It's been 10 years since I divorced my ex-husband, Lixia. I didn't expect that ten years later, he would actually think of me and bring a box of big pears directly to the city where I live now. The moment I opened the box, memories flooded over me, and mixed feelings filled my heart.
When I opened the wooden box, I thought it was the clothes I bought online. I didn't expect that there were dozens of big pears neatly stacked inside, all of which were my favorite pears. "Lixia, a stinky man, how do you remember that I like Wang Li the most? It's unimaginable! I said to myself.
I sent a message to Lixia: "Received the pear, thank you." How are you doing? ”
I haven't been in touch for 10 years, won't I be mistaken by my current husband by suddenly sending fruit? "I typed and deleted, deleted and typed.
Looking at a box of crystal clear pears, my heart was excited and complicated. Lixia and I divorced after 7 years of marriage, but I didn't expect that 10 years later, he still misses me and knows my favorite fruit. For a while, my mind was full of bits and pieces of being with him. Now that I have remarried, and Lixia has a new family, will his move make my husband misunderstand?
I carefully held a pear in my hand, washed it, cut it, and the sweet fruity aroma immediately filled the kitchen. The familiar sweet and sour taste of the king pear, which I haven't tasted for many years, immediately exploded in my mouth, and I couldn't help but exclaim: "It's so sweet, Lixia, this guy, how can you remember that I love to eat super sweet pears!" "While eating, I took a picture of this box of exquisite king pears with my mobile phone. The sparkling flesh refracted the light under the lamp, shining like the jewelry that Lixia gave me.
Aunt Lina was a little surprised and said:"Such a good pear, was it given by your ex-husband? You two have such a good relationship, and you are still so old after divorce. "
I explained:"Maybe he's doing better. We haven't been in touch for ten years, and I didn't expect him to remember me. "
Haven't been in touch for ten years? How does he still know your current address? Could it be a deliberate attempt to sow discord between you and your current husband? "Aunt Lina asked suspiciously.
I smiled and said:"Probably not, I heard that he is married and has children. According to his character, he just sent it by hand, and there should be no other meaning. "
Aunt Lina's series of questions made me feel a little weak. I've been out of touch with Lixia for so many years, but I still can't help but think of our past. How do I explain to my husband where these pears come from? Or should you ruin Lixia's message, quietly dispose of these pears, and pretend that nothing happened? I shook my head, I shouldn't have taken an evasive attitude. Maybe I should find an opportunity to explain the ins and outs of the matter to my husband.
Aunt Lina took the pear, looked at it, and kept admiring it:"Oops, this pear is so big, it's the size of a fist, all of them are so beautiful and sturdy, they look like good pears! "She flexibly put the crystal clear pears into the bag, and a happy expression appeared on her face. I know that Aunt Lina's family is not good, and she usually can't eat such good fruits, and I am also relieved to see her happy. At least these pears fulfilled her.
As soon as I got home from work that day, I saw my husband with a black face in the living room. There was still the empty pear box on the table.
What is this? Someone else gives you a courier pear? "My husband asked me in an unkind tone.
I thought to myself, it must have been my aunt who told my husband. So I honestly confessed:"This was sent by my ex-husband Lixia, who went to my hometown some time ago and bought some pears by the way and sent them over. Nothing else. "
What does it mean nothing else? "The husband roared"You've been divorced for ten years, how can he still remember the address of your home? I'll send you such a valuable fruit! What exactly does he want to do? "
I explained:"Maybe it's just remembering that I used to like to eat this kind of pear, and I don't think it means anything else. And I've already given away all the pears. "
You also specially give pears to eat? "My husband stood up and pointed to my nose and said"You don't keep such good pears for yourself, but share them with others? I think you want to take this opportunity to hook up with that ex-husband again! "
I was so scared when I saw my husband so angry. I just passively received the pear, but I gave him such a big misunderstanding. I thought about hiding it from him, but in the end I chose to tell the truth. I really didn't mean to reconnect with Rixia, but my husband kept sticking a knife in his heart, which made me sad. What should I do with this? For a while, countless thoughts came to my mind, and I felt at a loss.
I tried to calm myself down and calmly said to my husband, "Don't get excited, I have no intention of reconnecting with Rixia at all. I've been with you wholeheartedly for the past ten years, how could I change my mind and hook up with my ex-husband halfway? You should also believe in our feelings, and don't get angry with me over some trivial things. ”
I patiently explained the cause and effect, and my husband calmed down a little, but his face was still ugly. I saw that he was still worried about this matter in his heart, so I took the initiative to propose: "This matter is indeed a bit strange, I will also contact Lixia to ask his purpose clearly, so that you don't suspect me every day, and our relationship will also be affected." You say, don't you? ”
I called Lixia a ** and asked him directly: "What do you mean by suddenly giving me fruit?" My current husband is very concerned about this, and he is afraid that you have other intentions. What the hell is going on? ”
Lixia seemed surprised by my question, and was stunned for a moment and said: "Fruit is just fruit, I passed by your hometown some time ago, and I saw Shaxian Wang Pear remembered that you love to eat, so I bought some and sent it over." It was just a whim, why did your husband react so much? ”
I explained: "We have been disconnected for 10 years, and it is inevitable that there will be misunderstandings when such a valuable fruit is suddenly delivered. Is there any other purpose? Or is there something wrong with your relationship with your wife, thinking about me, my ex-wife? ”
Lixia laughed: "Hahaha, my wife and I have a good relationship, there is no problem." As for the fruit, I ask you, have I given you anything else in the past 10 years? ”
I thought for a moment and shook my head, "Not really." ”
That's right. Lixia said, "I just remembered that you still like to eat this, so I bought it and sent it over, and it didn't mean anything else." Don't be careful. ”
After listening to Lixia's explanation, I was relieved. It turned out that my husband and I were too worried, and Lixia was really just a fruit that I bought. Thinking of my husband's various cynicism towards me these days, I feel a little angry. But on second thought, this matter is indeed strange, and it is normal for him to be a little suspicious. It's just that there really isn't any possibility between Rixia and me, and I have to try to convince my husband of this.
I hung up on **, immediately went to my husband, and told him Lixia's explanation as it was. The husband frowned, listened without saying a word, and then was silent for a long time.
After a long time, he muffled and said, "Maybe I'm too careful." But the ex-wife and the current wife appeared at the same time, and no one could accept it. ”
I walked over and took his hand and whispered, "Honey, I understand how you feel. As long as we believe that there is no possibility between me and Lixia, we can get through this difficult time. ”
The husband let out an absent-minded "um", his eyes glazed off. I knew he still needed time to accept this, so I didn't say anything more for a while, and sat quietly with him.
After a few days, her husband finally regained his strength and no longer had any worries about the fruit sent by Lixia. One day at dinner, he suddenly said, "Wife, I actually figured it out." Lixia and you have been divorced for so many years, and there is no longer any possibility. What if he suddenly gives you fruit? What should have happened has happened, and I shouldn't be so stingy. ”
I was so happy that I hurriedly said, "Great, you finally believe that I didn't have an affair with him." I knew you'd understand! ”
The husband nodded and said, "Actually, I am also responsible, I have been under too much pressure at work recently, and you are busy taking care of the elderly and children, I have ignored your feelings for a long time." This Lixia fruit delivery made me realize that both husband and wife need to care about each other. ”
Right! That's right! I said excitedly, "No one can expect such a thing as divorce." But as long as we support and understand each other, we can get through any difficulties! ”
The husband smiled and said, "Just now my mother called ** and said that she would hold a solo exhibition next week, so let's support her." I'll book a hotel for two nights later, and just the two of us will spend a little long vacation alone. ”
Listening to my husband's gentle words, my heart warmed. What happened this week made me realize that divorce can be a wound for anyone, and even if Lixia and I have long been separated, it still accidentally touched the most fragile nerve in my current husband's heart. Thankfully, the misunderstanding was quickly cleared up and our relationship was strengthened. I haven't been alone with my husband for a long time, and I must love him well during this long vacation, so that he can really let go of his doubts and regain his trust and sense of security.
In the next few days, I took care of his daily life and made him feel warm after work. On the morning of leaving, I deliberately spent 2 hours dressing up and doing makeup and hair. When my husband saw me delicately and beautifully, he was surprised and said, "Wow, it's been a long time since I've seen you so fancy!" It's like we're going back to when I was in college, and I'm chasing you. As he spoke, his eyes were only full of tenderness.
The two days and one night of the small long holiday was perfect. We went to the art museum and stood in front of the exhibition of my husband's mother's new paintings, and we were sincerely proud of her. We walked hand in hand through the blooming park, counting how old the cherry blossom trees were. We made out in the big bed of the hotel, lingering like young lovers.
On the morning of leaving, I asked my husband, "How was this little vacation?" ”
He smiled and hugged me and kissed me on the top of the head: "It's amazing, it's like going back to the frivolous days of my early twenties." Thank you, my dear, for helping me come out of the shadows, allowing me to regain my trust in you and find the feeling of first love. ”
I was also very moved: "I'm also very glad that the misunderstanding was quickly resolved and our relationship went further." I shouldn't be jealous of my ex anymore, right? ”
Of course not! The husband said firmly.
This small long vacation allowed my husband and I to regain the sweetness and tacit understanding of our newlyweds. Walking in the sea of flowers, time seems to slow down, and the lingering night deepens our bonds. It's been a long time since I've seen him look so relaxed. With this misunderstanding, it played a catalytic role in the relationship, and my husband and I will cherish each other more from now on, spend more time communicating and avoid trivial things affecting our emotions.
As I was leaving, I packed my bags and suddenly saw a pear on the table. The husband smiled and said, "This is still a pear sent by Lixia, right?" It's so well preserved, let's take it home for the kids to taste. ”
I looked up at him in surprise and saw that my husband's face was clearly written with tolerance and relief. He actually took the initiative to mention Lixia, and it seems that he did let down his guard from the bottom of his heart. I was so relieved that I reached out and grabbed my husband's arm and stood side by side with him, looking out the window at the bright sun.
I looked at my husband's face with relief and relief. This long vacation not only enhanced the relationship and understanding between us, but also allowed me to see the mature and stable side of my husband's heart.
When I got home, I excitedly washed the last pear, cut it into small pieces, and gave it to the children.
Mom, this pear is so fragrant, and it's so crisp and sweet! The eldest son said as he ate.
What fruit trees? The children asked curiously.
Pear trees, of course! I said, "So this old friend of my father went to his hometown a few days ago, and when he saw a ripe pear, he remembered your father, so he bought a box and sent it over." How are pears, are pears good? ”
It's delicious! The children slurred and said, "They must have had a lot of fun when they were kids!" ”
Then the three of them talked about the past of their husband and Lixia together. I sat quietly and listened, occasionally adding drinks and fruit to them.
After a while, my husband suddenly came to me and sat down, took my hand and whispered, "Wife, thank you for making me understand that the old feelings and friendships do not fade away due to the change of time and place. I'm too narrow-minded, I'm really sorry to suspect you because of a small act by Lixia. ”
The husband nodded, a relieved expression on his face. I know that there is no problem in his heart, and this is a kind of maturity for him and me.
Husband, shall we go to your hometown next time? I haven't seen Lixia yet! I suddenly proposed.
The husband was stunned for a moment, but quickly regained his smile and said, "Okay, it just so happens that Lixia has just moved back to his hometown to settle down, and we will go to see him together when the time comes!" ”
I was so happy that I leaned gently into my husband's arms. At this moment, I deeply felt the beauty of life, and I also firmly believed in the brightness and breadth of human nature. Some misunderstandings come and go as fast as a storm, and when the clouds clear, the sun will eventually shine on the earth again.
I happily combed my hair and stood in front of a full-length mirror admiring myself. Today, my husband and I are finally going to visit Lixia in his hometown, and this trip means a lot to us.
Mom, you look so pretty! The daughter exclaimed.
yes, it's like a newlywed trip! The eldest son also said with a smile.
I laughed and joked with them, but my heart was full of anticipation and joy.
Husband, your old house is in front, right? I asked.
Ah, just turn a corner ahead. The husband nodded and said, "My mom is already waiting for us!" ”
Sure enough, turning the corner, an elegant and traditional courtyard house appeared in front of me. The courtyard door was wide open, and her husband's gray-haired mother stood at the door waving to us, her eyes full of love.
My son is home! The old man opened his arms, and the husband strode over and hugged his mother.
Mom, we're here to see you and Lixia! The husband said happily.
The old uncle on the side also came to greet us with a smile. It turned out that this was Lixia's father and her husband's uncle.
Lixia's family lived diagonally across from her husband's old house. When we rested at her husband's house, Rixia and his wife and children came to visit.
Yo, I haven't seen my relatives for a long time! Lixia said heartily, and then walked over to greet me.
I was a little embarrassed but also happy, and I exchanged pleasantries with him. Lixia's family is happy, and his wife has a good temper. I was glad to find out that Lixia really just thought of me as an old friend who could easily talk to me. This made me very happy, and I also felt a little sorry for my husband's suspicion at the beginning. However, everything has already crossed the bridge.
In the evening, several of us sang songs with flashlights in the courtyard of the old house. The husband and Lixia raised their glasses aloft to the reunion; The adults talked about the trivialities of the past; The children sat and listened with relish.
In the dead of night, my husband and I sat on small rocking chairs in the yard and got drunk. My husband put his arm around my shoulders and whispered in my ear, "Thank you, my dear, for letting me understand that the feelings I once had will not be forgotten because of the separation of life." Seeing Lixia and his wife and children today, I am really happy that he is doing well. This visit to my hometown reminded me of a lot of beautiful old days, and I also saw the preciousness of life now. ”
My heart warmed and I gently stroked his hand. The past is like a reflection in the water, it cannot be real; Now is the precious life that really exists. Being grateful for everything we have, cherishing the people in front of us, and living in the moment is the best gesture between me and you.