The son is not the fault of the father , Li Shuangjiang s failure in discipline has set an example

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-03-06

Mr. Li Shuangjiang, an elderly man born in the beautiful city of Harbin, has shown a deep fascination with beautiful singing and an unparalleled talent since he was a child. Whenever the loving mother who loved him listened to his simple singing voice, she could always see that smile full of happiness.

A strict father sneered at Li Shuangjiang's enthusiasm, regarded it as idleness, and even regarded him as a rebellious son. Sadly, on a sunny day when the boy was thirteen years old, he was full of enthusiasm for his father's support to learn to sing.

To everyone's surprise, in exchange for his father's severe insults and ruthless violent intimidation: if he dares to be obsessed with singing again, he will pay a terrible price - the pain of a broken leg Despite this, Li Shuangjiang still behaved strong and brave, wiped away his tears, and endured all this bravely, because that is what he loves **, even if it is painful, it is sweet.

16-year-old Li Shuangjiang resolutely left his hometown of Harbin and landed in the mysterious capital city of Beijing. With his endless love for ** and the extraordinary talent hidden deep in his body, he successfully passed the rigorous examination and was favored by the vocal music major of *** college.

In the competition of the college, Li Shuangjiang suffered the harsh challenges of life, not only the training intensity is extremely high, the schoolwork load is also quite heavy, however, despite the difficulties, he is still unswerving, with tenacity and tenacious spirit, successfully completed his studies four years later, after unremitting efforts, Li Shuangjiang, who has gone through vicissitudes, graduated from ** college, and then was sent to work in the Xinjiang Art Troupe, since then embarked on the road of real singing, began to show his pride and ambition on the stage, convey his true feelings with singing, and give back to the audience.

During this period, Li Shuangjiang met his life partner, the beautiful and intelligent Ms. Ding Ying. The charismatic Ding Ying deeply attracted the attention of Mr. Li Shuangjiang with her unique temperament and wisdom.

This beautiful love did not last long, and finally ended because the exhausted Ding Ying could not bear to take on the family responsibilities alone, although they were together for a short time, but Ding Ying gave birth to them for Li Shuangjiang, Li He, a lovely boy.

Because he was too focused on his career and ignored the needs of his family, Li Shuangjiang fell into emotional contradictions. Despite this, Li Shuangjiang did not give up, but continued to move forward and continue, and his position in the ** world became increasingly stable.

No matter how great a person is, he will eventually face setbacks, and the failed marriage experienced by Li Shuangjiang is just like a catastrophe on his ** road, leaving an indelible wound and becoming an eternal regret in his heart.

In 1988, the 51-year-old Li Shuangjiang, a charismatic singer, returned to his alma mater and was awarded the position of professor of vocal music courses. It was on this glittering college stage that Li Shuangjiang met a female student named Mengge for the first time.

As early as the beginning of Mengge's enrollment, she admired Li Shuangjiang, and for every class he taught, she always arrived at the classroom early and left shortly before the end of the course. Such casual interaction and exchange allowed the two to gradually evolve from the initial teacher-student friendship to a partner for lunch, and a bosom friend for strolling and learning art in their spare time.

The enthusiastic dream pigeon was fascinated by the latter's older but still elegant and gentle demeanor, and Li Shuangjiang was also deeply attracted by this youthful and energetic vitality.

So, in the beautiful season of 1989, Li Shuangjiang, who was over half a hundred years old, and the dream pigeon who was in Shaohua, made a vow on the top of the beautiful Laoshan Mountain, and became an eternal life companion.

This "teacher-student love", which caused heated discussions across the country at that time, is undoubtedly an eye-catching story. However, behind this growth process that accompanied Li Shuangjiang's solo love is a very sad fact: his arrogant and domineering personality gradually gave birth to Li Tianyi's negative behavior.

In 2011, Li Tianyi, who was only 17 years old, caused a traffic accident because of a driving error, and what is even worse is that he not only did not realize his fault, but instead violently attacked the victim and shouted "My father is Li Shuangjiang".

Faced with such an arrogant son, Li Shuangjiang chose to cover up. He couldn't accept his son's tyranny, thinking that it was just a child's mischievous behavior. In the end, however, it turned out that this forgiveness was not mercy but cowardice.

In 2013, Li Tianyi was accused of participating in the collective ** because of this case, this incident sentenced him to 10 years in prison, seeing his son in prison, Li Shuangjiang was full of pain, and he clearly realized that it was he who doted on his baby too much and allowed his unscrupulous behavior to cause this irreparable situation.

After the boom, Li Shuangjiang's son Li Tianyi was once again exposed to a criminal scandal, which was undoubtedly another flogging of his educational failure. Not only did he fail to train his son to be an independent and self-disciplined talent, but he also failed to guide him to establish a correct outlook on life and values.

Li Shuangjiang understands that excessive fatherly love often hurts people, and if they do not discipline their children harshly, they will suffer as frustrated as they do. Faced with the good news that his son Li Tianyi got married again and had children, Li Shuangjiang publicly expressed his hope to send his son abroad to study**.

His thoughts revealed the fact that his understanding of the seriousness of the problem needed to be improved, and when Li Shuangjiang was alone and reflected deeply, he began to regret that his love and discipline were unbalanced and not enough to restrain his son's behavior.

If it weren't for the excessive spoiling of Li Tianyi since he was a child and endlessly allowing his behavior, perhaps he would not have been able to go astray into crime. "If the son is not strict, the father is at fault", this proverb often haunts Li Shuangjiang's heart, and he knows that he has fallen short on the issue of Li Tianyi's tutoring.

Li Shuangjiang hopes that through his own painful lessons, he can ring the alarm bell of many parents in the world, avoid repeating his mistakes, and be sure to strictly enlighten their children's independent spirit and noble morals from an early age!

Looking back on his glorious life history, it is indisputable that Li Shuangjiang's outstanding position in the music scene is unmatched. From the difficult trek on the road to study, to the emergence of the Xinjiang Art Troupe, and then to the position of the top vocal music professor in China, Li Shuangjiang has successfully embarked on the road of pursuing his dream!

His beautiful and seductive melody has touched hundreds of millions of listeners and made him one of the giants of a generation. However, on the issue of tutoring, Li Shuangjiang is overshadowed. He regarded Li Tianyi as the treasure of life, but he never taught him the qualities of being strong, independent, fair and kind.

Li Shuangjiang tried his best to meet all of Li Tianyi's material needs, but he neglected the concept of being a father and failed to instill correct values and moralism in his son.

This has undoubtedly become the most unforgettable regret in Li Shuangjiang's life.

Li Shuangjiang's excessive indulgence and pampering of Li Tianyi eventually led to a tragic ending. This case of failed family education has set up a deep warning for future generations: parents should not only provide their children with the material security they need, but also pay attention to their spiritual world and moral character.

Li Shuangjiang's mistake was to devote his efforts and financial resources to satisfy Li Tianyi's material desires, but neglected to delineate his moral standards and behavioral norms. Parents must not let their children's mistakes go unchecked because they love them, but should take rational measures to correct and guide them in a timely manner.

If he had strictly adhered to moral teachings since he was a child, perhaps Li Tianyi would not have stepped into the abyss of crime. Despite the deviations in Li's approach to education, his lessons are far-reaching for every parent, designed to prevent our future generations from falling into the same trap again.

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