The interaction between people is, to put it bluntly, an emotional reaction. However, in the process of this relationship, there are always some men's behaviors that will make people feel offended.
What exactly?
Disrespect for women.
I once swiped a strange comment on the Internet, and the male netizen said:
If it weren't for my physical needs, I wouldn't have found a girlfriend at all, let alone got married. ”
I want to ask, are there still three views?
The purpose of finding a girlfriend is just to satisfy your "animal" needs?
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that they know how to control their desires.
I'm sure you've heard or seen these words:
You see that she is wearing so little, she is certainly not a good woman."
If you go out to eat in the middle of the night, which good girl would be like this? ”
She was abused by men, and she must have a reason."
She was cheated on, isn't she responsible? ”
All reveal a smell of "disrespect for women".
Respect for women is the most basic upbringing for men.
If you run into such a man who doesn't know how to respect women, take a taxi and run.
Irresponsible. Yu Qiuyu once said: The first charm of men is a sense of responsibility.
Teacher Luo Xiang also said that women are most disgusted with men's five behaviors, one of which is irresponsibility.
It can be seen how important responsibility is for a man.
But not all people are responsible.
A few days ago, I saw a news: a male doctor didn't want a child and gave medicine to his girlfriend**.
This is no longer a simple lack of wanting to be responsible, it is already vicious.
There are not a few such people.
* Air conditioning, the same attitude and way for girlfriends and other women;
Calm down after sleeping", I usually don't want to spend time with my girlfriend and just want to play with myself, and I want to "pamper" my girlfriend when I am on a whim;
Something happened, completely ignoring his girlfriend.
You see, this type of people are not willing to take responsibility for themselves, do not take into account the feelings and needs of others, and only care about their own interests.
In the face of irresponsible men, you only need to remember one sentence: change when you should change, don't be reluctant to be emotional, and don't wronged yourself.
Don't want to forge ahead. And the ancients said: "If you don't have a will, there is nothing you can do in the world." ”
If people do not have a will, they will end up empty-lived without illness and do nothing.
Jiang Hai is such a person in the recently hit TV series "Good Things Come in Pairs".
Every day at home, I eat my sister's, drink my sister's, and use my sister's.
And he himself will only play games at home.
In the face of my sister's accusations, I will memorize his prevarication:
It's easy for you to make money anyway".
I have a business plan, I just haven't started yet".
Isn't it a bad environment".
I'm already looking for it, but there's no response".
People who don't want to make progress can always find excuses for themselves.
often "talk on paper" and often say that "the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge", how can such a person be easily pinned on.
This kind of person will only make people disgusted and annoying.
Write to the end: A real man should have pursuits and dreams, have responsibilities, and work hard for the future.
When you meet these kinds of boys, you must think more and don't be blinded by the love brain.
After all, life is its own.
I also hope that you can find a man who is compatible with your love and reliable in life.
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