On the road of life, it is impossible to be free from any fetters; On the road of life, it is impossible not to have the taste of sweet, sour, bitter and salty. With such life experiences, we can mature in faltering steps.
If you are much slower than others, you are only half empty. It is precisely because of the narrowness of the heart that he confined himself to every square inch; It was a pocket rope tied to half of the wall that kept us out of the fresh air of the wilderness. Therefore, I don't even have the qualifications to be a frog at the bottom of the well.
If we want to have a complete emptiness, we have to make our hearts bigger, then we have to make ourselves less eager for quick success, then we have to stand on a new commanding heights and carefully examine ourselves, what kind of heart and eyes are missing, what kind of spiritual calcium is missing, and what kind of trace elements are missing.
Only by tirelessly cultivating the other half of our hearts like the reclamation of the wasteland can we shorten the maturity period on the road of life; Only by being like a farmer, working intensively, pruning the branches of life, applying pesticides and killing insects, and fertilizing and watering, can we shorten the maturity period of the road of life. If you can't find your own germs and tumors in time, it will make half of the heart gradually shrink, and you will lose the best maturity period of your life path, and you will not be able to achieve the expected effect of value preservation and appreciation.
If mold has arisen in our minds, then we must take decisive measures, then we must not spoil our own defects, then we must not indulge ourselves with outdated ideas that do not hide our flaws, then we must remove the mold and tumors with the determination of a strong man to break his wrist, and sweep all defects out of the house. Only by cleaning the atrium can we reclaim a new half of the inner void and restore the complete inner emptiness as soon as possible.
As long as we don't take pride in showing off, our heart emptiness will gradually expand; As long as we don't take pride in hypocrisy, our empty hearts will become healthier and healthier; As long as we don't plunder the achievements of others, we don't fall prey to desires; As long as we do not seize the living space of others, our heart will not shrink into half of the heart empty.
The ancients said: "Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small." Mr. Confucius, the founder of Confucianism, admonished us: "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." "Why do we delay our maturity on the road of life, we should ask ourselves, neither complain about others, nor repay virtue with grievances. Only by taking the teachings of our ancestors as a mirror and reflecting seriously is the choice of the wise; Only by breaking down the wall of our hearts can we achieve our long-cherished wish of reclaiming the other half of our hearts.
To be a man, you can neither treat yourself as a commodity, nor treat others as commodities to plunder by unscrupulous means; To be a human being, you can neither harm yourself nor others. Only by protecting the dignity and honor of others as if we were protecting our own lives can we win the same respect from others. However, there is no economic benefit transfer relationship between each other, but only a bridge and bond of trust and understanding have been consciously established in the process of treating each other with sincerity.
To be a man, you can't be smart in half of your heart; To be a man, you can't work hard in half of your heart; To be a man, you can't do whatever you want in half of your heart; To be a man, you can't be empty in half of your heart, and you can't be arrogant; As a man, you can't steal from yourself in half of your heart, and frame others; To be a man, you can't be imaginative and alone in half of the heart.
Man is the sum total of all social relations, and no one can survive in the world alone. Only by walking in company with others and living in harmony will we not be half empty-minded. Only by broadening our horizons can we have a healthy state of mind and a new future. (Guo Xilin).