Deng Jie finally became a mother at the age of year, and unexpectedly ushered in a turning point in her life
Deng Jie, who was once very popular for playing the role of "Wang Xifeng" in "Dream of Red Mansions", after marrying her husband Zhang Guoli, she followed the other party's ideas and chose a childless lifestyle and became a "Dink".
While people are still debating which is happier to have children or not to have children, the 65-year-old woman uses her story to show us that whether or not to choose Dink is not the key to determining a family's happiness.
Therefore, not having children cannot be the biggest regret in life, and true happiness lies in one's own feelings and satisfaction.
01 Deng Jie is not the original candidate for the role of "Wang Xifeng". Although she participated in the filming of the show, her role is just an unknown maid.
At the beginning, Deng Jie was still a novice in the circle, and it was not easy for her to get the role of a maid. Fortunately, just when filming was about to start, Wang Xifeng's original actor withdrew due to force majeure.
Therefore, the crew had to look for new actors. And "Dream of Red Mansions" itself involves many characters, and Deng Jie took this opportunity to win the qualification for an interview for herself.
Deng Jie really lives up to her Sichuan opera family background and is talented. Wearing Wang Xifeng's makeup, she immediately played a three-dimensional and plump role, and the well-thought-out performance was even more eye-catching.
Deng Jie's performance made the director seem to see a flesh-and-blood and lively Wang Xifeng, so she immediately determined her role in this play.
Dream of Red Mansions received an enthusiastic response after it was broadcast, fully demonstrating its unparalleled charm. Deng Jie won the award for her role in this play, successfully consolidating her position in the entertainment industry.
A few years later, her works came out one after another, each of which won an immortal reputation, and Deng Jie was appreciated by many fans and friends. From the moment she loved acting, Deng Jie was ready to work hard.
And these ensuing honors are not only an affirmation of her ability, but also a reward for her hard work.
Deng Jie's father passed away early, and she and her younger brother were brought up by their mother and grandmother. Her mother's work and her grandmother's hobbies subtly inspired Deng Jie's love for Sichuan opera.
At school, she was often immersed in the charm of Sichuan opera, and this love was also appreciated by teachers and classmates.
Deng Jie's singing enthusiasm is like a powerful driving force, which inspires her infinite self-confidence. Since then, she has been deeply trapped in the ocean of ** and has never tired of it. However, this enthusiasm also made her gradually devote all her life and study to singing, so that her mother began to worry about her performance in cultural classes, and worried that she would abandon her studies.
After an in-depth conversation with her mother, Deng Jie had a clear plan for her future. She combined her love for art with her studies, and finally successfully entered the Sichuan Opera School in Sichuan Province in 1973, where she began her artistic journey.
In this place, she can devote herself to discovering her passion, and interest is the best mentor, and soon, Deng Jie achieved excellent results in school. Therefore, although Deng Jie has been smooth in her studies and career, her love is not satisfactory.
Before Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli got married in 03, they each had a not very happy marriage. Her first spouse was a business tycoon, and her married life could be described as ups and downs.
Although some rich people have a tendency to be distracted, Deng Jie's husband is no exception, and his violent temper has also brought great physical and mental harm to Deng Jie.
Deng Jie endured too much in her marriage, and finally decided to end this painful marriage and devote herself to her career. And Zhang Guoli became a surprise on the road to her career, and it was also her savior to get out of her emotional predicament.
When the two first met, Deng Jie had already accumulated a large number of fans with a number of out-of-the-circle works, while Zhang Guoli was still playing tricks and had not yet attracted everyone's attention. When feelings are hurt, people tend to be more receptive to honest people.
And Zhang Guoli's appearance belongs to this category, coupled with his unique sense of humor, which makes Deng Jie have a good impression of him.
Although the relationship between them is heating up day by day, because Zhang Guoli already has a family, they can only maintain a friendship relationship and cannot develop further. At this time, the relationship between Zhang Guoli and his wife was not harmonious.
In order to pursue better career development opportunities, he often spent the night in the crew, and over time, the relationship between the husband and wife gradually drifted apart. Therefore, after deep reflection, Zhang Guoli decided to confess everything to his wife.
Surprisingly, his wife understood him very well and did not blame him too much, but just hoped that for the sake of the children, Zhang Guoli would not have other children.
Zhang Guoli hesitated in the face of this problem, and he knew that he could not make a decision for Deng Jie just for himself. If you want to stay with the other party for a long time, you need to fully respect the other person's choice, and he has no right to deprive the other party of the right to be a mother.
Unexpectedly, when Deng Jie learned about this situation, she agreed without hesitation.
can't help but make people wonder, is she so convinced of Zhang Guoli's feelings for herself? How long can childless love last? In addition, Zhang Guoli seems to have had the experience of empathy.
After Zhang Guoli divorced his ex-wife, he obtained two rational female partners, and this experience may be seen as a kind of luck. His son Zhang Mo was able to live with his father because of this, and the whole process seemed relatively smooth.
Zhang Mo was very resistant to Deng Jie's arrival, because he felt that she caused the separation of his parents. At that time, he was still young and didn't know that his parents' marriage had already existed in name only, so he turned a blind eye to any overtures from Deng Jie.
Master Deng Jie wisely chose not to argue with the child, and she and Teacher Zhang Guoli worked together many times in the filming of Qing Dynasty dramas, such as "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview", "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" and other works, so that Teacher Zhang Guoli's career is booming and has reached its peak.
Many people mistakenly thought that Emperor Kangxi in the TV series was the real him in history.
As Zhang Guoli's fame grew, Deng Jie began to focus on her family and became a virtuous helper. Although they had no biological children, the two later adopted a lovely little girl and became a new family member.
Since the girl was only one year old at the time of the adoption, we did not disclose much information in order to prevent her from worrying about her background in the future. Fortunately, Zhang Mo has grown up and accepted Deng Jie.
Deng Jie, who is now 65 years old, actually has children and daughters.
Although the years have left traces on her face, her kinship with her children is indelible. In her heart, the adoptive mother is better than the biological mother, because whoever raises her, she regards whoever is her relative.
And Zhang Guoli is also deeply ashamed of Deng Jie, so he has always regarded her as the pearl of his palm.
Deng Jie is undoubtedly a winner in life, with both children and loving husband and wife, in contrast, the choice of "Dink" is not necessarily a regret.
Deng Jie: From a mother's dream to adopting a girl, deducing the greatness of mother's love China News Network once reported that Deng Jie adopted a 1-year-old girl with Zhang Guoli and his wife because she longed to be a mother.
This news instantly attracted widespread attention, allowing people to see Deng Jie's deep desire for maternal love. However, Deng Jie is not only satisfied with her "motherhood dream", she also actively participates in public welfare activities to provide assistance to children in need.
Her behavior makes people see the greatness and selflessness of mother's love, and it also makes us cherish everything we have more. Deng Jie's acting career is also colorful, and she has created many popular roles in many film and television works.
With her talent and hard work, she has won praise from the audience and industry insiders. Overall, Deng Jie is a loving and talented woman, and her deeds and spirit are worthy of our deep thought and learning.