In life, there will always be moments when we find ourselves in the midst of a crowd as if we are alone.
Our opinions, our choices, and even our pain and confusion do not resonate and understand our friends. Their perfunctory is like cold raindrops, seeping into the depths of our hearts drop by drop, the so-called cold heart, but that's it, right?
Everyone wants to be understood and recognized. If you agree with me, I will be happy, if you disagree with me, I will become a bar, or make a note in my heart, and if you accumulate more, you will no longer be on the same team as me. That's human nature, we're born that wayAsking for approval is not the same as hypocrisy.
Some people understand that it is a blessing for people, and people who have the same three views are free and casual when they get along, chat without scruples, and do things without too many rules. However, with the continuous growth of people, the three views of life, values, and world view will slowly change. Maybe a certain sentence into the heart, experiencing something, or even having an illness will completely change a person.
Because people are fickle, soThere is no need to for"Gregarious"These two words, to wronged yourselfThere is no need to force yourself to accept the truth of others, suppress your own thoughts, and even fall into endless reflection after suffering from incomprehension, misunderstanding, or even wrong accusations, and think that you are wrong whenever there is a conflict.
There are many moments in life when we are destined to face dilemmas that no one understands. It's a painful reality, but it's also a challenge that we must accept. This is more of a norm, an ordinary thing, not a special one.
Understanding is a precious thing. Sometimes, it takes a long time to build up; Sometimes, it pops up again in a split second, illuminating the whole world like sunshine.
Most people have the illusion that their lives can change if they change their environment. Maybe there is this possibility, after all, the story of Meng's mother's three migrations is well-known. But seeking understanding is another matter.
The pursuit of a moment of spiritual communication is more difficult than winning the lottery. Winning the lottery only needs to pay for this action, the pursuit of being understood, the cost of communication, and the disappointment after countless expectations are disappointed, but it is even more frustrating.
But whether it is the understanding that has been slowly accumulated over time, or the connection in that moment, they have given us strength and courage to move forward firmly on the road of life.
We can only learn to be as tolerant as possible of other people's incomprehension. As the saying goes"Slow things down", When it comes to the present, don't be in a hurry to calculate, let it dry and then talk about it, no matter what you understand or notIf you can't eat hot tofu and cold salad in a hurry, you can cross the influence of emotions, skip disputes that you don't understand each other, and avoid grievances and anger, which is a kind of life wisdom
Everyone has their own cognitive limitations and emotional biases, and sometimes our opinions and choices can be difficult for others to understand and accept. In this case, we cannot force others to understand and agree, and of course we cannot deny ourselves because of this.
We need to trust our own judgments and choices, while also respecting the views and positions of others. Only in this way can we build deeper interpersonal relationships based on mutual understanding and respect. "Understand", more often than not, represents a long time and an incomparably slow accumulation.
In this ever-changing world, each of us is constantly searching for our place and value. It is a blessing in the world for someone to understand, and it is a blessing for everyone to be calm and alone。Let us firmly follow our own path in the journey of life and bravely pursue our dreams and goals. Even in the face of adversity and loneliness, maintain inner peace and firmness. Because only in this way can we shine our own light on the stage of life.