Grandma was sick and hospitalized, and the child that grandpa brought back came back: why didn't you inform me earlier!
A few years ago, grandpa passed away, and grandma lived alone at home. Our family is actually quite big, my grandfather has 6 children, three sons and three daughters, but our family is also quite small, all year round, there are only a few people. My father died early, I was only about 6 years old when he left, and then my mother also remarried, and our family was gone, and I grew up with my grandparents.
Three aunts, the third aunt married away from home and has not been back for many years, and in my memory, she seems to have come back twice. When my father and grandfather died, she didn't come back. Speaking of the other two aunts, it is also a coincidence, their sons have had children in the past two years, and the two aunts are also busy taking care of the front and back, and sometimes they can't eat. So after the grandfather left, the uncle sighed a few times, saying that our family seems to be very big, but in fact, there is really no one, if one day grandma is hospitalized, I don't know what to do. However, perhaps it was a proverb that my grandmother was hospitalized. And even more unexpected things have come.
Grandma fell ill suddenly, and the person went to the hospital. Just some time ago, the uncle just came back from the field to accompany his grandmother for a while, and as soon as the front foot left, such an incident happened to the back foot.
If the uncle comes back, there are too many things to delay back and forth.
And the second uncle at this moment has just divorced, and he has just started a little bit in his career.
I was the first to go back to my hometown hospital to take care of my grandmother, and I even told my uncle and second uncle that if you are really busy, you will not come back, you all have families and hospitals, life is stressful, I don't have any burden on myself, it doesn't matter.
But in the end, the second uncle still decided that he would stop the work at hand and come back overnight.
To be honest, I don't want the second uncle to come back, he has been married for many years, and there has been no good life, the second mother is not a good stubble, and has been making trouble for many years.
But the second uncle said that I was a child and couldn't let me stay at home.
But I'm not alone in the hospital, and I have two aunts. Although the two aunts have been taking care of their grandchildren, after all, grandma is hospitalized, which is a big deal, and my cousins are also sensible, so they let the aunts come over for a week to take care of grandma.
On the second day of my grandmother's hospitalization, she gradually regained consciousness and was even able to eat a mouthful, but her speech was still inarticulate, very vague, and she kept whining what she was saying, and we couldn't understand it, so we could only rely on guesses.
Until the second uncle arrived at the hospital, his grandmother held his hand tightly and wanted to say something, but she couldn't say anything.
The second uncle lowered his head, not knowing how to face her.
Come to think of it, my grandfather just passed away a few years ago, and now my grandmother is in the hospital again, and he has just experienced a divorce, and his career has been sluggish for so many years, and he has just improved a little.
But it's like this. To be honest, the second uncle is also very bitter in his heart.
In this way, after a week, grandma did recover a lot, at least she was able to say a word or two, no longer the kind of talk she had before, she was even able to sit up and eat, and the doctor felt that grandma's desire to survive was still very strong.
It is still rare for an elderly man in his 80s to recover so quickly, and it should be celebrated.
However, the cousins began to call, saying that the child in the family could not cry, and no one could control it, so they asked the aunt to go home.
My two aunts also came home to take care of the children.
Before leaving, I told the second uncle, if there is anything to say, as soon as I have time, I will hurry over.
The second uncle asked them to go home, there is me and him here, and it shouldn't be a big problem.
Speaking of which, my grandmother has been hospitalized for so long, and a few of my relatives came, but none of my uncles came.
The eldest uncle is a lazy master, grandma is angry with him all his life and doesn't want to see him, and the eldest uncle is indeed like this, and he thinks that grandma looks down on him, so these two people almost don't talk much, even if it's the New Year, they won't come to our house to pay New Year's greetings.
The second aunt's family is rich and has a good life.
It's just that. The more I talked, the more uncomfortable I felt! How is our family so fragmented! ）
In the hospital, there were just me and my second uncle.
Originally, our plan was to take turns guarding one in the first half of the night and the other in the second half of the night.
But the second uncle always guarded until dawn, and after dawn I woke up to protect my grandmother, and then he went to rest.
It doesn't matter if it's a day or two, but people are mortals with the naked eye after all, and they can't bear to stay up all night and night, and it's only a few days, the eyes of the second uncle are red, all bloodshot, and people are also visibly emaciated.
I asked him to rest more, and I came to guard it, but the second uncle said that I was still a child and couldn't stay up all night.
Once the uncle and the second uncle**, looking at the second uncle in **, they were also distressed. Just tell me, let me replace the second uncle.
I'm also at a loss for words. I don't want to replace it, but the second uncle disagrees, always saying that I am too young to stay up late, let me rest more, and he will guard it.
During that time, looking at the second uncle, I was really distressed.
He came back chubby, with a fleshy face and a lot of spirits.
It's been more than a week, and the person has lost weight, no energy at all, his eyes are bloodshot, and his voice has changed, and he feels a little hoarse.
In the past few days, some relatives have come, and people from the village have also come to visit grandma.
Until this day, the neighbor Uncle Baogen came over.
After grandma saw him, she was also excited.
Uncle Baogen, my father and I are both young, and they should be the same age, and the relationship is very good.
As mentioned earlier, over the years, it was my grandparents who moved from the old house to our house and lived with me. Their home is at the head of the village, which is an old residential area in our village, and there are about seven or eight families living there, but these people have all moved away now, and there are still a few elderly people living there.
Uncle Baogen's hometown is just across the street from Grandma's old house.
It is a neighbor relationship, and we get along very well, but our family has a better relationship with Uncle Baogen, on the one hand, he has a small relationship with my father, and on the other hand, it is the relationship between Uncle Baogen and his grandparents.
Because he was brought back from outside by his grandfather.
Of course, it was picked up to be precise.
Our village is called a cabbage village by several nearby villages, because in winter, almost all of the people who sell cabbage in the nearby market towns are from our village, and some people will go farther to the market town in order to sell it at a good price.
At that time, my grandfather was very young, so he ran farther.
When I came back, it was already dark, and I came down from the road, and after a few steps, I heard the cry of a baby, and my grandfather ran over to see what was going on, and then I found that there was a baby.
After all, grandpa couldn't bear it, so he brought it back.
But what if you bring it back?
The family already has 6 children, and the whole family is counting on my grandfather to sell cabbage to make a living, which is already difficult.
But once a person is brought back and wants to send it away, it will be difficult.
The grandmother was distressed and felt that the child's life was already very bitter, and it would be unreasonable to send the child out again.
Grandma didn't agree to send it out again.
But if you stay at home, the situation can be imagined.
At this time, Li Lao came to talk to his grandfather.
Li Laogui was shouted by his grandfather, and the age difference between the two of them was not very much, but the neighbor opposite his grandmother's house, which was later Uncle Baogen's adoptive father.
As soon as a few people discussed, they gave Uncle Baogen to Li Laogui and asked him to raise him.
Li Laogui has 3 daughters and no sons, and his daughter-in-law is old, and she may not be able to give birth later.
said that Li Laogui was adopted, but many times, grandma's love for Uncle Baogen has never been less.
At that time, my father had just been born not long ago, so sometimes when breastfeeding, Li Laogui would also bring Uncle Baogen over and let him eat a bite too.
It can be said that at that time, my grandmother was raising two children, one was my father and the other was Uncle Baogen.
Later, as I grew up, the conditions at home gradually improved, and my grandmother also had the energy to make some clothes and shoes.
I forget what year it was, I already have a memory at that time, the uncle bought a TV from outside, and during the Chinese New Year, Uncle Baogen and I sat on the bed watching TV, and my grandmother took out peanuts for us to eat, and asked Uncle Baogen to eat more.
Grandma looked at Uncle Bogan a bit like she looked at my father.
At that time, my father was also gone for a few years.
Slowly, everyone got busy, and when the days were busy, they didn't see each other for a long time.
Later, they both got married, and they saw each other less often. Uncle Baogen is still capable, married and lives in the county, has his own small business, and has a good life, but every year at the end of the year to go home for the New Year, every year on the first day of the New Year, he will bring his daughter-in-law and children to my grandparents to pay New Year's greetings.
I remember the year when my grandfather left, Uncle Baogen couldn't cry anymore, and he kept accompanying his grandmother in the house, and the tears kept falling.
In fact, Uncle Baogen knows his life experience, he knows everything, he understands everything.
The village is so big, what secrets can be hidden from the neighbors? I guess Uncle Baogen has known his life experience since he was a child.
Of course, this is not important, he is living a good life now, he has a wife and children, which is much better than the average person.
After my grandmother was hospitalized, a few relatives came, and we thought it was over, but who knew that Uncle Baogen was coming.
He brought a lot of stuff, food and drink, even a toothbrush and so on.
When he came up, he blamed my second uncle, saying that there was such a big thing in the family, and the second uncle didn't know how to say it, besides, this is in the county seat, and he lives in the county seat, why don't you say it?
The second uncle smiled and said that he had stabilized and was about to be discharged from the hospital, so there was no need to notify.
But Uncle Baogen was obviously angry, and looked at the second uncle's haggard appearance, and didn't say anything, he just said that he would come to keep vigil for the next few nights.
The second uncle naturally disagreed, "How can this work, you still have business, hurry up and go home, this is about to be discharged from the hospital, nothing serious." ”
But no matter what you say, Uncle Bao Gen seems to have made up his mind that he must keep a vigil here.
At a little after seven o'clock in the evening, Aunt Baogen came over and brought a casserole with pork ribs in it. She gave her grandmother a bowl of soup and fed her spoonful by spoonful.
Grandma was embarrassed after all, so she had to take the bowl.
Aunt Baogen told her to just drink the soup and don't worry about the rest.
This night, after the second uncle and Uncle Baogen stalemate for a few moments, they didn't twist him and went to sleep, and so did I.
This night, the second uncle slept very deeply, and his snoring was relatively loud.
At night, I woke up once and saw Uncle Baogen sitting on the small stool in front of the hospital bed, looking at my grandmother and my phone.
He also brought the stool, and it seemed that he had made adequate preparations.
Early the next morning, when I woke up, I saw porridge and buns on the table, I thought it was bought by the second uncle, but later I learned that it was bought by Aunt Baogen, she went to work in the morning, passed by the hospital, and directly bought it and sent it over.
The second uncle obviously slept well and was in a lot of energy.
Last night, the second uncle asked Uncle Baogen to leave, but Uncle Baogen was not happy, and kept saying that he should stay for a few nights, "Look at how you have boiled up, change me to keep it for a few nights, let's replace it, and we won't be so tired!" ”
The second uncle said a lot of kind words, but he couldn't resist him after all.
Bao Gen said, "Let me keep it for a few nights, just for these nights." ”
Suddenly, I felt that Uncle Baogen was very real, he had been guarding his grandmother here, and asked his daughter-in-law to make pork rib soup or make dumplings and send them over, which was simply unexpected.
Good thoughts, just a thought.
Back then, the grandfather was only late to come back, and when he heard the child's crying, he hugged him back, and the grandmother couldn't bear to send it away again, so she helped take care of it.
But in fact, I have been taking care of it all this time, feeding her, and the rest is taken care of by Li Laogui's family.
It's just that after so many years, Uncle Baogen is still like that. Every year during the Chinese New Year, they bring their wives and children to our house to pay New Year's greetings to grandma, and even when they are in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, they have just arrived home from the county seat, and after eating, they will still come to take a look, talk to grandma, and then leave.
I can't put that feeling into words.
Every time Uncle Baogen and his grandmother meet, they are very cordial, like relatives who have not seen each other for a long time, and the two of them hold hands very tightly and keep talking. Grandma asked him about his hard work this year, and he asked grandma about his body this year.
After all these years, it is still the same.
Half a month later, my grandmother was discharged from the hospital, and Uncle Baogen drove my grandmother home.
He bought a lot of things, all of which he kept for his grandmother, and when he left, he said to his second uncle, "You go back to work first, and I only need to go back to my hometown in the future, so I can come and see our mother, you can rest assured." ”
Uncle Bao Gen left, and when he left, Grandma leaned against the wall and watched him leave.
It is said that it is a neighbor, but in fact, to a certain extent, it is not a family member.
Everyone is a person who came from that difficult era, and this relationship is always a little better than that of ordinary people.
To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself!