1.The conditions for choosing a mate are specific and realistic.
The conditions for women to choose a mate are more specific and harsh, and they consider and pay more attention to practical issues, especially economic aspects. For example, many women now have a house and a car as a necessary condition for choosing a mate, and some will also consider whether to live with each other's parents after marriage, take care of the elderly in the future, and so on. Women think about marriage and life after marriage when looking for a boyfriend, while men focus on their current feelings about love.
2.Sit back and enjoy the psychology.
As the saying goes, "It's better to marry well than to do well." "When choosing a mate, some women sit back and enjoy the psychology of success. They don't think about how to create wealth with their own hands, thinking that it is too tiring, and always want to marry a rich man while they are young and bleaching, and live a rich life as a rich wife from now on. For example, at present, some women are "looking for big money" and "fishing for golden beetles" are manifestations of this psychology.
3.The rational color of mate selection is relatively heavy.
Many women tend to prefer men who are either talented, or sunny, humorous, or honest, career-minded. When choosing a mate, women are more interested in the man's personality, temperament, talent, conduct and other internal qualities than his appearance and figure. Women have a low sense of security, and like men who can be trusted and relied on, and men who can comfort her mentally, emotionally, and psychologically.
4.The mate selection conditions are harsh and the pursuit of perfection is too much.
Many women often idealize love too much, and demand perfection when choosing a mate, and the mate selection conditions sometimes seem very harsh, and some are even out of reality. If you want your boyfriend's eyes to be like Wang Leehom, his nose to be like Jiao Enjun, his lips to be like Wu Yanzu, his face to be like Edison Chen, and his body to be like Liu Xiang. In this way, he artificially narrowed the scope of his mate selection. They are picky when it comes to choosing a mate, and they don't look down on most men. Some women have stepped into the ranks of older young people, still adhering to the established standards of mate selection conditions and refusing to revise the requirements, which seems to be more willful and easy to drill.
5.Comparison and herd mentality.
Due to women's self-esteem and vanity, women often have a comparison mentality when choosing a mate. For example, if several of her little sisters' boyfriends are handsome, she will worry that choosing a boyfriend with average appearance will be looked down upon by her sisters, so she sets the criteria for choosing a handsome mate. Women have a strong herd mentality, and if their companion's lovers are bank clerks, programmers, company executives, etc., and her boyfriend is an ordinary clerk, she will feel that she can't pick up her head in front of them. Therefore, she needs to compare herself in order to show off in front of her peers, who will be envious and jealous.