of separation, the husband and wife have long been separated
Couples who have been separated from each other for a long time are prone to emotional rifts. Middle-aged women are prone to doubts and dissatisfaction with their married life in the midst of long-term loneliness and loneliness. They long for someone to be by their side and share the joys and sorrows of life. If this need cannot be met, they may seek solace outside of marriage.
As the ancients said: "If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight." But long-term separation in real life often leads to indifference in the relationship between husband and wife. During this period, partners should try to create opportunities to get together, maintain communication, and share each other's lives and emotions. At the same time, efforts should also be made to solve the problem of separation between the two places and inject new hope and vitality into married life.
Conclusion:
In short, middle-aged women face various challenges and dilemmas in their married life. Their emotional needs may be particularly strong during these four specific periods.
As partners and family members, we should give them more attention and understanding to face the difficulties and challenges in life together. Only in this way can we make our married life more satisfying and happy.