In the current society, blind dates are still the way for most people to find a partner. Blind dates will meet all kinds of people, making all kinds of normal or strange requirements. For example, you can't sleep in the same bed after marriage, and don't have a married life; For example, the bill was issued on the night of the blind date, and the monthly expenditure was 9,900 yuan, which put pressure on the man.
Xiao Wang is a native of Hangzhou, works in a state-owned enterprise, earns 100,000 yuan a year, and is 30 years old.
In the marriage and love market, Xiao Wang belongs to older young people, and it is very difficult to find a partner.
For his marriage, his parents couldn't sleep with sorrow, so they asked people everywhere to introduce him to him.
After being introduced, Xiao Wang met a local girl, Xiao Li, who works in a public institution, has a very stable job, and looks good.
Xiao Wang was very satisfied, he and Xiao Li fell in love for a year and entered the stage of talking about marriage.
Xiao Li made a request:After marriage, you can't sleep in the same bed, and you can't have a married life.
The little ** was shocked.
Marriage is for the sake of succession.
Xiao Li asked him not to ** after marriage, how to pass on the ancestry, what is the point of such a marriage?
Xiao Wang tried to persuade Xiao Li, but the persuasion was ineffective.
Xiao Wang let his parents out and persuaded Xiao Li, but it had no effect.
Xiao Wang had to break off his relationship with Xiao Li.
Xiao Wang continued his blind date journey.
The girl on this blind date is a girl who came to Hangzhou to work hard, the girl does administrative work, has an annual income of 100,000 yuan, and she looks very beautiful.
Xiao Wang was very satisfied with the girl's appearance.
He thinks that he is a local, that his family has two apartments, that his family conditions are better than that of a girl, and that the girl should be willing to marry him.
Xiao Wang happily imagined the future, got married and had a baby, and he thought of the child's name.
On the night of the blind date, Xiao Wang sent a message to the girl to chat and deepen the relationship.
The girl sent him a **.
**The name is "Breakdown of Family Daily Expenses", which writes various expenses in life, such as grocery shopping, water bills, electricity bills, pocket money, red and white ceremonies, etc. According to this **, the monthly cost is 9900 yuan.
Xiao Wang now earns 100,000 yuan a year, and the girl also earns 100,000 yuan a year.
With the current income of the two of them, after getting married, one of them must use all his income for daily eating, drinking, and Lazar, and he can't save money.
The girl sent this ** to Xiao Wang,The purpose is to let Xiao Wang work hard and increase his annual income from 100,000 yuan to 200,000 yuan.
In fact, Xiao Wang also wants to make more money, the key is that his job is administrative, and the salary is very stable, and it is impossible for the salary to double in a year.
If you change jobs, you will give up your current iron rice bowl. Xiao Wang is reluctant to give up this iron job.
The girl's idea is that if Xiao Wang's income does not increase, there is no need to fall in love.
In this way, Xiao Wang's blind date failed again.
After two failed blind dates in a row, Xiao Wang was very distressed and confided in reporters about his failed blind date experience. The reporter posted this on the Internet, and the comment area exploded.
Since there is mobile phone payment and face payment, many people have no concept of money, and they don't know how expensive firewood, rice, oil and salt are.
To put it mildly, if Xiao Wang is really 1.8 meters tall, a native of Hangzhou, two suites, and a career establishment, there would have been a local girl looking for him on a blind date and marrying him, it is impossible to reach 30 without a partner, Xiao Wang should have concealed some of his own situation.
The girl's calculations seem to be quite a lot at first glance, but in fact, the messy expenses such as eating, drinking, and Lazar in a month after marriage are definitely more than 10,000.
Xiao Wang, you have two houses, did you buy them in full or do you have a mortgage? If you have a mortgage, plus water and electricity property fees, you will have children in the future, you need ** powder, and there will be various training classes when you grow up, and these expenses add up, 10,000 yuan a month is not enough to spend. The girl asked Xiao Wang for an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, and there was nothing wrong with it.
When you meet a girl like this, just give up. On the first day of the blind date, she dared to make such a request, why didn't she ask her to earn more money herself? There is also a reason why the girl is single until now, and you can see how big her own problems are from this strange request she makes.
In today's society, there are more and more single young people, and there are many older unmarried young men in rural areas. In the days of the Spring Festival, it was reported that older young men in rural areas had given up their marriage anxiety and put their minds on making money.
In fact, whether in the countryside or in the city, money comes first when getting married and finding a partner.
There is no money, no car, no house, and the difficulty of finding a partner is comparable to learning from the West.
Boys, try to make money.
Girls, don't be so materialistic, okay?
When getting married and looking for a partner, it is not only to see whether the other party has money, but also to see how the other party's character, personality, and development potential are. If a boy has no money now, but has unlimited potential, then get married.
Such a boy is a potential stock, after marrying him, life will be better and better, prosperous, en**, happy for a lifetime. On the night of the blind date, the girl listed 9,900 yuan per month