Is late marriage and late childbearing a woman's problem The drama "Know, Know, It Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin" has attracted the attention of countless audiences since it was broadcast, among which the relationship between the little grandfather Qi Heng played by Zhu Yilong and Sheng Minglan played by Zhao Liying is even more talked. Among them, the love and hatred between the little grandfather Qi Heng and Sheng Minglan touched the hearts of countless audiences.
Many viewers are regretting, why didn't this pair of golden boys and girls go to the end?
In fact, the little grandfather has a chance to marry Minglan .
The relationship between the little grandfather played by Zhu Yilong and Sheng Minglan played by Zhao Liying is very deep.
The two grew up together since childhood, childhood sweethearts, and have a deep relationship.
In the play, the little grandfather Qi Heng has stood up for Minglan many times to protect her from being bullied.
And Minglan is also grateful to the little grandfather, and the relationship between the two has long surpassed ordinary friendships.
Such an emotional foundation is actually very rare.
Why is the love between the little grandfather Qi Heng and Sheng Minglan so difficult?
The main points are as follows:
OneQi Heng's mother's opposition:
The mother of the little grandfather Qi Heng looked down on the Sheng family, she thought that the Sheng family was a small family, and a concubine with no background and no favor was not worthy of being their daughter-in-law.
Although the little grandfather Qi Heng has deep feelings for Minglan , he is always subject to his mother's opinions and family interests, and he does not have enough determination and ability to resist his mother's ideas.
IIDifferences in values and living environment:
The little grandfather Qi Heng is the little grandfather of the Qi State Mansion, the rich second generation in the capital, living in a carefree and high-minded environment.
His worldview is formed in a pollution-free and scheming environment, and he has not experienced the kind of intrigues and complex human sophistication that Minglan experienced.
For example, Qi Heng once gave Minglan a good pen, but in the end this money fell into the hands of his two sisters, Sheng Molan and Sheng Rulan.
Minglan 's two sisters knew that it was sent by the little grandfather, and they were a little disgusted with Minglan a little.
Although the little grandfather wants to protect and take care of Minglan , he doesn't really understand Minglan 's innermost needs and the situation she is facing.
IIIMinglan refused:
Although Minglan still has a little grandfather in her heart, she is a rational and sober woman.
Minglan knew that although the little grandfather was simple and kind, he lived in a greenhouse, and his selfishness and cowardice were unacceptable to Minglan and Qi Heng could not understand and deal with the complex environment and scheming intrigues she was in.
What Minglan needs is a partner who can support and protect her in complex relationships, not just empty promises and simple love.
So, how can the little grandfather marry the Minglan he likes?
First of all, the little grandfather needs to overcome the resistance from the family.
In the play, the little grandfather's mother, the county lord Niangniang, has a strong opposition to Qi Heng and Minglan marriage, which is the biggest obstacle on their emotional path.
Therefore, the little grandfather needs to firm up his position, impress his mother with sincerity and determination, and make her understand and accept her relationship with Minglan .
Secondly, the little grandfather needs to strengthen himself.
In ancient societies, marriage was often influenced by factors such as family background and social status. Although the little grandfather is from a famous family, if he wants to marry Minglan smoothly, he also needs to have enough strength and status to guarantee it.
Therefore, the little grandfather in the play passed the imperial examination and won the bargaining chip with the mother of the group leader, striving to make political achievements and create more favorable conditions for his marriage.
In addition, the little grandfather also needs to actively fight for Minglan 's heart.
In the play, Minglan has complex and subtle feelings for the little grandfather.
The little grandfather needs to impress Minglan with sincerity and patience, so that she can see her own merits and sincerity.
At the same time, the little grandfather also needs to respect Minglan 's choice and will, and don't force her to do things that she doesn't want to do.
Finally, the little grandfather also needs to be good at handling relationships with other people.
In the play, the appearance of Gu Tingye and other characters has brought many twists and turns to the relationship between the little grandfather and Minglan .
The little grandfather needs to properly handle the relationship with these people to avoid affecting his marriage with Minglan because of misunderstandings and contradictions.
If of course the little grandfather proposed to Minglan one step faster than Gu Tingye, maybe Qi Heng and Sheng Minglan would have a different ending.
The little grandfather needs to show greater independence and decisiveness, and he must be able to make his own choices at critical moments.
When King Yong forced Qi Heng to marry the county lord of Jiacheng, Qi Heng should have listened to what Gu Tingye said, and tied up the county lord of Jiacheng or made trouble with the emperor.
All in all, although the relationship between the little grandfather and Minglan did not come to the end, their story did arouse the audience's yearning for a beautiful love.