People are equal in terms of dealing with people.
However, people are invisibly divided into levels.
According to the amount of money, it is divided into rich and poor; According to the size of the mistake, it is divided into general fault, serious mistake, crime, etc.; According to the structure of the unit, it is divided into bosses, middle management, and ordinary employees; At home, there is a difference between the elder and the younger, and the eldest parent must be promoted; According to the level of character, it is divided into villains and gentlemen.
From a practical point of view, a person with a real high level is not necessarily a person with a lot of money and a high status, but a high realm, a civilized and reasonable treatment of others, and a willingness to bow his head.
Today, I will talk to you about a topic, how to judge the level of a person from a person's name, which can provide a reference for social choices and avoid confusion with low-level people.
A person's "surname" can be traced back to the nobility of the ancestors.
Anyone who has watched "Hundred Family Names" knows that many surnames are related to a certain historical event, city, and vassal state.
For example, people with the surname Tang are descendants of the Yellow Emperor Xuanyuan.
Emperor Yao, the sixth generation of the Yellow Emperor, had a fief in Tao and moved to the Tang Dynasty, so his branch was called the Tao Tang clan and established the Tang Kingdom.
Over time, the people of Tang Land, the relevant descendants, became surnamed Tang.
If your surname is Tang, it means that your ancestors are supreme people and worthy of pride.
However, some surnames originated from ordinary people. This point is clearly reflected in the Japanese name: during the Meiji Restoration, ** registered household registration door-to-door, and some people who did not have a surname added their surnames at will, and if there were three wells at home, the surname was "Mitsui"; The person at the foot of the mountain, the surname is "Yamashita"...
Today, our relationship with our ancestors has faded a lot, but a very few surnames will be looked down upon. For example, if Qin Hui's descendants say that their surname is Qin, it will immediately cause unpleasant feelings. After all, Qin Hui was a traitor and killed the patriotic hero Yue Fei.
Really high-level people will carry forward the surnames given by their ancestors. Exactly,The line does not change the name, and the sitting does not change the surname.
A friend of mine was involved in the work of repairing the family tree.
His surname was Luo, and he insisted that he was a descendant of King Luo Bin.
When someone in the family makes a mistake and doesn't study hard, they will be taught: "How are you worthy to be the descendant of King Luo Bing?" ”
Luo Bingwang is a celebrity of the Tang Dynasty, one of the "Four Masters of the Early Tang Dynasty", talented and eight-year-old, and also benefits the official side.
Don't embarrass your ancestors, this is a wake-up call to yourself, and it is also the driving force to spur yourself forward, and you also regard your ancestors as a role model for people, which is a sign of going to a high place.
A person's "name" reflects the pattern of life.
In addition to the surname, we also have "names", and for the ancients, there are also "characters".
What name to choose, it is generally the elders who have the final say. In rural areas, people are accustomed to taking out the family tree to see what the next generation should be, so the "character" of the generation has become part of the name.
When you go out in the future, contact people with the same surname, and each of them says their seniority, and you can immediately figure out who is the elder and who is the junior, which is easy to call.
Now, when choosing a name, many people have omitted generations, but strive to have a beautiful meaning and give people positive power.
Liu Bei, who was born at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, is called Xuande.
Why is he "Xuande"? Literally, you can find that only by being a respectable person can there be hope.
In that year, his grandfather Liu Xiong was promoted to filial piety and made a county order. Filial piety is naturally outstanding in virtue. In his name, he also pinned the expectations of his grandfather and father.
After the death of his grandfather and father, he and his mother depended on each other and made a living by selling straw sandals, but he was not inferior at all. He listened to his mother's teachings, went to join the army, and became a general, assassin, etc. step by step.
According to the "Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms", Liu Bei was unwilling to do anything that violated morality at any time, and all the small princes and people came to submit.
When he was being pursued by Cao Cao, someone advised him to abandon the chaos and speed up his journey. But he didn't want to.
From the analysis of Liu Bei's benevolence and righteousness, it is not surprising that he was able to establish the Shu State and become the emperor.
Cherish your name and keep in mind the expectations of your ancestors, but the life of "not worthy of the name", the level of life will be as beautiful as the meaning of the name, and it will be higher and higher.
The change of name has witnessed the process of changing fate.
People's names are not static, many people will change their names on the way to growth, and some people even change their surnames.
If you change your name, either your family has changed a lot, for example, after your parents divorced, you changed your father's surname to your mother's surname; Either life is not going well, change the name, change the attitude of life; Either it is inspirational to become a certain aspect of the person, using a name to motivate yourself.
* Period, there was a man named Zhang Xinyuan, when he was young, relying on his father's prestige and family wealth, he lived very freely.
Later, when his father passed away, he took up the burden of the family and relied on writing articles to earn money.
In order to motivate himself, he changed his name to "Zhang Hatshui".
The two words "hate water" originate from Li Yu's sentence "I am a human being, and I hate water for a long time". Time disappears like flowing water, and he must cherish it desperately and not waste it.
What is admirable is that he changed the names of his two wives, and the meaning is very beautiful.
He met the lonely Hu Zhaodi in Beijing, cherished each other, and when they got married, he changed his wife's name to Hu Qiuxia. The word "Qiuxia" originates from Wang Bo's "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng", "Luoxia and lonely birds fly together, and the autumn water grows together in the sky", which is beautiful.
His third wife, Zhou Shuyun, after some pondering, changed her name to "Zhou Nan", which originated from "Zhou Nan" and "Zhao Nan" in "National Style".
The change of the family's name is closely related to the change of ideals and marriage, and reflects a sign of prosperity.Of course, changing the name does not necessarily mean modifying the household registration book, but also using "pen name, stage name", which is also relatively simple and convenient, and can also show your own level.
The poet Wang Jian said: "Chang'an is evil and has no name, and the downstairs robs the merchant and gets drunk upstairs." ”People, don't use the wrong name, don't discredit the name, and avoid being notorious.
The ancestors gave you an auspicious name, and you should cherish it and spend your life practicing it.
If there are no accidents, everyone hopes that they will become famous in one fell swoop. This is the original motivation for level ascension.
Of course, when your realm is very high, you will become a high-level person if you are obscure all your life. It is not impossible to insist on doing good deeds without leaving a name, and forgetting your own fame.
All in all, if the name is used correctly, everything will go smoothly.