The famous scholar Yi Zhongtian has a wise saying: "There are three things in life: that is, to calm down, to bend down, and to raise your head." ”
At first glance, I felt inexplicable, but after thinking about it, I realized that it was really the case.
1.Hold your breath
Calm breath is mainly reflected in life and work.
When you have saved enough money and are ready to change cars and houses, you must calm down, don't show off to others, and you must wait until you change your car and house before telling others, otherwise, the money in your wallet will soon be remembered by others.
When you pass the written examination and can successfully enter the unit only after the interview, you must be calm, don't show off, don't shout everywhere, let everyone know, and when the dust settles and the admission list is confirmed, you can report the good news to everyone in a low-key manner.
The ancients had a good saying: "Secret is made by deeds, and leaks are defeated." ”
When everything is going well, we must hold our breath and wait for the final victory to come.
If you don't calm down and promote it with others in advance, then what was a sure thing is likely to end up in another family.
So, it's very important to be calm.
Xiao Yang has a deep understanding of this. He was ready to take the public entrance examination after graduating from college.
At that time, the number of applicants in the unit he took the exam was small, and coupled with Xiaoyang's first score in the written exam, it can be said that it was appropriate to enter the unit.
Xiaoyang also floated because of this, showing off with some good buddies and classmates.
What he didn't expect was that he was brushed off during the interview session, supposedly because of his emotional turmoil in college.
Xiaoyang really wants to cry without tears, he just talked about three relationships in college, why did he have a chaotic emotional experience?
Later, when he went to interview for a job in a large factory, he learned to be smart.
Before the admission list officially came out, he didn't say a word, and finally successfully got an offer from a large factory.
Therefore, everything must be calm, this is a key step to success.
2.Bend over
Bend down, in other words, to be humble and not be too complacent.
Xiao Cheng is talented, and since he was a child, his teacher said that he must be a pillar in the future.
Originally, there was nothing wrong with this sentence, but after Xiao Cheng heard it a lot, he began to be proud and complacent.
Because his head turns faster than others, others may be able to understand a science question that can only be understood by self-study at night, and Xiao Cheng can do it in three minutes.
So Xiao Cheng didn't pay much attention to the lecture in class, but played with his mobile phone in the teacher's class.
When he was caught by the teacher, Xiao Cheng shrugged his shoulders nonchalantly, feeling that he could be admitted to college no matter what.
No matter how hard the teacher tried to persuade him, he always promised to be good on the surface, but he still continued to do so in private.
This situation has been in this situation until the third year of high school, and Xiao Cheng's grades have retreated to the middle and lower reaches of the class.
The head teacher called the parents, and Xiao Cheng began to be anxious.
He studied hard for a few days, and soon he was at the top of his next monthly exam.
The victory came too easily, and Xiao Cheng was a little unimpressed.
When he is interested, he listens to the teacher's lessons; When I feel bored, I do my own thing.
Even if by the time he reached the third model, Xiao Cheng's grades had retreated to outside the twentieth place in the class, he still didn't care, thinking that he would work hard in the last few days.
The result can be imagined, Xiao Cheng failed in the college entrance examination, and he who has always had excellent grades can only reach the undergraduate line this time.
Xiao Cheng finally realized that he was too proud and complacent.
So during the repetition period, he learned to bend over, ask the teacher more questions that he didn't know, and began to listen carefully in class.
Finally, when the next year's college entrance examination came, he lived up to expectations and was admitted to a college in the province.
People have to bend down at all times.
3.Hold your head up
The so-called "holding up your head" means not giving up at any time, and having hope for life.
Falling to the bottom is never the scariest thing, everyone will fall to the bottom more or less so a few times, and the real scary thing is that after falling to the bottom, your head is buried, in other words, you can't lift your head.
Lincoln, the famous American leader, is a vivid example of what can be held up.
In his life, he has also had several times with fresh clothes and angry horses, and beautiful women on his side.
At that moment, the career was bumper and the love scene was proud, if this was a movie, then it should be almost the finale.
But life is not a movie, and a fulfilling life is soon met with the jealousy of God.
Lincoln not only lost his soul-compatible lover, but also frequently frustrated in the political arena.
The most serious one, the people who had been following him couldn't stand it anymore, and it was good to want Lincoln to give up like this.
But Lincoln was unwilling.
Although, it was the bottom of the dark valley where he couldn't see a single tool around him that could get him ashore.
But he still raised his head, looked at the bright moon in the sky, and thought: no matter what, he will succeed!
So he started over again, he gave speeches everywhere, he campaigned with others, the road may be bumpy, but he didn't want to give up.
In the end, the emperor lived up to his wishes, and he achieved his own success.
No matter what time you are, you must hold your head up, because life is the end until you die.