Men and women will no longer cherish after having a relationship, this view and conclusion is almost rotten on the street, and it has almost become a common gender experience and cognition of women to men.
There are even many women who deliberately prolong the pursuit and push and pull time of the relationship in order not to let men get it easily, and deliberately let men increase the cost of pursuit.
As for whether men and women will not cherish it after they have a relationship? This needs to be divided into two and looked at from the two positions of men and women, and not only the characterization of men. After having a relationship with a woman, you will no longer cherish it, and from a male point of view, there are several possibilities:
First, a man chooses a sex partner very casually, which is similar to going to a public toilet to pee.
Second, the sexual experience is relatively bad, and it is better to *** yourself*** is like eating a dish, the first bite is difficult to swallow, and you will never eat the second bite.
Third, it is true that many men just want sex, not feelings, and at first give and value to women just to speed up the relationship. After having a relationship, the enthusiasm immediately cooled down, and the dedication immediately declined.
Fourth, white prostitution and low-cost holding are one of human nature, and this does not discriminate between men and women.
Fifth, after having a relationship, a good sexual experience itself will turn the situation of the relationship, especially if the man is sexually strong, the woman will be willing to stay in the relationship even if he does not give, and even in turn will drive the woman to give.
Sixth, the essence of this relationship is only sexual attraction, and there is no emotional chemistry that takes place, so there is no responsibility for the man because of the affection because of love.
Seventh, this man has a tendency to avoid feelings and is afraid that the relationship will go deeper, so he puts the relationship on the sexual level.
From a woman's point of view, there are several possibilities:
First, the fantasy of love in the relationship between the sexes has too high expectations for men, and the reality is always cruel and ugly than the fantasy, and high expectations are destined to be easy to disappoint.
Second, overestimating oneself, being overly narcissistic, and feeling that as soon as I fall in love, I will be regarded as a treasure by a man and a pearl in my palm. In fact, the most cherished period for many women is the pursuit period, and after the pursuit period, the relationship is downhill.
Third, there is only sexual attraction, no personality charm, no emotional attraction, no brain, so the thing that one plus one is greater than two is greater than three does not happen.
Fourth, after you get me, you don't cherish it anymore, which itself has the flavor of PUA and control, which is the same as if you don't love me enough, especially when you feel that you don't cherish and love me enough, no matter how good you do, behind it is greed and excessive demand for emotion and attention.
Fifth, men will not cherish it after they get it, if this becomes a deep-rooted belief and prejudice, behind it is a strong projection of not being loved.
Sixth, the defense is to cherish and give in the relationship, to examine the emotional attitude and behavior of men, not to examine their own emotional attitudes and behaviors, to ask others to be more and better, and to ask for oneself to be lackluster.
Whether you are a man or a woman, I hope that whether you have the cherishment of the other party or not, you still feel that you are very good and that you are still valuable. Instead of feeling good when you have the cherishment of the other party, you feel like you are nothing without the cherishing of the other party. Emotion